I cannot emphasize what a crucial part of my pregnancy and daughter's birth Stephanie was for us. Stephanie provided the exact support we needed; from the moment we hired her to the days leading up to my labor to the birth of our daughter to the days after and everything in between. Any question, request, guidance needed - Stephanie was there. She made us feel no shame in asking the smallest questions. She was clear about when something was evidence-based vs her intuition/experience. She never pushed us to do anything and was always supportive of decisions we made. It was important to me and my husband to have a natural birth, which was my main motivation to hire a doula. Truly could not have delivered this baby without Stephanie (I mean, I would have, of course - but likely after much more pain and decisions I would later regret). She was with us on the phone (my husband, mostly) as soon as my water broke and she was with us in person by the time contractions got heavy to get us through the later stages of labor and the pushing/delivery process. Stephanie worked so in sync with the midwife and nurse on my delivery team - it took a village! In addition to Stephanie supporting me, she was also an amazing guide and support to my husband - equipping him with reading materials before delivery and coaching him on best ways to support me throughout labor and delivery. In the days after our baby was born, we talked to Stephanie every day. She visited us to make sure baby was latching properly, showed me some other tips and tricks for feeding, and has continued to provide us with guidance on feeding and pumping and all feeding things! When I become pregnant with baby #2, Stephanie will be among the first to know - could not imagine doing a totally natural birth again without her! read more

Hiring Stephanie as our doula was one of the best decisions we made while preparing for the birth of our first child. When my partner and I started looking into childbirth education, we quickly realized how much we didn't know and how overwhelming it could be to research everything on our own. From our very first meeting with Stephanie, it was clear how knowledgeable she is. She focuses heavily on evidence-based information, which was exactly how we wanted to approach decisions around birth. I became interested in attempting an unmedicated birth, although I was only about 60% confident I could actually do it. Stephanie never doubted me. From that point on, all of our preparation and meetings were geared toward helping me achieve that goal. She was always quick to respond to texts and emails and provided detailed, thoughtful information whenever we had questions. Stephanie also did an incredible job coaching my partner ahead of time so he knew how to support me during labor. In our prep meetings, she walked him through different techniques and ways he could help when things became intense. Because of that preparation, he was able to really play an active role during labor. Even during labor itself, Stephanie continued guiding him on how to support me in ways that were actually helpful in the moment. When things were very intense, she would gently coach him on what to do, whether that was how to help with breathing, positioning, or encouragement. If he wasn't sure whether something he was doing was helping, she gave him feedback and reassurance so he could keep supporting me confidently. That support for both of us made a huge difference. When my labor started, I was able to text Stephanie updates and questions and she was always quick to respond and help ease my worries. At one point she had another client in labor (which we knew was a possibility), but her backup doula came to my house and provided wonderful support until we went to the hospital. Stephanie met us there and immediately helped me focus on breathing and staying calm. The moment I'll always remember most was during the pushing phase. I was exhausted having been awake for nearly 36 hours, but Stephanie's coaching and encouragement made such a difference. Her reminders to breathe for the baby and "blow out the birthday candles for the baby," along with her steady counting and encouragement, helped me push through and ultimately deliver my baby the way I had hoped. One unexpected benefit of working with Stephanie is that she is also a lactation consultant. She helped us prepare for breastfeeding, explained how pumping works, and helped us troubleshoot breastfeeding our baby a few days after coming home. I didn't expect that level of support, but it ended up being incredibly helpful. Stephanie is incredibly knowledgeable and very honest. She gives you the information and may offer a recommendation, but she never pressures you if you decide differently. She's straightforward, fact-driven, and clearly very dedicated to her clients. Working with her truly showed me how valuable doulas can be. Stephanie was wonderful to work with, and I would not want to have another child without her by my side. read more

As a first-time father, hiring Bergen Doula and working with Stephanie was one of the most important and reassuring decisions I made during my wife's pregnancy and the birth of our twin boys. Going into this, I had a lot of anxiety about the medical system. I was genuinely worried that once we were in the hospital, doctors might pressure us to deviate from my wife's birth plan; especially given how complex and high-risk twin births can be. That fear was a big reason we pushed for hiring a doula, and Stephanie completely validated that decision. She helped us understand what was happening at every stage, explained options in real time, and guided me on how to best support my wife emotionally and physically. Instead of feeling helpless or overwhelmed, I felt informed, calm, and confident because she was there. One of the most unexpected and meaningful aspects of working with Stephanie was the level of care and attention we received throughout the entire process. She helped us thoughtfully prepare our birth plan, arrived at the hospital immediately when we needed her, and stayed by our side throughout an extremely difficult and arduous labor and delivery. What truly set her apart was that her support didn't stop there. She continued to check in on us after the birth, came to our home, spent additional time with us, and supported us well beyond anything I ever expected. It never felt transactional; she genuinely cared about us and our family. We chose Stephanie specifically because she truly listened to what we wanted out of the birthing experience for our twin boys. Giving birth to twins without a C-section is not the easy or default path, and we knew it would require strong advocacy. Stephanie never wavered. She helped us find the right doctors, supported us through conversations with nurses, and made sure our priorities were clearly communicated and respected. At the same time, she never pushed us in one direction or another. She was objective, evidence-based, and transparent; always focused on what was safest and healthiest for my wife and our babies. That balance of advocacy without pressure meant everything to me as a father. Stephanie is calm, knowledgeable, compassionate, and incredibly steady in moments that matter most. She didn't just support my wife; she supported me as a partner and a dad. I can honestly say our experience would not have been the same without her. I would recommend Bergen Doula and Stephanie to any expectant parent without hesitation! read more

