I tend to be appreciative of churches that respond to community inquiries, though I always recognize that's a little tricky considering the need is often greater than the resources.
I contacted Crossroads prior to a Tenderness Tour event because I was really wanting to explore churches with a disability ministry while I was on tour. In checking out their website, I realized Crossroads did have one and I e-mailed the person listed as the contact.
I was greeted warmly and we exchanged a handful of e-mails. I'm sure they were making sure I was legit, while I was also making sure this was a place I'd feel comfortable and that my often diverse support team would be accepted.
We agreed that I would visit the Sunday morning service and participate with the disability ministry for adults. They had a lead pastor for "special needs," a phrase I'm not particularly fond of, along with 2-3 regular volunteers.
The church is quite huge - it's clearly a "go to" church in Kokomo. I've tended to go to smaller churches in my life, though I'm currently also attending one of Indy's larger churches. The disability ministry is located in a smaller, portioned off section of their educational wing. The adults attending had a variety of disabilities appearing to be mostly intellectual/developmental disabilities along with physical disabilities.
I appreciated the relaxed yet structured service and the individualization. I appreciated that the gifts of those attending were acknowledged - for example, one young man played guitar and led a song. Physical assistance and guidance was available as needed. Sign Language was also utilized.
This church also offers breakfast options for really reasonable prices, while everyone I met was super friendly. The structure of the ministry seems to recognize the need for both spiritual and administrative leadership.
As someone with a disability who is ordained and has been in pastoral roles, I aspire to opportunities for individualized worship, integrated community, and celebration of gifts. While sometimes the idea of a "set apart" class bothers me, it also has its place and Crossroads does it well. There was much love in the worship and also much in the way of community and empowering those with disabilities to live into their gifts.
When in Kokomo, I will definitely return. read more