My significant other and I were in a relationship bind and our issues were giving us both a great amount of anxiety that was driving us apart. But we very much didn't want that - we wanted a healthy way to move through them.
Zeph patiently navigated our issues and held up a mirror in a direct yet loving manner showing each of us why we approached relationships the way we do, in such a way that we were grateful to walk away with new discoveries about ourselves and behaviors to put in action. The insights and new behaviors we established required practice, holding one another accountable (lovingly of course), vulnerability and more in-the-moment awareness so we could overcome issues that got in the way of us recommitting to a full-on loving relationship.
Zeph conveyed an authenticity, a friendly directness, and an intuition that I have not seen in past therapists. We accomplished our goals in a handful of sessions: understanding the issue, forgiveness, and starting to rebuild trust. We also learned a great amount about self-worth, 5:1 communication, understanding the role fear played in our lives.
My partner and I often refer back to the therapy insights Zeph shared with us - we continue to commit to becoming the best possible partner and our best possible selves. I'm grateful that Zeph was able to establish a strong enough rapport with us both and provide the amazing insights that led to a huge shift in our dynamic. I'm also impressed that I was able to come to a place of forgiveness and more acceptance about issues that led us to Zeph in the first place - I never thought it'd come so quick!
We are so happy we saw Zeph -- we're stronger and more loving than ever before. read more