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Our first call with Nanette, I knew we had found the right officiant for our September 2017, Santa Barbara wedding. My husband and I were looking for an officiant who matched our nonreligious but spiritual values and she proved to be perfect for us. Warm, professional and well organized, Nanette guided us through a variety of ceremonial style choices. Her questions were thoughtful and explored the story behind the love that brought me and my husband together. At our first meeting, Nanette presented us with a beautifully written ceremony that shared our journey, dreams, and love. It represented our love story and where we were going perfectly. The day of our wedding Nanette was calm and kept us present and in the moment. She shared created a connection with our family and friends that pulled everyone into the moment. We highly recommend Nanette. From our first meeting to Nanette filing our marriage license, she was impeccable at every step. We are grateful she was a part of our journey as husband and wife!

We are so thankful that we got in contact with Nanette! She officiated our ceremony at The South Bluffs in Elings Park a few weeks ago and it was absolutely perfect; everything we had envisioned for it! We felt that she really took the time to understand how we wanted our ceremony to flow from start to finish. We did not want it to be too religiously focused, but instead focus on our love and commitment to one another as we moved into this next stage of our lives and our relationship. The ceremony and quotes/passages chosen were beautiful and we felt really spoke to us as a couple! We loved writing our own vows and appreciated Nanette's guidance on this. To us this was the most meaningful and unique part of our ceremony and it will be a moment that we will never forget. We would absolutely recommend Ceremonies by Nanette to any couple in the Santa Barbara area. Nanette truly embodies the meaning of love and we were so happy to have her be a part of our special day!

I love my job as a wedding photographer here in Santa Barbara and one of the reasons is being able to work alongside phenomenal professionals such as Nanette. I have been so fortunate to have worked many weddings with her and I am always touched by her beautiful and thoughtful ceremonies. I ALWAYS recommend Nanette when I have the opportunity to steer my couples towards hiring an officiant.

Working with Nanette was such a joy and privilege. What I loved most is that she doesn't take a one-size-fits-all approach to the ceremony, she crafted the ceremony based on our relationship. She sent questions to us separately and we answered individually so that she could really get a feel for us as individuals as well as together as a couple. We are not a religious couple so it was a little difficult at first to find an officiant to fit our needs. Nanette was able to craft a ceremony that felt true to us and told our story. All of our family, friends, and guests commented on how the ceremony really mirrored us as a couple. In addition to creating such an amazing ceremony, she was great at making us feel so comfortable throughout the entire process. With so many nerves and emotions the ceremony flies by so quickly, but she was great at really pulling us into the moment so that we could really cherish and enjoy it. I could go on for days about how amazing Nanette was to work with and I would recommend her to any couple!

Nanette officiated our wedding at the Dos Pueblos Orchid Farm in October 2019. She was seriously PERFECT. My husband and I are so thankful for her guidance and the love/support she provided us on our Big Day. When we first met Nanette (over email/phone call) she was helpful, knowledgable, easy going and friendly. She outlined for us the different ways in which she could guide us into marriage - we are spiritual so she provided us with a ceremony that was affectionate and extremely thoughtful. After speaking with her, she sent different options via email for ways she could lead the ceremony. Her communication was easy to understand and she was open to all of our feedback to make sure that the ceremony showcased our personalities. She offered to give us feedback on our vows as well (which would have been super helpful - but we had decided to keep them a secret from everyone until day of). Our big day felt like a proper wedding while still adding our laid-back styles to the moment. The care she takes to make the couple feel loved and heard made her a friend more than just an officiant. My husband and I loved her and our family and guests did too. We received so many comments on how beautiful, eloquent and exceptionally perfect our ceremony was. I highly recommend Nanette as an officiant.

Nanette was the perfect officiant for our intimate courthouse wedding in Santa Barbara. Since our wedding was small, we did not have a wedding planner. Things went smoothly on the day of our wedding largely in part because of Nanette. She made us feel perfectly at ease, her words during the ceremony were thoughtful and inspiring. We can't thank her enough and would wholeheartedly recommend her to other couples getting married.
