If my wife and I had not decided to work with Douglas and Olivia, our relationship would have ended…read moreon an extremely nasty note. We were initially attracted to them precisely because they operate as a team - as my dad once told me "a marriage counselor either takes sides or is ineffective". The very first time we met, one of the first things they told us was that they had no idea whether or not they could save our relationship (nor whether it was worth saving), but that if we worked with them, we would understand what went wrong - and help to ensure we didn't make the same mistakes in the future. One of the first exercises they offered to us was a list of questions to ask your partner BEFORE getting married - most of the items (which dealt with very basic beliefs) had never occurred to us, but were clearly important to determining whether or not there was a fundamental incompatibility with your partner. This exercise alone, if taught to people embarking on their first mature relationships, would eliminate a phenomenal degree of heartbreak in the world. As other reviewers have mentioned, Douglas and Olivia are a joy to speak with (sessions only rarely "feel like counselling"). Their manner and personalities encourage open and honest communication, and facilitate difficult or sensitive discussions to a frankly amazing degree. Whether or not they can help salvage your relationship, you will be a better partner (and person in general) after working with them.

Douglas and Olivia are amazing, seriously! My husband and I (25 years) gained so much by having an…read moreexperienced couple who are walking the walk/talking the talk about living together happily and productively. It was such a joy to work with this wonderful couple who brought a deep intelligence, compassion and hope into our lives, while teaching us how to understand ourselves and each other better, in order to interact more harmoniously. They inspired us to learn more about how we each live in the world and we experienced a lot of personal growth quickly. We thoroughly enjoyed our sessions with them immensely because they were able to make the work fun. We could laugh at ourselves in a non-judgmental way, and learn to make better choices. They communicated so well as to the "issues" and helped us discover the way to make needed changes, painlessly. The whole experience was completely enlightening and I highly recommend them to any couple or individual in need of creating a better relationship with a spouse or significant other and/or having healthier/more profound relationships with others and even themselves -- You cannot help but experience deep personal growth in the process. Since working with them, we have continued along that path to better self awareness/understanding and have sustained healthier interactions overall. They provided us with some great tools, strategies, information to use all the time. If you are looking for a way through an unhealthy and/or unhappy relationship, or relationships, or just want to understand yourself better and why people react to you as they do or why you react the way you do, you owe it to yourself to contact Douglas and Olivia!

Robin is a fantastic professional, with integrity, honesty and a well of knowledge in human…read morerelationships, family dynamics and parenting. She is capable of very rapidly detecting the areas that need attention and from there provide guidance and techniques that enable quick and very material improvements. We feel very fortunate to have worked with her.

Over the decades, I've been to many therapists. Looking back, I always enjoyed the visits because…read morethey mostly told me what I wanted to hear. With Robin, I finally realized that what I got from the others was not transformative. I respect and appreciate Robin for her professionalism and integrity. Not only did she tell me the truth, she gave me plan that has put me on a path to true healing and transformation. I feel she saved my life but more than that, put me on a path to real happinesses

Chaela helped me and my sweetheart navigate through a very challenging communication issue. Instead…read moreof continuing to get stuck in the same highly charged argument, we were able to deeply hear each other's perspectives, forgive injuries we inflicted on each other, re-connect in a heartfelt way, and come up with some solutions for avoiding that argument in the future.

Chaela is a very wise and competent couples therapist. I refer couples to her often. I trust her…read moreand know that she has a high level of training, knowledge, and experience when it comes to helping clients navigate challenges in relationships with their significant others. I recommend her highly.

Estee gave us practical tools that we could actually use in everyday situations. Instead of just…read moretalking about problems, we learned how to solve them together. We're more patient, understanding, and connected than we've been in years. Highly recommend!

About a year ago, my spouse and I spent nearly $3,000 on couples counseling with Estee. When the…read morecounseling ended, I actually believed it had been helpful, because I had come to believe that our marital problems were almost entirely my fault. However, over the following year, I gradually realized that our marriage had not meaningfully improved despite the counseling. One of the strongest messages I took away from the sessions was that my family of origin and my relationship with my parents were the primary causes of our marital problems. This did not only lead me to feel guilty and blame myself; it also caused me to blame my family and my parents. The emotional impact became so significant that I eventually sought individual therapy to work through those feelings. I believe Estee genuinely wanted to help us, and I do not question her intentions. However, her approach was not effective for me and maybe someone else has similar background like me. If you come from an East Asian family and place great importance on your relationship with your parents and family of origin, I would encourage you to consider carefully whether this counseling approach is the right fit for you. Different therapists have different perspectives, and this particular approach was not a good match for my background or my needs. Finally, I respectfully ask that Estee not contact me regarding this review. I have worked hard to recover from the guilt, self-blame, and family-related conflict that I experienced after counseling, and I do not wish to revisit those feelings through further discussion.

It's hard to put into words the tremendous gratitude I feel for this wonderful and talented…read morecounselor. Erin Andersen is the real deal. She's not in it for the money. Erin is one of those rare souls who has found her life's work in psychotherapy and is doing it as a labor of love. Of course Erin charges money for her time, and her time is worth every penny she charges. But it's not a job to Erin - it's a calling. She is generous to a fault, skillful, honest, and trustworthy. Erin's expertise and professionalism as a therapist, combined with her considerable natural ability as a listener, confidant, and truly concerned person-in-your-corner, make her counseling nothing short of superb. Over the years I've found that therapists are mostly well-meaning but mediocre. Erin, however, is a champ. 99th percentile. At the very top, among the best of the best, in my experience. Time spent hunting for the right therapist is often time wasted, at best; but you won't waste time or energy with Erin. Personal fit between therapist and client critical, though it's impossible to predict. If Erin's not the right person for the job, she likely knows who is, or can give you reliable guidance and direction in your search. The benefit that I, my wife and daughter, and our entire family have gained from our association with Erin Anderson is profound, substantial, long-lasting, and extremely valuable. Thanks to Erin's hand-holding, careful advice, attentive listening ear, her faith in us, and her ability to see the big picture, we've dodged many a pothole in the various roads we've trod as a couple and as a family. You can do it. Erin can help. Thank you, Erin, for everything!

