Lucian is an exceptional therapist. He truly knows how to hone in on the most essential aspects of relationship. I always leave our sessions with a renewed sense of emotional orientation and a deeper sense of connection to my emotional center. I also appreciate Lucian's wide ranging sense of spirituality that he brings to our sessions. He is able to bring a greater depth of meaning to the issues we discuss because of his spiritual openness. He is truly meant to do this! read more

My wife-to-be and I sought out Lucian after we began to develop some problems that we knew we'd be better off getting some help to deal with, and we each brought our own issues to the relationship. Lucian's smart, deliberate, calming and consultative approach was very refreshing, and after taking a hiatus we came back to him for a pre-marital workshop. I could not recommend him more highly. read more

I would not recommend this therapist. I sought his counsel for some issues I was experiencing with my partner. I was very eager to meet with Lucian (based on his Yelp reviews as a couples counselor) but left so disappointed. I felt he lacked the capacity to really connect with what I was sharing. I had a 10am appointment so maybe he's not a morning person? In any case, my session with Lucian lacked depth. He lacked the ability to empathize and decent communication skills. He seemed easily bored by conversation and is an utterly ineffective therapist. This was the first (and last) time I'd left a therapy session feeling more frustrated and not listened to. read more

I was excited to read all of the great reviews for Lucian Schloss, so I called Monday and left a message with all of my information. It's Friday and I haven't heard a peep. Back to the drawing board. read more

My significant other and I have seen Lucian for some relationship issues. It was wonderful to find someone that made me feel relaxed and who was easy to talk to about the difficult things in our relationship. I was honestly so anxious about seeing some for our issues, but once I met Lucian, that anxiety was gone! read more

if you are looking here because you are fed up with fighting with your partner of a long time and therapy is a last resort, stop looking and call lucian. if you are looking here because you have been in an amazing relationship for a little while but it has some hiccups and you want to learn how to deal with the things you dont find amazing about your partner before nothing is amazing, stop looking and call lucian. my boyfriend and i saw lucian for a few months after we had been together for about 8 months and i knew the one year itch would be coming for me. lucian gave us the tools to work through any disagreements before they became full blown screaming matches. our last appointment was several months ago now, because lucian fixed us! but, we always know he is in our back pocket if we need a tune up. we havent needed one yet though because once our arguments start to get out of hand, one of us will say, "do we need to make an appointment with lucian?" then we check ourselves before we wreck ourselves, dig deeper into the toolbox lucian gave us and (so far) we have worked things out! read more

One thing to know about Lucian is that he is crazy smart. He's grounded theoretically, and he has a broad and deep knowledge of his field. He's also well-versed in alternative, naturopathic approaches to health such as nutrition/lifestyle change, homeopathy, and energy work. He understands the pressures on modern marriages: financial stress; career demands; parental pressures; time constraints; modern distractions that prevent true intimacy; and etc. And fortunate for those of us who get to work with him, he applies all of this skill and background to his practice while remaining extremely down-to-earth and practical. He relates easily and is easy to relate to. When it's appropriate, he's willing to share a bit about himself with us, too - but without transgressing the bounds of professionalism or diverting attention from our counseling goals. And a bonus: He's got an excellent sense of humor, and big, contagious laugh - which, of course, can be a huge help in tense circumstances. Lucian has a great sense of what couples need and has the skill to be extremely flexible while maintaining effectiveness. For example, he trained my partner and I in the Imago dialogue process (i.e. Getting the Love You Want by H. Hendrix), which provides a script for relating effectively. Often, we stuck directly to the script, but sometimes, we used it only as a tool, and sometimes, we didn't use it at all and just talked things through. At times, we did activities meant to create connection, build intimacy, and tap into submerged parts of ourselves. A careful observer, he identified the ways we perpetuated our negative relationship patterns, and he provided useful tools. Importantly, his practice was always grounded in compassion. Marriage isn't always easy. The journey includes amazing times - as well as rough patches, entrenched beliefs and assumptions, bad habits and patterns of poor communication. But, with Lucian's help, in my marriage, I was better able to negotiate these obstacles, gain clarity, and take a closer look at my relationship dynamic. read more

Its a blessing places like this exist. We had a huge break down in communication, and for months nothing was working. Yes even the D word was thrown around for a bit. Won't get too much into our details, but I will say that this place was literally a life saver. After seven years of a strong heathy relationship, it made no sense to throw it all down the drain. All that time with your partner, and boom, gone. Wasn't an option for us. They helped us work on communication tactics which we still use to this day. Along with several other things. Very happy to have found such a great consoler. read more

Lucian is truly dedicated to his clients and their success as a couple. I would recommend him to any one of my couple friends in need of some outside support in their relationship. He is able to offer a holistic perspective from multiple modalities to create a therapeutic experience that supports each individual and as well as the couple relationship as a whole. read more

My Husband and I came to Lucian during a very volatile time in our relationship. We both felt that something needed to change but didn't know what our how to get there. We were taught the Imago technique which was incorporated into our sessions. Lucian has been integral in teaching us how to communicate. Along with the care and compassion he has brought to our conversations our relationship has strengthened and deepened to the point I always dreamed it would be. read more

Lucian is extremely professional, but also approachable and very easy to talk to. I would highly recommend him to anyone.

He seems astute enough, so 1 star there. 3 sessions in, he decided to give my husband the legal advice to establish a plan with mediation through divorce, then call him. He thought counseling would be too inflamatory. Had a really hard time rescheduling when we both thought it would be better to do counseling before divorce proceedings. Weeks passed. This seems backward to me since we both thought trying to salvage the marriage and trust should come first. Now we are full scale headed toward non-amicable divorce and no marital/relational matters have been addressed at all. Devastated, having tried to reach out for help, having poured out my soul of 17 years to him with no help whatsoever. If this is your last saving grace, find someone else. It's too important for the back burner. read more

After going through some very hard losses in my life and struggling with a few other issues I decided to try therapy. I've been seeing Lucian for a few months now and I have to say that my mental health has come a long way. Lucian is very perceptive and smart and is able to really get to the core of my issues. He's very easy to talk to and I walk away from my sessions feeling like I've taken a lot of weight off my shoulders. With a clearer mind I am able to get my everyday tasks taken care of with more ease. I no longer have the anxiety that kept me paralyzed in certain parts of my life. I finally feel like my life is moving forward instead of being stuck or living in the past. I would recommend Lucian to absolutely anyone, he is even available for Skype or phone sessions which makes it easier for anyone with a busy schedule. I am very much a happier and healthier person because of Lucian and I am very happy that I decided to get the help I needed. read more

My wife and I were having some communication problems and our interactions were not being very productive. After several sessions with Lucian our interactions improved dramatically and we continue to have improved communications. I have the highest regard for Mr. Schloss's abilities as a couples therapist. I would not hesitate to recommend him to any couple whether they were in crisis or just not getting along as well as they should. read more

It is hard to find a good counselor......period! So I was thrilled to find Lucian, who is one of those rare, talented counselors who has a plethora of interventions and insight to help work through situations. Specifically, the NET technique was invaluable in discovering underlying causes. I would highly recommend him! read more