1 year ago
Nanette did a wonderful job officiating our small wedding at the Santa Barbara Courthouse. She is very responsive and tailored the ceremony to us and our personalities. I would recommend her services, she was outstanding. read more
5 years ago
This review is long overdue! Nanette officiated our ceremony in April of 2021 and I am so happy we found her. Our elopement ceremony was planned kind of last minute and during COVID. Nanette was so accommodating and followed COVID regulations. She is sweet, professional, and very responsive. She made our day extremely special! I would definitely recommend contacting her for your officiating needs. Thank you again Nanette!! read more
4 years ago
Nanette was simply perfect! Right from the beginning, she was lovely, comfortable and warm - and just so down to Earth and approachable. She has such good energy about her, like reconnecting with a loving auntie we hadn't seen in a while. She contributed to our excitement in a genuine way and also helped us feel at ease. Everything about her and the entire experience was beautiful. She helped guide us through writing our own vows, and she crafted the most gorgeous ceremony. Her ability to capture "us" in writing was brilliant. She was able to capture both our playfulness and our tender side, it was exactly what we wanted in our ceremony and she was exactly what we were looking for in an officiant. Nanette is a lovely human with such a gift. It was so special to have her as our officiant, and now friend! Thank you Nanette, a million times over! We couldn't have asked for a better officiant and are blessed that you were a part of our wedding in such a magical way. To anyone looking for an officiant, we highly recommend this incredible woman!!! read more
6 years ago
Nanette officiated our non-denominational elopement in Santa Barbara in Sept 2020, after COVID required us to postpone our actual wedding until 2021. From the first call via Zoom, her warmth, consideration for the experience we wanted to have, and inquisitive questions made it a no-brainer to go with her. We decided to be surprised by her sections as we felt comfortable she had asked enough questions to understand what we were looking for. She checked in regularly as our date approached, and as we kept her updated on our timetable and other vendors. She showed up early, gave some last minute suggestions, listened to how we wanted to handle the first look and ceremony, and then ensured we were good to go on the marriage license. The ceremony itself was beautifully written and perfectly in line with what we wanted. We would highly recommend Nanette as a wedding officiant, especially in Santa Barbara but also anywhere else. Thanks Nanette for making our special day even more special! read more
9 years ago
Our first call with Nanette, I knew we had found the right officiant for our September 2017, Santa Barbara wedding. My husband and I were looking for an officiant who matched our nonreligious but spiritual values and she proved to be perfect for us. Warm, professional and well organized, Nanette guided us through a variety of ceremonial style choices. Her questions were thoughtful and explored the story behind the love that brought me and my husband together. At our first meeting, Nanette presented us with a beautifully written ceremony that shared our journey, dreams, and love. It represented our love story and where we were going perfectly. The day of our wedding Nanette was calm and kept us present and in the moment. She shared created a connection with our family and friends that pulled everyone into the moment. We highly recommend Nanette. From our first meeting to Nanette filing our marriage license, she was impeccable at every step. We are grateful she was a part of our journey as husband and wife! read more
7 years ago
We are so thankful that we got in contact with Nanette! She officiated our ceremony at The South Bluffs in Elings Park a few weeks ago and it was absolutely perfect; everything we had envisioned for it! We felt that she really took the time to understand how we wanted our ceremony to flow from start to finish. We did not want it to be too religiously focused, but instead focus on our love and commitment to one another as we moved into this next stage of our lives and our relationship. The ceremony and quotes/passages chosen were beautiful and we felt really spoke to us as a couple! We loved writing our own vows and appreciated Nanette's guidance on this. To us this was the most meaningful and unique part of our ceremony and it will be a moment that we will never forget. We would absolutely recommend Ceremonies by Nanette to any couple in the Santa Barbara area. Nanette truly embodies the meaning of love and we were so happy to have her be a part of our special day! read more
8 years ago
Nanette did an amazing job writing and officiating our wedding ceremony. We knew we were not going to have a religious wedding ceremony but wanted to have a personalized and meaningful event. She even helped us work in some Jewish traditions and secular prayers that spoke to our individual backgrounds. Nanette did an amazing job getting to know us as a couple leading up to the wedding. She really "got" us and it showed in her work. We spoke on the phone, email and met for coffee leading up to the wedding. She provided us with the ceremony script a month before the wedding. This made us feel calm and confident that the day would go off without a hitch. We highly recommend using Nanette for your wedding ceremony. read more
Nanette was great and professional! My husband and I planned our elopement in less than 1.5 weeks and Nanette accommodated us quickly. She was very organized and offered to write vows for us if we preferred. She conducted a beautiful ceremony and I definitely recommend her. read more
7 years ago
My husband and I had the pleasure of working with Nanette to officiate our wedding. We chose the personalized ceremony package. Nanette provided the perfectly phrased questions about our relationship so that, with our answers, she would be able to personify our love and articulate our connection. She then worked with us on making sure we were aligned in the draft she had written for our ceremony, and of course, because she is so talented, the most minimal of effort was required in finalizing what she had created for our day. I started to choke up and became emotional walking down the aisle but once I reached the altar Nanette provided such a calm and reassuring presence was able to whisper just the right words I needed to get through the ceremony in the right mindset and take in every word that was going to be said. She truly captured the essence of our love for one another within our ceremony and we are forever indebted to her for making the most important part of our wedding day so perfect. read more
8 years ago
A truly incredible and beautiful experience! Thank you Nanette for the amazing ceremony! From the beginning process-she truly wanted to know us, know about us, and what we loved about each other. She incorporated so many details we had discussed that just made it personal-and we did not have one dry eye in the house! She was so genuine, with a truly calming energy that put my nerves at ease immediately. Hire Nanette! You will not be disappointed-I promise!! read more
8 years ago