From the owner: I am a Licensed Marriage Family Therapist (MFT 83687) in private practice in Santa Rosa,…read moreCalifornia. I provide counseling and therapy services to individuals, families and couples who are looking to create better and more satisfying relationships and who want to feel more alive and at peace in their life. Life and relationships can be difficult. You don't have to go it alone. My approach is engaged and practical, with the goal of meeting you where you are. With couples, I incorporate the work of The Gottman Institute, Dan Wile and Sue Johnson/EFT. Prior to working as a therapist I enjoyed an extensive career in the business world. In Sonoma County since 1993, I hold an MA in counseling psychology and a BA in business administration. Grounded. Collaborative. Creative. Respectful. From exploring personal growth to managing incredibly stressful life situations, get in touch with me for a free consultation and let's see if I may be a good fit for you.

Siobhan is a master of massage!!! I see her once a month for a 90 minute massage, sometimes twice a…read moremonth when needed. She is one of the best massage therapists I have ever had. I have been getting massages for 20 years by various massage therapists due to location, travel, etc. Siobhan has a sweet personality, kind and consistent, thorough, she listens, makes you feel comfortable, she has strong hands and a great touch. She is gentle if needed and gives a great deep tissue massage as well. I could go on! I leave feeling amazing every time. Her studio is quaint and cozy and she is always on time. She is the best! HIGHLY recommend if you want to feel your best.

Siobhan takes very good care of your body but even more importantly, as a massage therapist myself…read morewho has been massaged A LOT, Siobhan listens to what you need and gives it to you :-) Her energy is infectiously warm and optimistic:-) If you want deep tissue she will give it as deep as you can handle, she's strong!

It's hard to sum up what Sharon has done for me. She was my guiding light through some major life…read morecrises - a turbulent divorce, the death of my mother, moving out of state. She came highly recommended by a friend, and I immediately found her to be warm, perceptive and wise. She introduced me to somatic therapy. The process felt a little awkward at first, but it quickly became a major support structure in my life during hard transitions. It's definitely not easy at times. Sharon's good at asking hard questions and venturing into painful territory, but somehow she does so in a way that feels safe and productive. She checks in between sessions, sending little snippets of wisdom and support. She's nimble with crazy schedules, but most importantly it's just amazingly obvious that she has found her calling in life. Even after I moved away from Sonoma County, she kept in touch and continues to help me through this transition. She's been a friend and a mentor. Sharon has my eternal gratitude, I can't recommend her highly enough for therapy.

Sharon is an angel. I've worked with her for about eight months now, and am amazed by how much…read moreprogress I've made. She is a healer and encourages self-discovery and overall wellness. I feel safe and at peace when with Sharon. She is flexible and supportive and has allowed me to answer deep-rooted questions that are insightful. Her warm and comforting vibes enable you to open up about things that are hard to face on your own. I am forever grateful I have made this connection with Sharon and recommend her highly.

Jeremy is a fantastic therapist and I wouldn't want to go to anyone else! He is kind, gentle, and…read morecreates a safe and welcoming environment in his office. He took the time to get to understand my situation and never rushed me to process beyond what I was ready for. After just a couple sessions with him I was already feeling calmer and more secure in myself during everyday activities. I have received wonderful amounts of healing from my past trauma and I definitely recommend him to anyone looking for similar help.

From the owner: Does your anxiety and anger keep getting in the way? Worried you are losing your relationship? Want…read moreto build true confidence and authentic connection with others? Feeling burnt-out by constant pressure to achieve or meet others' expectations? You strive for a fulfilling life, yet at times you find yourself exhausted, held back and unable to deal; you find yourself escaping into work, a bottle, with food or porn. Gain the skills needed in order to not just get by, but to truly thrive. If you want to live your best life with less stress, more direction, and a life aligned with your true values, let's work together! EMDR

Junelle, is a great therapist, who I have seen a number of times in her office in Santa Rosa. She…read moreis empathetic, engaged, and resourceful. I recommend.

I've been seeing Junelle for about six months now and I always look forward to our appointments…read more She is so empathetic and full of great advice. If you are going through a hard time in your life (or not!) I highly recommend seeing Junelle. She will give you tools to experience hardships differently.

I was matched with Lisa Tannehill as my therapist. She was so warm and gentle and I really felt…read morelike she was listening and making an effort to understand what I was trying to say. I cried a lot so I'm sure some of my words were muddled! In just two sessions she created a safe space for me to talk about emotional issues I didn't even know I had. She encouraged me to carve out time in my day to feel whatever it is I needed to feel. I routinely shove my emotions down because I don't feel I have time for a breakdown. I tend to over-analyze everything and always want an answer. I will get frustrated and upset with myself if I can't find the source of whats making me so upset. Lisa told me it's okay to not know sometimes, you just need to allow yourself to feel. A simple lesson I suppose, but one I'm still learning.

I highly recommend Kathryn as a therapist for the young and old, she has such a calm and soothing…read morevoice and demeanor. In addition to her kind nature I've noticed that when you are talking with her, she gives you 100% of her attention and focus. I have never met a therapist who listens and processes so intently. Sometimes all we need is to be "heard" and I can say with 100% certainty that Kathryn gives you that attention.