I didn't know much about doulas or why to get one. But my company offered Carrot, which gives you the ability to get a doula and get it reimbursed, so I thought - why not! Knowing what I know now, and how incredibly helpful Stephanie was, I would have paid double! I tell everyone single one of my friends that a doula should be a non-negotiable, especially when having your first baby. Stephanie started working with us a few months before I gave birth and she taught us SO much that by the time we got to the hospital, I wasn't even nervous. But even at the hospital, it was so valuable to have someone there to advocate for me, help my husband HELP me, and just be a kind, familiar face during a somewhat scary situation. Stephanie was so supportive - with whatever decisions we wanted to make - and was always patient with us; never making us feel like we had to go one way or another. She was our doula, but also part therapist! My pregnancy, labor, birth, and post-birth was such a great experience because of her - always available for questions, freak-outs, or just to talk. I highly, highly recommend and am so grateful to her. read more

I'll forever be grateful for the game changer support, expertise, and guidance that I received throughout my birthing and delivery experience by Stephanie! Her warmth, nurturing, and gentle touch kept me on track and calm (as much as possible) during the most life changing experience of my life! I had challenging delivery and the experience, knowledge, and expertise of Stephanie ensured that I was able to keep going (when I thought I didn't have it in my to go on!) to deliver my baby girl naturally -- as close as possible to my birthing plan. She also ensured that lactation got off to a good start. She helped me through unbearable pain, gave me strength, soothed my fears, and calmed my anxieties by ensuring I had evidence-based support and guidance all throughout. I'm still healing from my birth and will never forget that I couldn't have gotten through it without Stephanie. Thank you for the amazing, miracle work that you do! My husband, baby girl, and I, will always remember your name and how you supported us during such difficult and exhausting days! On top of that, she recommended the best night nurse I could've asked for (still working with her after 5 months!) after I had a bad experience with the one that I originally hired! read more

We took Stephanie's childbirth education and newborn care classes, and they were both fantastic. Stephanie is incredibly knowledgeable, believes deeply in the natural birth process, and grounds her classes in scientific evidence. Her classes were invaluable in preparing us for the arrival of our first child. On a personal level, Stephanie is such a warm person -- she made us feel so comfortable and right at home, and it's clear she's passionate about her work, and cares deeply and empowers all the people she works with. I could not recommend her enough to anyone interested in preparing for birth and parenthood! read more

Prior to getting pregnant I always knew I was going to use a doula. I am a nurse and sometimes knowing too much about something (I.e childbirth) isn't always a good thing. I decided I wanted to hire a doula so I could have someone who always had my best interest at the forefront and could help me advocate for the childbirth experience that was best for my baby and myself. I had always dreamed of an unmedicated childbirth but baby girl had other plans! I share this mainly in hopes to shed light on possible misconceptions that you only need a doula if you go the unmedicated route. My baby was breech throughout my pregnancy. Stephanie helped guide me to finding a Chiropractor certified in Webster technique, an acupuncturist who specializes in fertility, and was always just a text away with any questions I ever had about anything. Baby girl never turned and a c section was scheduled. A few days prior I went into labor naturally and Stephanie dropped everything to meet me at the hospital. I was absolutely petrified of the spinal tap but she advocated for me and was able to come into the OR while it was placed which was a HUGE relief. During recovery Stephanie was there helping me establish breastfeeding in that "golden hour" and stayed until we were all settled in our room. My birth did not go as originally planned but it was such a beautiful experience regardless and I know Stephanie was a HUGE reason for that. If you are on the fence about hiring a doula, this is your sign to DO IT. I am eternally grateful for Stephanie (my husband as well) and can't wait until we get to worth together again with Baby number 2-hopefully a VBAC! ;) read more