I love my job as a wedding photographer here in Santa Barbara and one of the reasons is being able to work alongside phenomenal professionals such as Nanette. I have been so fortunate to have worked many weddings with her and I am always touched by her beautiful and thoughtful ceremonies. I ALWAYS recommend Nanette when I have the opportunity to steer my couples towards hiring an officiant. read more
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11 years ago
Working with Nanette was such a joy and privilege. What I loved most is that she doesn't take a one-size-fits-all approach to the ceremony, she crafted the ceremony based on our relationship. She sent questions to us separately and we answered individually so that she could really get a feel for us as individuals as well as together as a couple. We are not a religious couple so it was a little difficult at first to find an officiant to fit our needs. Nanette was able to craft a ceremony that felt true to us and told our story. All of our family, friends, and guests commented on how the ceremony really mirrored us as a couple. In addition to creating such an amazing ceremony, she was great at making us feel so comfortable throughout the entire process. With so many nerves and emotions the ceremony flies by so quickly, but she was great at really pulling us into the moment so that we could really cherish and enjoy it. I could go on for days about how amazing Nanette was to work with and I would recommend her to any couple! read more
6 years ago
Although we didn't use Nanette for our wedding she was super informative and professional in a phone consultation. She helped us avoid a catastrophe with our elopement and was very knowledgeable on the Santa Barbara area. She had a very calm and friendly demeanor and reasonable pricing. I would highly recommend her to other couples. read more
7 years ago
Nanette officiated our wedding at the Dos Pueblos Orchid Farm in October 2019. She was seriously PERFECT. My husband and I are so thankful for her guidance and the love/support she provided us on our Big Day. When we first met Nanette (over email/phone call) she was helpful, knowledgable, easy going and friendly. She outlined for us the different ways in which she could guide us into marriage - we are spiritual so she provided us with a ceremony that was affectionate and extremely thoughtful. After speaking with her, she sent different options via email for ways she could lead the ceremony. Her communication was easy to understand and she was open to all of our feedback to make sure that the ceremony showcased our personalities. She offered to give us feedback on our vows as well (which would have been super helpful - but we had decided to keep them a secret from everyone until day of). Our big day felt like a proper wedding while still adding our laid-back styles to the moment. The care she takes to make the couple feel loved and heard made her a friend more than just an officiant. My husband and I loved her and our family and guests did too. We received so many comments on how beautiful, eloquent and exceptionally perfect our ceremony was. I highly recommend Nanette as an officiant. read more
9 years ago
If Yelp offered 6 star reviews, Nanette would be that! We can't even begin to thank her for what a wonderful job she did writing our ceremony, and walking us through the process of "all things ceremony". From our first meeting, I knew that she was full of light and love, and it radiated through her vibrantly. It was an obvious choice for us after one coffee. Nanette wrote us a beautiful, personalized, positively gorgeous ceremony that was unique, had wonderful flow, and full of relevant stories, quotes, and personal affects. Usually the ceremony is not the part of the wedding that people remember or rave about, but our guests could not stop asking me where I found Nanette and how amazing the ceremony was. Plenty of tears in that audience! As far as the pre-wedding planning went, she was quick to respond to emails (something I found was priceless in the wedding planning process), made things simple and easy, with kind nudges and reminders. She stuck to deadlines, was always available if we had questions. She also handled our post-wedding clerical work, and promptly mailed our marriage license the day after we were married. Without a doubt, I would recommend her services 1000 times over and I know you will not be disappointed if you choose Nanette to be your wedding officiant. THANK YOU NANETTE! We will never forget this! read more
5 years ago
It was so wonderful having Nanette as our wedding officiant. I initially reached out to her for our November 2020 wedding but postponed till November 2021 and throughout the year, Nanette was so sweet and would check in with us to see how we were doing. It was important to us that we had a relationship with our officiant who could share our unique love story and Nanette did such a wonderful job! She created a heartfelt wedding ceremony that made it feel like she's known us for years! So many of our guests said that they loved our officiant and the ceremony was the perfect length of time- not too short and not too long. Thank you Nanette for being a wonderful person and officiating our wedding! read more
5 years ago
Do yourself a favor and use Nanette as your officiant!!! We worked with Nanette for our May 2021 wedding (this review is very overdue but I wanted to make sure we took the time to write a review she deserved). From the beginning she made the process not only easy but really special. We really enjoyed the process of making our ceremony tailored to us. My husband and I wanted a ceremony that incorporated the religious values and the traditions of our families but also something that felt like us. Nanette was so thoughtful and calming about the entire process and she was able to take our words and feedback and create such a lovely ceremony! We are so grateful to have her be such a big part of our special day. Thank you so much, Nanette! read more
Nanette officiated our wedding at the Santa Barbara Courthouse last month. We knew as soon as we spoke with her on the phone that we wanted to work with her. She has such a beautiful, warm, soothing tone to her voice - it just puts you right at ease. We traveled from out of state for the wedding, and corresponding with her was so easy. She always responded to our emails quickly, and she helped keep us on track with writing our vows. We went thru several drafts of the ceremony together, and she was very patient with me while we worked to make it just right. And it was. Our ceremony was perfect! We didn't do a rehearsal, but Nanette gave us little cues as we went along to keep things moving smoothly. Sweet, poignant, and a little bit fun too! We were really able to make it our own and let our personalities come thru. I totally cried. We love Nanette, and we were so lucky to have her involved with our wedding! Thanks, Nanette! read more
12 years ago
Nanette was really great to work with. From the moment we first met her my wife knew she was the one. Not only was she very professional but she has a warmness about her that shows she really enjoys doing what she does. I loved the way she personalized our ceremony, she worked back and forth with us to make sure we were completely satisfied. I've been to a few other weddings in this past year and can tell when the officiant is 'winging it' it just made me happier that we selected Nanette to officiate for us. read more
10 years ago
