I attended my first retreat here this week, a Metta Retreat. I don't write reviews often, but considering the extreme range of ratings here on Yelp, I figured I'd experience the retreat then come back and give my thoughts.
I've attended three 10-day Goenka retreats over the last six years and participated in a meditation group regularly in Pittsburgh for a few years, so while I'm not a hardcore practicing Buddhist, Buddhism isn't new to me either.
In that sense, I found my retreat at Bhavana to be the most authentic Buddhist experience I've had. There are no monks in the Goenka retreats. The junior monk at Bhavana is very relatable as he left lay life just three years ago. The senior monk has a rather popular book. I came across it in 2012 when I started meditating, and didn't realize this monk had written it until the middle of the retreat. Like another reviewer on here, it was a surprising synchronicity.
The center itself is beautiful and peaceful. As someone who has lived 90% of his life in cities, I wouldn't call the environment dangerous, but rather: "nature"... There were bees around, and during the retreat a wasp's nest was relocated away from the main building by someone who knew how to handle them. The most danger I felt was when walking to my cabin at night, I decided to use twilight instead of a flashlight to navigate and risked getting lost in the woods by my own doing. I'm not a fan of bees, but they were less troublesome than my iffy navigation.
I also did not get a business vibe. Of course, my experience was from the visitor side and not the resident side, so maybe there is more to witness behind the scenes. I do sense that residents could become very busy during retreats (8+ hours), as even the junior monk was frazzled by bringing all the events together for the retreat. But if one is overworked, I don't think it would be wrong to establish some boundaries either. A visitor volunteer doing dishwashing at this retreat had to stop for her back, and the monk just asked someone else to volunteer in her place.
As a retreat visitor, I particularly valued contributing an hour of service during the retreat. I was in the kitchen. It wasn't a meditative place at all, but there was something to be said in terms of mindfulness for seeing the vegetables I slice end up in the meal that forty people ate at lunch. At the Goenka retreats, you either sit, or you sign up to serve with some sitting. No middle ground, so I haven't served at one of them yet.
Dana (donations) was mentioned a few times, but not in a pushy way. It was noted that all our meals were because of prior generosity, and that if we wanted to donate, "The box is over here or you can do it online." That was about the extent of the discussion of money and business at the retreat. Dana was mentioned more generally during the Dhamma talks, since it's a principle the Buddha taught anyway.
The main thing I value about Bhavana is their adherence to the original, early texts of the Buddha. I don't pay much attention to the different sects (apparently Bhavana is Theravadan), but their teachings have a purity. The Dhamma talks weren't about ideologies and commentaries that came after the Buddha, but about exactly what the Buddha stated. So while my Goenka retreat experiences were very beneficial, this is the closest I've gotten to the Buddha himself and his teachings. It was also a retreat on metta (cultivating loving-friendliness), and focusing on that has left a major impact on my life.
I found some of Bhavan's tax documents on ProPublica (https://projects.propublica.org/nonprofits/organizations/521272299). Anyone who understands them could come to their own conclusion. (I don't understand them, so am not coming to a conclusion!) Operations, maintenance, and construction is about the most that this money could go toward anyway, I think? The monks occasionally travel to teach at other places, so I'm sure flights etc are paid for. My opinion is there's only so far monks can go in running a monastery like a business. Getting more money to construct more cabins etc does not seem detrimental.
You can't really fault people if they decide to donate a lot of money either. One man at the retreat talked about pay-for-meditation retreats (like the more secular Insight ones) and how he was put off by them, and how *they* felt too business-like. He said he donated to Bhavana at the end of every year. I'll donate when I can too.
I'm sorry for the other reviewer's experience. Maybe they were present during a particularly busy and chaotic time. Based on my experience, I know I'll be going back. read more