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Stephanie is truly an angel from heaven. Without her, my pregnancy and birth would have been a completely different experience. As a first time mom- I was super anxious and nervous my entire pregnancy... googled everything, couldn't ever sleep, constantly worried if my baby was ok.. When I began looking for a doula and had my first FaceTime with Stephanie she put me at ease right away. She stayed on that "consultation" with me for over an hour.... Calming my fears... changing my perspective about birth (I was terrified - she pushed me to get excited about getting closer to meeting my baby). I immediately knew I wanted to work with her. Throughout my pregnancy she was always a text or call away. Never made me feel like a bother. Always comforting and kind. Maternal energy that's super calming and supportive. During my birth Stephanie truly saved the day. I was a nervous wreck and Stephanie consoled me, calmed me down, advocated for me, and worked magic to shift my mindset in that moment. If it weren't for her- my birth would have been a much different and less positive experience. I don't know what I would have done without Stephanie and would recommend her to any first time mom or mom with kids already. She is truly a magical person in every way. read more

I knew Stephanie was right for me the moment I got on the phone with her. She is has positive, empowering, healing, infectious energy! The week before labor she dropped by with a goodie bag and answered a bunch of questions about my 3rd trimester insomnia. It was amazing how her tricks put me at ease. As for labor - I ended up getting induced and it moved super quickly (shocking nurses and doctors!). Stephanie spent extra time with me after labor, and visited a few days after labor to help with breastfeeding. It's a blur now, but she was amazing. I am a big believer after my experience that even if you are induced or end up needing a C-section - a doula is still CRUCIAL! Stephanie is the very best you can find, especially if you want to breastfeed. Thank you Stephanie! read more

When I became pregnant for the second time, I immediately started searching for a doula to help me with my goal of healing a vbac with my son. I had a very traumatic experience with my daughter's birth (a c-section in NYC in April 2020 where I had to recover without my husband thanks to COVID) and I was determined to have a different experience the second time. During the consultation with Stephanie, I knew she was the perfect fit. She validated all my feelings about my first birth and I left the call feeling so empowered. Throughout my pregnancy, she was a sounding board for all my questions and helped me mentally as much as physically. She helped me compile lists of questions that were important for vbacs and was always there to check-in after appointments with my OB. When labor started hot and heavy, she came over quickly to help me manage debilitating back labor. Thanks to her support, I was able to stick it out at home way longer than I would have been able to and I showed up at the hospital 8cm dilated - a huge mental victory! My OB was on vacation and the OB on call gave me a hard time about trying for a vbac. Stephanie was kind but fierce as she advocated for me. I was able to focus on my body and my baby, knowing she had my back and wouldn't let any unnecessary inventions take place. Not only was my son born by the most beautiful vbac, Stephanie helped me start my breastfeeding journey off successfully in the recovery room. The pictures she took of his birth are unreal and I'm SO happy to have them to look back on. This was something I wouldn't have thought I wanted and I'm forever grateful for the memories. I'm sure there are many amazing doulas but Stephanie treated me and my family like her family. She brought special art activities for me to do with my daughter to help her prepare for her brother's birth. Every interaction felt so comfortable and I left feeling so empowered. She was such a special part of my son's birth and I will always be grateful to her! read more

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Being a first time parent, everything was new and overwhelming. My biggest fear about birth that led us to hiring a doula was all the unknowns as first time parents. After a pregnancy loss, I had so much fear and anxiety. I was focused on pain, doubting myself, fear of a c-section, fear of so many things possibly going wrong.  I wanted a doula to help my husband and I prepare for childbirth + during for postpartum support. Having Stephanie as a doula exposed my husband and I to so much information + eased our fears. Stephanie helped us work through our fears by shifting our mindset from a fear-based one to an empowered one. She helped me realize I had to believe I was capable of a vaginal birth. She asked us questions in preparation for the birth. Her guidance was crucial in helping us feel more prepared. She took time to get to know us, to learn our preferences, + empowered us to know our options.  Thanks to Stephanie, I had an amazing + quick vaginal birth. She was there every step of the way. She was the 1st person I called when my water broke. During early labor, she texted to check in + kept in touch with my husband via text + FT. When she arrived, she advocated for me with the nurses, helped me get comfortable, guided with breathing + pushing, took photos (as requested), + stayed to assist with breastfeeding. It was such a beautiful experience. When our baby had feeding issues, she recommended specialists. Thankfully, we learned our baby had lip + tongue ties. Our daughter thrived after her revisions. Her wealth of knowledge re: pregnancy, birth, + postpartum was most valuable. She provided evidence based information. We were most impressed that she was known by our hospital, by our midwife, + her vast experience. We felt very comfortable with her. We highly recommend Stephanie as a doula. Her energy was reassuring, caring, humorous, + fun! We still keep in touch! I'm so grateful we found one another! read more