We just got married on May 21st, 2016 and I'm here to tell you: Nanette is your answer. She is wonderful. During the planning of our wedding Nanette wrote, and guided us to help write, a truly beautiful and moving ceremony. At every turn when we had a question or idea she was there to support, encourage and help us. She balanced her know-how and our (sometimes unorthodox) ideas of how to make our ceremony feel like us, perfectly. During our wedding she delivered for us what I wanted most: a ceremony that felt sacred even though it wasn't religious. Her presence was joyous and calming in every moment. She embodied grace. We couldn't recommend her more highly. read more
7 years ago
Nanette was the perfect officiant for our intimate courthouse wedding in Santa Barbara. Since our wedding was small, we did not have a wedding planner. Things went smoothly on the day of our wedding largely in part because of Nanette. She made us feel perfectly at ease, her words during the ceremony were thoughtful and inspiring. We can't thank her enough and would wholeheartedly recommend her to other couples getting married. read more
11 years ago
Nanette is incredible. She was so pleasant to work with. She has an innate understanding of people's dispositions, and respects the characteristics of each individual. I felt like she "got" me and my soon-to-be-husband from the get go. She put us at ease, and was so eloquent in helping to compose our vows. At the ceremony, Nanette was attentive to our family members and truly understood the intimacy, significance and importance of the day for us all. Could not have asked for more! read more
9 years ago
Nanette was our Officiant for our wedding last month in Santa Barbara. She was wonderful from the very first phone call -- to our wedding on the Beach. She is warm and just a really good person. We couldn't have asked for anyone better! I actually found her through yelp as this was a destination wedding, and we had to do the legwork from another state. She is amazing! She helped make our day even that much more special. Our guests loved her too! If you are thinking about getting married in the Santa Barbara area, give her a call! Thanks Nanette for all you did for us! read more
9 years ago
Nanette was the officiant for our 9/16 wedding at The Fess Parker and I cannot recommend her enough! I found Nanette online when I was researching officiants in the SB area and we met for coffee to discuss Steve and I's relationship and what we wanted in a ceremony. I came in not knowing exactly what I wanted in our ceremony but I did know that I wanted it to be personalized and cover our journey as a couple. Nanette had a lot of great ideas for how we can customize the ceremony and make it our own. The passion and excitement for her work was evident, as was the connections she's able to build with her couples. When she sent us our ceremony draft we were blown away. It was so beautiful and it really reflected the love between my husband and I. The day of the wedding Nanette conducted a perfect ceremony. She has a very calming presence which made me feel instantly at ease. During the reception and even days after we received many compliments on how wonderful the ceremony was and how beautifully our story was told. We also appreciated how she printed out our ceremony as it is something that we will keep forever. Thank you, Nanette! read more
12 years ago
My wife and I are so happy we chose Nanette to officiate our ceremony!! She was very thoughtful and sincere with every step of the process. She offered great suggestions when we were creating our wedding story and made edits as we requested them. Nanette was even patient with us when we arrived 45 minutes late to our own ceremony!!! Thank you Nanette for helping us create a moment we will never forget. read more
10 years ago
My wife and I just got married in Santa Barbara on May 28th--and as it was sort of a destination wedding for us (we are from San Francisco), we had no idea where to start to look for an officiant. Nanette was on a preferred vendor list from our venue, and out of the 5-6 options, she seemed like the one for us. We emailed her, and she responded very quickly to let us know that the weekend was open and she was happy to have a chat to see if she was the right fit. As soon as we spoke on the phone, we knew she was our officiant. She has such a lovely voice, and her presence just puts you at ease immediately. We talked for a good hour just on the initial consultation, and by the end of the conversation, we knew we wanted to book her. And good thing we booked early, because she is very popular! Nanette guided us through the ceremony experience every step of the way, from allowing us to set the tone and pace, to getting to know us to customize everything for us just right. She kept us on schedule (which was great) and helped to gently guide us through writing our vows, which turned out beautiful. We had rave reviews from our attendees, as Nanette is a beautiful speaker. She arranged the ceremony with love and care, allowed us to see it beforehand to edit as we saw fit, and even helped us choose the perfect reading for our 12 year old niece. Thank you Nanette, for being a shepherd of joy into this world that needs it so much! Mariko & Andrea read more
7 years ago
Nanette created an incredible ceremony so personal and beautiful that our guests couldn't stop raving about it at the reception. Our pre-wedding meetings with her were not only productive and easygoing, but they also made us connect even deeper as a couple as we discussed the meaning behind the ceremony words. Nanette truly understands what weddings are about and how to make couples and guests alike feel connected to the love in the air. read more
7 years ago
Nanette was amazing to work with. She did an excellent job writing our ceremony and depicting our love as a couple in an eloquent and authentic way. We felt held by her throughout the process of writing our vows, as well as making sure we were getting the ceremony we wanted. It is truly wonderful to have a presence as hers in the wake of one of the most important days. read more
13 years ago
Nanette is completely fantastic! She is kind, generous, thorough and insightful. She will come up with creative suggestions to make each ceremony unique. I can't recommend her highly enough - if there were 10 stars available - she would get every one! Toby Theule, Wedding Planner/Coordinator sbweddingcoordinator.com read more
9 years ago
Nanette wrote a beautiful ceremony and guided us in writing our vows. She was also a very calming presence on a day that felt very hectic for my husband and I. We were so happy with the ceremony and we really could not have done it without Nanette. She also recommended the photographer we ended up choosing and she was also amazing so Nanette really has good taste to boot! read more
9 years ago
Working with Nanette was a breeze for our small and intimate wedding at the Santa Barbara courthouse Mural room. Nanette initially sent us a suggested layout for our ceremony and kept us on track for fine-tuning it. While we had selected the smaller ceremony plan offered, she also graciously offered to help us write our more personalized vows. We didn't meet Nanette in person until the day of and nearly all communication was via email. Somehow, though, she felt like family and fit in beautifully with our day. The ceremony went smoothly, and we and our guests had a lot of fun. read more
8 years ago
Nanette officiated our wedding at the Santa Barbara Zoo and it was lovely! I could not have asked for anything more. Thank you, Nanette!
