More than family
Originally when I first moved to Mobile, I was looking for just a jiu jitsu school that trained in self-defense jiu jitsu school and I found that. But what I also found was a shelter for the times I felt the most vulnerable in my life. I found lifelong brothers and sisters who have been with me, while for the first time of my life, I moved to a new city and didn't know anybody. The environment mirrors leadership. The environment's reflection naturally cultivates love, growth, honor, and respect, to your training partner, the forefathers of jiu jitsu, yourself, and anyone you meet in life both on and off the mat. When you take time to bow to your training partner, you trust the person in front of you will keep you safe, help you learn, keep it fun, and aren't just hunting for a submission. This showing of respect is a well-known part of our culture. I can't stress enough how much growth is an integral principle of GCJJ. Personally, I remember grappling with Corey who is the main instructor. Important to note that Corey has a second-degree black belt. After going for about 20 to 30 minutes and exhausting all of my energy, Corey said something profound to me that changed my outlook on training, mental health, and life. He rhetorically asked, how can you expect to control me, if you can't even control your breathing? I believe that I not only grew as a martial artist, I grew as a person.
Growth and an open-mindset spark creativity. I have been training in jiu jitsu for four years and have had to rebuild my foundation of jiu jitsu which takes an open mind, but tailoring is key. Most jiu jitsu schools you go to, you do a move, might or might not fully learn the move, and then grapple without reinforcing what you might have learned. In class, the instructor takes time to make sure each person, no matter their level, understands the move and then we use what we learn in class while in grappling sessions (also known as sparring) to maximize our learning. The lessons at that point are tools in your toolbox. Tailoring is key - the SAFE course is for anybody to learn how to defend themselves even if you're not interested in sparring. The leadership meets you at whatever level you're at and doesn't just use a jiu jitsu move for a one size fits all approach. I thought I knew somewhat about martial art principles, but Corey and GCJJ have sculpted my understanding about de-escalation (both verbal and nonverbal), how to keep my base to maintain coordination, and how to manage distance from people who can potentially cause harm. read more