I remember a friend describing a first dance she witnessed as "really, really, awkward." When I got engaged (introvert + introvert) I was terrified that we would be that couple. We took a group lesson (only two other couples!) and a private lesson. Our dance was elegant and simple, and it left our guests either smiling or sobbing. I think it put everyone in a dancing mood because there was quite a dance party to follow!
Just do the dance lessons. I highly recommend going with Angela! read more