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9 years ago
You will be amazed by her professionalism and custom touch to your ceremony. She knows how to rock your wedding. I'm so glad I hired this fantastic officiant. She is the best!!! read more
8 years ago
My wife and I had gone back and forth about doing pre-marital counseling when we were engaged and finally took everyone's advice and decided to go for it. We are SO happy that we did! Nanette provided such a warm and welcoming environment to discuss our relationship and soon-to-be marriage that we didn't even feel like it was counseling, but just deeper, more meaningful conversations. Even though we had already lived together and thought we knew everything about each other, you prepare for marriage by learning things about one another through conversations you may not have on a normal basis and Nanette helps guide you there. Ceremonies By Nanette is such a joy when it comes to not only your ceremony, but pre-marital counseling as well. She has now become a person we can reach out to at any time as a support system. Thank you, Nanette! read more
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Oh joy! Thanks so much for your beautiful words. Your love for each…
8 years ago
Nanette was a wonderful officiant! She listened to our views, beliefs and structured our ceremony beautifully, including our baby that was on the way. We did not have a rehearsal ceremony, so I was a little nervous as to what would happen, but everything rolled through pretty smooth and we were definitely happy. read more
11 years ago
My now-husband proposed to me on 11/11/15, and we decided to elope and get married on 12/02/15. We wished to start our life as a married couple as soon as possible, and Nanette played a major role in making our wish come true. Nanette is a very warm, charming, and gifted woman. Furthermore, she is an active listener, was receptive to our wishes, and has been very professional and kind in her [regular] interactions with us. Given the short amount of time before our wedding ceremony date, Nanette went above and beyond and excelled in making our day so meaningful and perfect. We are very grateful for Nanette's time and generosity. Thank you! read more
8 years ago
Wow! We absolutely love Nanette -- she is so amazing at what she does and she's an amazing person as well. From the start we knew we made the right choice working with Nanette as we immediately felt a warm and comforting connection to her. She took a lot of time to deeply understand us as individuals as well as a couple. She also had us do several activities which helped us think, reflect, and strengthen our own understandings of ourselves and our relationship. This was not something we initially had even considered for our marriage, but after going through it we are so glad we did it! Nanette's process was invaluable and she was so fun and comforting all along the way. She has such a warm and inviting way about her, it really was a joy to engage with her. She did a ton of work to deeply understand us, provide guidance, and ultimately she worked it all perfectly into our ceremony script. And it was at the ceremony that you could fully see the depth of her expertise. She did such an amazing job officiating the wedding and telling our stories! The whole family was blown away by how well she did and how personalized the ceremony was to not just ourselves but also to our guests. We got so many comments after on just how well she did. We were simply blown away by the overall experience, and cannot recommend Nanette highly enough! She's amazing, full stop. And we look forward to continuing our relationship with her in the future as another source of inspiration and guidance. read more
9 years ago
My husband and I were recently married in Santa Barbara, CA, with Nanette as our officiant. She is amazing and we highly recommend her services. The ceremony she created was romantic, intimate, and perfect. She also gave us the courage to write our own vows and helped us stay relaxed during the ceremony. She was extremely professional, punctual, and a true expert at her craft. read more
9 years ago
Nanette is GREAT! She was available anytime we had a question. She made us feel important and was so supportive throughout our entire marriage journey. Her vows for our ceremony were genuine and BEAUTIFUL! Thank you Nanette for doing an amazing job as our officiant! We wouldn't have had it any other way!!! read more
11 years ago
I cannot overstate how wonderful working with Nanette was while we were planning our destination wedding. Not only was she always reachable, but we felt as though we had known her forever. She crafted a personalized ceremony using our own words and made the day a perfect tribute to our love and romance. I highly recommend Nanette for anyone wanting the ceremony of a lifetime! She even puts together a binder of the ceremony as a keep-sake! read more
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Santa Barbara Wedding Officiant & Life-Cycle Celebrant® Specializing in Joyful, Modern and Meaningful Ceremonies I created "Ceremonies by Nanette" because I love working with all couples who wish to marry, including people of diverse faiths, cultures and the LGBT+ community. I craft unique ceremonies which reflect the beliefs and traditions of each couple. I offer a Ceremony Writing service for couples who choose to have their loved one officiate. Why not gift yourselves and your Officiant with a professionally written ceremony and a one-hour training as to how to lead your wedding ceremony. In addition, I offer pre-marital coaching and highly recommend this reflective process to all couples.
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Established in 2010.
Ten years ago, completely unexpectedly, the daughter of some friends asked me to officiate her Santa Barbara wedding at Rockwood Woman's Club. It was a defining moment- I so loved being a part of telling their love story and sharing the intimacy and joy of their wedding day, that I gave up my private psychotherapy practice in Texas, a job I cherished. After 2 years of commuting to/from Texas and Santa Barbara (at which time I founded Ceremonies by Nanette), I closed my practice completely, and moved full time to Santa Barbara to do what I love most. Ceremonies by Nanette was founded after my training as a Life-Cycle Celebrant® through the Celebrant Foundation & Institute. This training was invaluable in helping me learn the craft of writing and delivering ceremonies.
