If you are lucky, your child meets positive people. If you are not lucky, your child might suffer being bullied and thrown out of the camp unfairly. In the case of being bullied, they don't investigate. Aggression, lack of pedagogy experience, money/marketing-oriented, untrained staff, letter reminder for paying tips, swim goggle lost once twice three times....
Thursday afternoon, I went to pick up my 6-year-old son at 4 pm. I was told that my son hit two girls in the group. An office admin lady explained to me first that my son hit the two girls without reasons, then the sports teacher came, my son bit the sports teacher, then two administration women came, he hit them too. I was guided to the sports teacher. The office administrator, the sports teacher, and the two administration women described not the same and some added the girl eye's area turned red because of the hit which later my son explained it was not from his hit, but from other games before. The sports teacher said that on Friday my son isn't allowed to come because of his misbehavior and that I should go to the office they will calculate my refund for Friday. I went to the ground level office reception. The ladies in the reception shows completely shocked and refuse the refund (later they agreed, it might take 8 weeks). They emphasized that the misbehavior of my son was the reason he is not allowed to come on Friday without refund. On the spot, I asked the 6-year-old why he hit the girls. He was just angry and didn't want to speak. He is a 6-year-old boy and boys normally develop language skills slower than girls. I asked QC Camp staff what happened between the two girls and my son. They insisted my son hit the two girls WITHOUT any reasons. You don't hit people without a reason. What is the ground reason that my son hit the two girls? I want to know. They promised they will investigate and call me on Friday. Nobody called me. Before 4 PM the camp finishes, I called in. A sports teacher explained that my son hit the two girls without any reasons, that most importantly he hit the sports teacher which he wasn't allowed to continue the camp anymore. What is the missing link? What happened before my son hit the two girls? The sports teacher said nothing happened before, everything was fine. During the long peaceful weekend, I got a clear picture. The 6-year-old boy got verbally bullied since long (my son said 10 days, but I believe for this age it means couple of days). Why he hit the two girls was because the two girls kept saying "you are too weak" even he said many times "stop". In the beginning, it was only one girl said: "you are too weak" and he ignored. Then 2 girls started to say "you are too weak". The first girl told the other kids "Everybody say, XXX, you are too weak". Day by day nearly all the girls said "you are too weak". From the QC Camp investigation, they missed this important link -- Bully. Or probably for QC Camp nobody has ever realized such unimportant trifles. Anyhow the problem was done for the QC Camp by throwing the boy out of the camp. Why the girls said "you are too weak"? The kids were playing free play Boys catching Girls without adult instructions in the afternoon sport time. The sports teacher was busy with the mobile phone and other things. As long as no big things happened, the kids played freely. Saying someone else too weak day by day wasn't a big thing. No adult cared about or even noticed verbally bully happening since days. Or the counselors, the sports teachers, the lifeguards, etc. are without training and too young to realize that Bully was going on. They are younger than 24 and some even 16 years old. Most likely they don't have much experience with kids yet.
I admit that it was my son's fault to hit the girls first and later the adults. Kids don't lie. In the meanwhile, I wonder what made the 6-year-old to hit the tall sports male teacher. The boy must have felt unfairness and injustice from the sports teacher, neglected and no supports from any adults from QC Camp staff.
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