It's just coincidental that the point I want to make after several bar reviews happens to be about the Limelight, because sadly it happens everywhere, but I've decided to from now on consider in any bar reviews I do how the staff and bouncers treat women customers.
No, I don't mean whether the bar staff flirt with us, or whether the bouncers are sexist and pervy (don't even get me started), but how they deal when women customers are sexually harassed or even assaulted.
I used to work as a bouncer in a city centre nightclub - yes, really, even though I'm five two and nine stone - and the sheer horrible sexual harassment from some of the male punters to some of the females was truly depressing to watch. I have also, like (even more depressingly) 100% of my female friends and, I'm sure, many women reading this review, been groped, harassed and hassled in bars the city over since I started going to them at 18.
So. Sadly many or most staff in bars did not get this. I learnt over the years that going to bouncers in the average bar and saying 'That guy just slapped me on the ass', almost always resulted in the bouncer in question either laughing at me outright and telling me to wise up, or embarrassedly muttering that the guy probably didn't mean it like I thought.
So, again. I learnt over the years, rather than saying to a bouncer, 'That guy just grabbed my ass', to be upfront and demand, 'What's your policy on sexual assault?' Because they really can't laugh at that, and if they do, well, it can be taken further.
Which brings me to the Limelight. It's part of Katy Daly's, my favourite bar, so I expected the bouncers and staff there to understand that women customers are there as customers and not porn stars. And they did. When I was grabbed one night in the bar - not just groped, but actually assaulted - I asked the bouncer what the policy was on sexual assault, and he was rightly shocked and threw the guy in question out.
So fair play to the Limelight for having clued up staff and bouncers that do look out for women, or at least respond to complaints properly and take appropriate action.
However, brilliant gig venue and club as it is, it really needs to get rid of that crap and tacky backdrop on the stage on Saturday nights, with the writhing and boobly-enhanced woman gyrating in silhouette, for hours, through all the songs. Yeah, that really makes us girlie punters feel like the bar's designed for us too. Cheers.
The Limelight's customers are at least 50% female, and it's a supposedly alternative and indie club, so I was quite saddened to see this and am sure it wouldn't have happened in my student days - in fact, I would have thought the Limelight was one of the last bars to do something as tacky and pathetic as that. Way to make us feel welcome, promo guys. Lose two stars. read more