Meet the Business Owner: Nanette M.
"Be bold and mighty forces will follow" (Sir Anthony Hopkins) is my motto. I grew up on a cattle ranch in Texas and have lived in many places, including New York City and Santa Fe, New Mexico. I have always been motivated by a deep desire to grow and create meaning in life. This curiosity and passion for growth led me to move to Santa Barbara. I have a 20 year background in private practice as a Psychotherapist, have worked with a broad spectrum of clients in a variety of capacities, am a Board Certified Life Coach, and hold a Bachelor's degree in Education and a Master's degree in Counseling. When not officiating ceremonies, spending time with my amazing sons and their loves and my granddaughter or in my Life Coaching business, I love to read, standup paddle board, take road trips, play tennis, meditate, and have long chats and good espresso with people I love and walk the beach. "I love spontaneity and trying new things."
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12 years ago
My wife and I strongly recommend Nanette as a wedding officiant. Vetting officiants can be a daunting task, but we knew during our first meeting with Nanette she was the person we wanted to marry us. I strongly recommend meeting Nanette in person, she has a very warm personality and instantly you feel like you've been good friends for years. We really appreciated her thorough process for getting to know us and the time she took to develop a truly heartfelt ceremony. Like many couples, we wanted our ceremony to be unique and Nanette was able to create a succinct and powerful story of our love. We received many compliments on how our ceremony was intimate, sincere and inclusive. During the planning, my wife was living in Chicago while I was obtaining my masters degree at UC Santa Barbara. Nanette was very accommodating to our schedules and happily met with us when my wife was in town. Given our busy schedules, it was a relief that communication was always easy, whether it was via phone, meeting at a coffee shop, or through email correspondence. On our wedding day, Nanette made my wife and I feel very comfortable in the midst of everything going on around us. She delivered our ceremony with a grace that left such a positive impression on our guests. She also created a beautiful, bounded text she read during our ceremony, and then gave us the book as a keepsake. We really enjoyed this personal touch and like that we will be able to share this book with our kids someday. Nanette was a big part of our wedding day. We feel very fortunate to have met her and highly recommend her officiant services. read more
9 years ago
In the early stages of planning our wedding, my now husband was adamant about having a family member officiate, while I wanted to hire an experienced professional. We compromised by looking into ceremony script writing services, which is how we found Nanette. We ended our initial 45-minute phone consultation feeling completely comfortable with Nanette and her ability to both write and perform a ceremony that felt authentic to us and incorporated our families in a meaningful way (which is just what we ended up with). With the package that we chose, Nanette provided us three sets of detailed questions that, over the course of our engagement, required us to reflect on various aspects of our relationship. Our responses helped Nanette compose a beautifully personalized ceremony - and we both agreed that writing out and sharing our answers with each other was a valuable exercise in and of itself. We were able to meet in-person with Nanette on several occasions throughout the planning process, and she was always readily available to address any questions or concerns. Her professionalism and calm, supportive demeanor helped us feel confident and stress-free leading up to and on the day of the event. Our ceremony stands out as one of the clear highlights of the wedding day. We had so many guests comment on how touching and special it was (and more than a few admit to crying like babies). Thank you, Nanette! read more
9 years ago
Nanette was amazing!! The words and experience during our ceremony was one of the most important parts of our wedding and we could not of picked a better person to write our vows and deliver them with such grace and beauty! Our guests commented on how moving our vows were and reminder of love! We are not big at expressing our selves but after a few meetings and answering a few questions with Nanette, she drafted up the most beautifully scripted and perfect flow for our ceremony that really captured us as a couple. She listened to our needs and wants. She understood us most importantly. She added in all the small parts we wanted such as the Irish blessing and rose ceremony. She was calm and on time every time we met and especially on the day of. She helped us to feel relaxed and breath which we both needed as we were nervous before our ceremony began. She handled all the details of our license and even printed out our vows to save on nice paper. We loved her and would recommend her to anyone who needs support with writing their vows, an incredible officiant, and loving person to be apart of their special day. Our wedding was held at Apple Creek Ranch in Santa Ynez Valley. read more
11 years ago
We met Nanette at the Santa Barbara Bridal Expo and instantly liked her. We read reviews and interviewed several other officiants but we both agreed that Nanette was our first and only choice. Nanette personally met with us and helped craft our ceremony, the most important part of our wedding. She gave us helpful tips and was available to answer questions and coach us along in our process. It turned out perfect and we can't imagine getting married without her. Our guests all commented on how well spoken, wonderful, calm, sincere and even the perfect amount of humor she added to our day. We had a medical issue during our ceremony and Nanette handled it professionally and also took very good care of us at the same time. She had the brilliant idea to finish our ceremony at another spot, so we ended up having the two parts of our ceremony at the two most beautiful areas on the rooftop! Nanette turned a negative into a positive!! We cannot say enough about how critical Nanette was to our amazing day. Thank you Nanette! -Chris & Michelle read more
12 years ago
