I had one child here and he loved it. I know that should probably be all that matters but the reality is that as parents of preschoolers, we practically spend as much time in preschool as they do, especially if it happens to be a co-op like TOPS.
There were many reasons why I didn't put my other children at TOPS. First, the two's program was terrible. They subscribed so much to the 'let every child grow at their own pace' that they felt it was okay to leave my child standing in a corner of the playground everyday for a month because 'every child develops differently'. Really?! I'm pretty sure some encouragement and guidance wouldn't have hurt his 'growing process'!
Second: because it was a co-op, parent participation is mandatory and heavily penalized if you try to get out of it. This is both good and bad. Being required to be in the classroom every month means you get to see your child and their friends in that setting. However, not all the required parent time is spent in the classroom. They also have many mandatory parent commitments such as fundraiser, maintenance (euphemism for cleaning), and 'committee work'. This means a lot of time out of the parent. And, some parents are really gung-ho. So much so, that volunteer committee chairs and board members can become irrational, power mongering, control freaks who believe that just because they have all the time in the world with nothing else going on except life in this particular preschool, that the same should go for you.
Lastly, after looking around at MANY other preschools, I found that for a co-op, their prices were not any more reasonable than schools that did not have mandatory participation. I now have my child at a preschool that costs roughly the same, but I am not required to work once a month, participate in a 4 hour 'maintenance" day once a year, and give at least 16 hours of time to a specific committee. That, and I don't have to deal with overzealous, controlling, power-crazed stay-at-home moms. read more