Quick note: when I refer to adolescent(s), I am meaning ages 13-17, not children.)
My review on google 2 months ago was deleted. Here it is copy and pasted, also edited a bit.
I was a patient at Harbor Oaks Hospital many times in the adolescent (pediatric) section. Your personal freedom here is pretty much deprived, as it is in most places. You have limited access to your clothes, hygiene material, books, anything used to help or regulate yourself. Try to bring PG books, they won't be hesitant to take away any 'graphic' material (non-gut-churning material such as Stephen King is not allowed, neither are books on psychology/mental health, or books with tragedy (drug addiction, mental health crisis, suicide, etc) as it is assumed other patients will read your materials. If lucky, the nurses/behavioral techs will take pity on your situation and let you have some of your 'graphic' books and the like.
Anyway, Harbor Oaks. Not the best hospital. Treatment is less than mediocre or adequate. No interacting with the opposite sex, which I can understand, although they don't stop children from butting into a situation such as phone calls, a personal matter with the nurses/behavioral techs, or whatever. Children, if not enough beds on their side, will be housed on the teen girls' side. Not the best choice. They will put transgenders on whichever side their sex at birth is. No LGBT rights whatsoever yet they won't stop patients from telling you graphic details of their sexual assault/abuse. Being abused is a horrible thing and to be dealing with that, and have someone whom you've first met tell you their graphic details of abuse, is not something I enjoyed, and I wouldn't expect anyone to enjoy this either. The interaction with the same sex is not monitored.
The food is not terrible, although what they promise for dinner is the opposite you receive. For example, if they promise cookies/cake/brownies, you may get gelatin or something of that sort.
The social worker, Eva, is inadequate and treats her adolescent patients like they are children. There are groups 2-4 times a day, and you will be frequently bored, no matter what they tell you. There is rarely treatment that addresses destructive behaviors or any other disorder besides clinical depression/persistent depressive disorder. If that is your issue, go to this hospital. If you struggle with something more complex, such as childhood abuse, destructive behaviors, eating disorders, personality disorders, etcetera, spend your money someplace else.
They'll dope you up to as far as 600 m.g, morphing you into a zombie. You get no say in your aftercare or treatment in general.
The average stay here, from what I remember, is 5-9 days. Sometimes longer, sometimes shorter. The shortest I saw someone stay was 3-4 days, the longest, 13. It depends on your behavior and why you're there in the first place.
The psychiatrist, Dr. Sanjeev Venkataraman, (Dr. Raman, for short) can be pretty empty and fail to explain why you need a certain medication or give you an estimate for your discharge date. Like most treatment facilities, more often than not, you will gain weight. The staff and psychiatrists will not care; you will be punished for not eating.
Your discharge date will likely be on a weekday. The psychiatrists rarely work on weekends.
The groups range from rec. therapy (walking/exercising mindlessly in the adult gym for about an hour, making bracelets), and others. I cannot recall, as they were unimportant then and still unimportant now as I fail to remember them or their contents.
The majority of adolescents were there for suicidal ideation. I wouldn't recommend sending your adolescent child here for substance abuse, as I recall, you are unable to mention anything related to addiction whatsoever. Send them to a therapist. Teen rehabs are disgusting and used for clout.
I don't know if Harbor Oaks made me worse in terms of suicidal ideation and destructive behaviors, though I know because of this facility and others, I've gained weight. This has sent my self-esteem to an all-time low.
There have been reports of child abuse throughout this facility. I never saw or heard of anything like that whilst I was there multiple times. Only after it'd been months after I left the most recent time I'd been there did I hear about a young child being slammed to the floor and getting a concussion.
Visitation times are, from what I recall, 3-5 times a week. Phone calls twice a day, ten minutes. Parents choose your contact list. Only immediate family.
As I mentioned you get no say in your aftercare and will likely be sent to a New Oakland Face to Face location. This program, in particular, is pretty gross and please advocate for your rights. Tell your parents not to send you.
Try to talk to your child before sending them away. Sending them to a treatment facility such as Harbor Oaks may make them worse. Do your research, don't believe everything you hear. read more