All we can say is, "Wow." Nanette did an amazing job, and my husband and I were so pleased with the ceremony. It truly was everything that we wanted it to be: honest, optimistic, light, and focused on the power and beauty of love. The words spoke directly to us, and will remain with us forever. From the start, we knew Nanette was special. She initially spent an hour speaking with us on the phone, followed by a great deal of time compiling stories and responses we had written, and concluding with nearly two hours of face-to-face time to really get a sense of who we were, and what was important to us. Hands down, the most common feedback we received from our guests was how unique and wonderful the ceremony was. They couldn't get over how meaningful and perfectly tailored it was to us. We also appreciated how well Nanette kept us focused and relaxed both before and during the ceremony. She had such a calming presence, and made us feel comfortable every step of the way. We will always remember her as an integral part of our wedding. read more
12 years ago
We hired Nanette for our Santa Barbara wedding in August 2014 and we could not have been happier! We first spoke with Nanette on the phone to interview her for the job and we very quickly determined that she was perfect for us. We loved her style of getting to know us prior to the ceremony with the interview questions and overall great communication. The ceremony she prepared for us was beautiful, and because it was based on our actual input it was deeply touching and meaningful, which was very important to us. Several of our guests commented that it was one of the most beautiful ceremonies they had experienced. She was very accommodating as well, and was able to work with us to incorporate a very personal version of the sand ceremony. She was happy to learn pronunciations for several uncommon names, and took down phonetic cues to make sure she was prepared. I would recommend Nanette to any couple who wants to have a deeply personal ceremony and an extremely attentive officiant! read more
13 years ago
We can't say enough good things about Nanette!!! We eloped and our intention was to have a personal, intimate, meaningful ceremony that really celebrated who we are together. The moment I spoke with Nanette on the phone I felt she was the right person to officiate our ceremony: she was warm, thoughtful, intelligent, and generous of spirit. But she still exceeded my expectations. She was great about communicating with us and really supporting us in our wedding plans. She used a questionnaire to really get to know us, wrote a beautiful draft of our ceremony, then patiently worked with us to fine tune it to exactly what we wanted. And she was a wonderful presence on our big day--she has a great smile and a joyful energy. The final ceremony was everything we had hoped for and more. And I will always be grateful to her for the moment she took before we started to remind us to be present, and take our time. Our ceremony was so perfect, better than we even imagined, thanks to Nanette. read more
12 years ago
Nanette is the best decision we made after deciding to get married. I don't know what we would have done without her. She HEARD us when we talked about what we wanted in our ceremony, and then gave us that and so much more. Nanette brings a sincerity to every interaction, be it formal or casual, and approaches her work as she does her life: with reverence, humor, kindness, and personal connection. Our ceremony was the most important part of our wedding to us, and we were asking a lot of our celebrant. We wanted a ceremony that honored the sacred but didn't mention any particular religion; a holy, bigger-than-us experience while still having it be all about us. And Nanette allowed us to contribute along the way as she created the ceremony we could never have written ourselves, and yet was so perfect that now we can't imagine having been married without it. I cannot recommend Nanette enough for couples that want a meaningful, personal, ceremony worthy of the love you share. read more
13 years ago
My partner of 20 years and I decided to take the leap after the US Supreme Court made it legal! We have known Nanette for 15 years so there was no better person to perform our ceremony! We originally planned to travel from Texas to Santa Barbara for our wedding with Nanette; but laws have so quickly evolved, Santa Fe NM became a possibility which is our favorite place in the world! We called Nanette, and she agreed to travel there. We had the wedding of our dreams as the sunset behind the mountains! Nanette created a ceremony based on questionnaires we completed and discussions we had over the months prior to the ceremony. The results... Pure magic, romance, love, warmth, intimacy, perfection!!! If you want a ceremony that captures all of these adjectives, Nanette is your celebrant. Same sex couples - Nanette has stood beside us in this fight for equality over the years and will pour her heart into your celebration! read more
10 years ago
Nanette was our officiant at our small wedding ceremony in September at the courthouse and there really aren't enough words to describe how wonderful she is. We knew from our first meeting with her over coffee that she was the right choice and that she wanted to help us make our ceremony as special as possible. We both wanted a ceremony that wasn't generic, but also did not want to write our own vows, so Nanette was able to solve that problem for us. We loved having a ceremony that was personal and a true reflection of our relationship and who we are as a couple. It was a great mix of both of our personalities and there were as many laughs as there were tears. She took time to meet with us before our ceremony, reminding us to be present and to enjoy some quiet moments together before walking down the aisle. Thank you Nanette for helping to make our wedding day such a memorable one! read more
10 years ago
I grew up in Santa Barbara and married by husband 3 weeks ago at El Presidio. We spoke with Nanette when looking for the perfect officiant and it turns out that we didn't need to look any further. Nanette writes (with your help and words) an absolutely beautiful ceremony that is filled with love. She incorporated quotes from me and my husband, our love story, and beautiful vows. We had an emotional ceremony and she was even able to lighten the mood and bring our entire wedding party and all guests to laughter at one point! Nanette made the entire process so easy and painless. We never felt pressure or stressed about anything. She is a calming presence and a beautiful speaker. We had so many guests compliment her ceremony because it was unique to us and absolutely beautiful. We highly recommend Nanette for your special day that you will remember forever! -Happy Bride & Groom read more
12 years ago
