Infants? Toddlers? Preschoolers? Tweens? Do PRIDE related events have any place whatsoever in these age groups?
This library was dear to my heart as a younger parent, bringing my children in weekly for the delightful, relaxed atmosphere to explore and find new reading and viewing material. Before the pricey and overblown "renovation", they had a fish tank for the kids, and also a little puppet stage with hand puppets to play with. Picture books you could actually find, because they were not stacked like random CDs in a thrift shop. But the changes that have infiltrated the library leadership over the past 5 years or so, and decisions therein, have eroded the integrity of this public space for learning, entertainment and community engagement.
Regardless of any adult's personal or religious beliefs on this, should libraries be advocating PRIDE to prepubescent children in programs? PRIDE, and the LGBTQIA (and whatever else) movement is entirely based on diverse sexuality / gender related penchants of ADULTS. NOT little children. How is this relevant for little ones? It is happening at this library and others in the area. It feels like grooming. I could understand ethnic diversity, "all the colors of the world", programs where young ones learn about differences between cultures -- what other children eat, what they learn how to do, what they look like -- and as a result, an acceptance of diversity in humanity, that we don't all look the same, talk the same, eat the same foods, celebrate the same things or in the same way. But we are all essentially the same. Thus, heightening awareness and acceptance of differences among humans. Valuable lesson. But sexually themed content about SEXUAL differences among humans is wholly inappropriate for little ones' programs at public libraries. They are too young. Just as there is separation of church and state, there should also be separation of political/sexual/adult themed topics and "state" ie a public space for CHILDREN. Nor should a public employee working in a children's section of a library be advertising confusing sexually-themed "flair" about their own sexual preferences or gender beliefs. "SHE/THEY" on a pin on a children's librarian's sweater. Sexually themed material on shelves in the juvenile section at the eye level of a 6 year old. LGBTetc "alliance" club for teens, run by a she/they. Do parents have any authority here, or may they drop off their teen for study at the library and not realize that this is regular fodder offered to their child and his/her peers, with/without their knowledge or consent? Where else is this acceptable in a workplace? Or a place for children? I am sadly thankful, as are my now-grown children, that this library was an entirely different space when they were younger; we really dodged a bullet. I will always remember those library visits with fondness. But I am concerned about the children who are brought to the library now and exposed to things that are confusing or do not have a place in their understanding just yet, because of their age. I agree with another reviewer for the local libraries -- there should be an opt out on our state taxes for library funding. There are plenty of ways to help children learn or find materials and resources without the liberally-bent ALA grooming the under-12 age group. No thanks. read more