I am writing this to speak up for those individuals who have gone to the church for help and were…read moreturned away and who feel like speaking up is speaking against their church, but after observations made and multiple people have reached out for help and they didn't help, that someone needs to speak up! This church constantly asks its congregation to give financially--even urging people to donate to global initiatives like "Kingdom Builders" telling them to give when they cannot afford it or when its their last and those members actually giving their last; guest pastors telling people indirectly to give up their homes if they are directed to by God or asking members to give large sums of money $. Yet, when their own members face a crisis, the church offers virtually zero meaningful support, not even help with resources who can help, prays with you (hallelujah for prayer because prayer works) and then they send them on their way to deal with it alone and their only hope being that God makes a way because we all know that God always makes a way even when the church doesn't help, not even with finding resources to help sadly, but God will always make a way. Instead of real assistance, families in need are handed a prayer and a hope, and the hungry are given a single bag of mismatched canned goods that wouldn't feed a household for a single day let alone make enough meals to last a few weeks as the pastor stated (not that they are ungrateful by any means, they just would like to know what meals can be made from them is all.)
When members seek help, leadership automatically assumes they are just begging for money. They offer unsolicited financial lectures, even pressuring recent high school graduates who still need life guidance themselves causing them to feel badly and then they walk away from the church because they feel humiliated. In reality, people in crisis are often just looking for resources, guidance, or physical help because they cannot manage alone. To be written off by your home church, or treated as an irritation by a pastor where it feels like a sarcastic comment that "this has been going on for a long time," trust us that person knows this already and doesn't need a snide remark to remind them--especially for individuals dealing with a crisis or chronic illness. Pastor preaches that its in Gods time yet makes comments like this which is disheartening and hurtful to those individuals.
Furthermore, systemic support is lacking. While states like New York, Texas, North Carolina, and Georgia have resources for those in need, Florida lags severely behind despite its massive homeless population. It is heartbreaking to see unhoused individuals and families, even individuals in wheelchairs, left without basic daily living needs to sleep in the streets. We need to wake up: while local donations are shipped off to help other countries, the vulnerable families, children, and individuals right here at home are being completely abandoned and even by the churches that are being supported by members who may eventually need help too. It may not be you at this moment, but everyone eventually faces struggles at some point in life! Just know that this church won't help you, so don't bother asking for help or even for help finding resources that will help.