The ceremony that Nanette created for us was so beautiful and memorable. The ceremony continues to be the part of our wedding that all our guests reference and remember, even for a NYE wedding with a fun party afterwards. Everyone was so touched - especially us! It was the most special day for us and we give her so much credit or putting together such a beautiful, memorable and emotional ceremony for us. We really liked how she helped us craft a personalized ceremony. Before the process began I was worried that it would become daunting but it really was smooth, easy, and fun. We wouldn't change a thing about the whole experience. Nanette is so sincere and warm she makes you feel instantly comfortable and she was great at channelling our love into a ceremony that touched everyone. Thank you Nanette! read more
11 years ago
Thank you Nanette! We are a Norwegian couple who wanted to get married in California. Luckily we found Nanette and we felt connected from the first time we spoke. We had contact online and had a few phone calls. This worked out very well. The whole prosess in front of the wedding was very good and fun. We felt cared for in the whole process. Nanette was the best officiant we could dream of. She was perfect. She made our wedding very special. She understood our needs and helped us out with everything we asked for. The ceremony became very personal and beautiful because of her. Nanette is a warm and present person. We felt very confident under her guidance. She made us relax and enjoy our special day. Everyone in the party felt included in the ceremony. We highly recommend Nanette! Renée & Henrik read more
10 years ago
Nannette officiated our wedding and knocked it out of the park! The minute we all met it seemed like we already knew each other. She was flexible with us when we had to change our date, and scheduling a meeting with her since we live out of state. She was so kind, easy to talk to, and listened to us fully. We asked for a non religious ceremony and to focus on love and togetherness. We wanted our family and friends to feel the love we had for each other and the love we have for them. There was not a dry eye by the end. Her ceremony set the perfect stage for our reception which we wanted to be focused on having all of our family and friends together in one place spending time together and sharing the love! We highly recommend having Nannette officiate your wedding. read more
13 years ago
My father passed away recently and we only had a few days to pull together his memorial. Someone gave me Nanette's name, and we met with her to discuss my dad's service. I can't imagine how difficult it is to step into this role, without knowing the person, and perform with grace; that is exactly what Nanette did for us. She met with my sister and I, really listened to us talk about dad: his ideas, inspirations, foibles and triumphs. She was able to take all that in, and really be there for us, to (as she so eloquently said) hold the space for us, so that we could remember and honor dad. I can only imagine that her light and wonderfully loving nature would be equally comforting in a happier celebration of life. I cannot thank her enough, nor recommend her more highly. read more
13 years ago
Nanette did a fabulous job creating the ceremony we wanted. We were looking for a very casual ceremony infused with our personalities and she was definitely able to create it! The ceremony really felt unique to us as a couple! It was so easy to work with Nanette - she offered lots of great suggestions and options for us to consider. She was also completely receptive to any changes or specific wording that we requested. Nanette also has a wonderful warmth, presence, and calmness that sets the tone for a beautiful and emotional celebration. Lots of people were in tears during the ceremony and commented afterward how beautiful it was. I would definitely recommend Nanette as a celebrant. After meeting her, we knew we didn't need to look anywhere else! read more
9 years ago
Nanette was absolutely fabulous in every regard. We (my new wife & myself) can be very tough critics but there are not enough nice words in our language to describe just how highly we think of Nanette & how fantastic the job she did for us was. We had no idea what we wanted or how to go about it & she guided us through it & created something very special & personal that reflected us perfectly. The ceremony & how she conducted it was truly a thing of beauty & we simply couldn't have dreamed of anything more perfect. Not only did we think it was excellent but everyone there raved about her & quoted her words over & over in the days since the wedding. Nanette is an angel & made our special day everything we ever dreamed it could be & more. read more
8 years ago
Nanette was an absolute DREAM. She offers 3 different styles of ceremony (with so MUCH flexibility within each), and I highly recommend her 3rd option, the most personal one. Her process of creating a personalized ceremony is such a wonderful experience to have before the wedding. She did all the heavy lifting by writing and creating the ceremony, but at the same time, made sure we felt like feel like we had a voice, and were involved in the process. She also made us both feel so taken care of, and relieved some nervousness about "public" speaking and allowing ourselves to be "publicly" vulnerable and open. She made something that could have been stressful and challenging feel really good. I would give Nanette 11 out of 10 if I could! read more
10 years ago
It's very hard to put into words just how relaxed Nanette made us from the moment we met. As a couple eloping from overseas and not having the time to spend with your celebrant in advance, meeting Nanette was almost like meeting up with family. This was an extremely special day for us, as it is for many, and made all the more special as there was a strong connection to our vowels through our celebrant. Our first impression was through Nanette's photos on her website, and that natural disposition and ability to connect in person further strengthened our decision. We would recommend Nanette and her work to anyone seeking the perfect celebrant to make the most important part of your day memorable. Thank you Nanette from us both. read more
7 years ago
Performed my wedding ceremony with out having the marriage license then lied to the bride and groom about back dating the marriage license. The bride didn't want to do the ceremony because non of her guests including her father were their due to bad weather. She lied and pushed us to do it anyway and I seriously regret it!!!! Don't hire someone willing to commit fraud, and willing to push a bride into not have her dad walk her down the isle and Nanette stole that moment from me. Never even apologized for the day going so horrible. She never even legally married us, we had to do a Court House the Monday after our " real wedding' do yourself a favor and don't give her any of your money especially never pay her through venmo!! read more
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