I knew spending 4 days with Pete at his New Year's Eve Retreat at Land of the Medicine Buddha (LoMB) would be beneficial for my physical strength, but what I did NOT expect was the increased mental /emotional strength that arose from simple but potent writing exercises. [Truth be told, I would rather do Pete's precisely instructed (and carefully observed) abdominal routine than delve into my psyche.]
The experience: serene redwoods, sweaty yoga, delicious organic food, 6 months' worth of therapy condensed into 3 nights, hiking, singing, baby elephant seals (Ano Nuevo) & much laughter.
The agenda: 6 classes in a heated room in a redwood forest with community gatherings at night. Night 1 post dinner kicked off with a Native American ceremony--Pete lighting sage, then calling to the 4 winds while we sit in a circle of 30+ people. We sing Native American chants and shake plastic "eggs" (with seeds in them for sound) and Pete beats on a custom-made drum gifted to him by Stephanie. This is "Opening Circle". After singing, each one of us discloses our name, biggest lesson of 2013, biggest intention for 2014. Note: "Closing Circle" also happened on New Year's Day after class and each participant shared what s/he was thankful for (many praises heaped upon Pete & Stephanie, who certainly deserved it and more). Other introspective exercises (based on Ana Forrest's "Fierce Medicine") included the following: 1. Write a list of what you want to change in your life. Also, think about the support systems that can be implemented to help you change. 2. Forgiveness: write a list of people to forgive. Forgiveness is not about the other person - it is the release of attention pulling you out of alignment. 3. Using Chakras as a way to assess life decisions. 4. From a TED talk - positive psychology - focus on what we have (gratitude): write a letter to a person who has profoundly influenced your life but you have never openly thanked - read it to the person within 30 days. What did this person do that made a difference in your life? Did this person do more than one thing? Does it still make you feel good? Keep a blessing/gratitude journal. 5. Write a list of things to "Let Go Of" of on a piece of paper. [The paper was then burned around 10:30p on New Year's Eve at LoMB's main meditation hall.] On NYE, we each made a vision board & occasionally danced while munching on chocolate & sparkling cider.
The attendees: diverse crowd age-wise from 20's on up. There were a number of yoga teachers, healers, a masseuse, 4 couples, 6 men total.
Our leaders: Pete & Stephanie - incredible individually and as a couple --the love, respect, playfulness they share is inspiring to witness. They created a welcoming, warm, organized space on and off the mat.
The classes: What I love about Pete's class at Yoga Tree is his thoughtful sequencing involving sun salutations, shoulder openers, multiple twists, inversions, arm balancing while invigorating us with his humor and 80's music choices. Pete does the BEST ab exercises I have yet to experience from any other yoga teacher. Most importantly, he constantly observes the class & makes individual & group corrections. He brought all that to LoMB and more. During the retreat, I learned how to best support person in handstand (stand in front, not to the side) and I made progress in arm balancing poses that had heretofore eluded me. Also, Pete made me aware that my shoulders were too far forward in upward dog so i began slowing down & focused on opening up my chest more to get my shoulders back. Day 3-- I did wheel twice & afterwards, Pete gave me an awesome shoulder/neck massage.
There were some folks (like J) who were fairly new to vinyasa yoga - Pete kept an eye on them & corrected alignment as needed. Pete remembered people's specific injuries and would caution them to observe their body in doing certain poses.
Stephanie (Pete's lovely wife who is also a teacher) also walked all around the room and gave amazing adjustments - she gave me an adjustment while I was in twisting awkward and for the first time, I didn't want to get out after 10 seconds. Stephanie also taught a beginner class and explained some basic Forrest principles like "active feet" and gave advice on squeezing gluteal muscles and tightening abs before coming up into Cobra pose. During one class, she put a gentle knee into J's back and pulled his shoulders back to get his spine straight while he was sitting. Yay.
The last class: Halfway through, Pete played MJ's "Man in the Mirror" and we all started dancing on our mats. Then, during savasana, he played Journey's "Don't Stop (Believing)" and we all sang (while lying down) and Pete did air guitar in the middle of the room.
The result: after 4 days with Pete & Stephanie, I left with a strong body, strong mind and peaceful soul. read more