I knew I wanted a doula once I became pregnant and searched for someone in my area who would be a good fit. I interviewed several, but once I had a call with Stephanie, I knew she was the one! She immediately put me at ease from our first phone call, which went WELL over the allotted time we had booked and you could tell she knew her stuff. I mentioned my doctor's office and she named everyone in the practice. She said to me on that call, "you no longer google stuff, *I'M* your google." And man did she not only mean it, but she delivered! Anytime I had a question, she'd answer it promptly and thoroughly! She also made sure to check in that her answers were sufficient while ensuring they weren't adding stress with information overload. She never judged us or any of our decisions, she just made sure we had all the information to make the correct decision for our family. All the prep calls and visits prior to my due date brought such a sense of calm and also excitement! When my water broke, Stephanie was the first person I spoke to about next steps and she guided me through what was to come. Once I got to the hospital, we stayed in touch and she checked in to see when the best time for her to come would be as there were covid restrictions in place so the amount of people in the room was limited. I am SO GRATEFUL she was there as my labor progressed as my doctor was not supportive, understanding, or listening to me and having Stephanie to advocate for me was essential to a healthy delivery for myself and our son. If she wasn't there, I'm afraid to think of what may have happened. Stephanie took photos for us and helped with latching and stayed at the hospital til well into 4am to ensure we got settled. We ended up needing to stay in the hospital for longer than expected and Stephanie helped with any questions/issues we were having while there. Once we brought our little guy home, she came by when we were ready for her and she helped with breastfeeding and showed off her magic by putting our baby and the rest of us at ease. We were struggling with him crying and not knowing why, but she knew and helped us understand when to feed him, when to entertain him, and so on. I still send her photos today of our little guy who she calls her family and it truly does feel that way if you go with Stephanie for your doula needs! Can't recommend her enough, and if we decide to go down this crazy journey again, she'll be the first call we make! read more

I love Stephanie! She was my doula for a Thanksgiving 2017 baby! We just had our first baby, and Stephanie made my birthing experience really positive. I do not know if I could have made it through the pushing phase of my labor without Stephanie's guidance (holding my hands and legs and her positive coaching!). Stephanie also provided tons of pre-labor support (via home visits) and post-labor support. She is super attentive and would check in on me throughout the whole process and post process without ever being intrusive. Just the right thing touch. Stephanie really cares about your birthing experience and I am so happy I found her and I am so happy she was part of our birthing experience. I love this woman to the moon and back. read more

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If you are looking for a doula, you need not to look any further. Stephanie is one of the best! We hired her as our doula for the birth of our second child in order to provide support prior to and during birth. My 2nd pregnancy moved along without a hitch and she made me feel so confident and prepared that I didn't even realize I was entering active labor when the day came. Stephanie kept me cool, calmed and collected through it all. From listening with a heart of understanding to keeping me centered at the goal at hand. Everything in my birth plan was followed thanks to Stephanie. When I arrived at the hospital I was fully dilated and unable to advocate for myself but Stephanie came in with my birth plan and informed the nurses and reminded my doctor of all my wishes. All was followed and resulted in a healthy baby and a happy momma. Her support didn't stop there. She made sure to get me on a good footing with breastfeeding. With my first child, I struggled immensely with breastfeeding and it took me a month to get my daughter to latch. In order to prevent this occurrence, Stephanie made sure she didn't leave the hospital until my baby latched, which he did. It gave me the confidence that I needed. Now we are 7 months in and still have a great breastfeeding relationship despite some challenges (tongue/lip ties). Even after birth and helping me with breastfeeding, Stephanie made herself available to me for anything; questions, concerns or just to say hi. She is a true godsend and anyone that works with her will feel heard, respected and cared for. We are so glad we hired Stephanie, She is truly one of a kind. read more

I just had my first baby and am SO glad I had a doula and especially thankful that my doula was Stephanie. The only things I wished for in childbirth were not to get torn up too badly, and avoiding a C section because I was terrified of the recovery as much as I was of birthing. My wonderful husband didn't know how he could support me better either. Luckily Stephanie provided the help we needed and more. She's down-to-earth, funny but most importantly so genuinely caring, non-judgemental and warm. Compared to some other doulas I spoke with, I appreciated that she was highly experienced, an IBCLC and more assertive with her evidence-based advice so I felt confident she would help me advocate for myself at the hospital too. And I couldn't have asked for a more ideal birth - healthy baby and no injuries!!! I believe that preparation and luck were both key. Most critically, Stephanie stopped me from going to the hospital too early and gave me strength when I didn't think I had any left. She stayed by my side the whole time at the hospital, held my hand and even held me in labour, and didn't leave until she saw I was breastfeeding correctly. Unlike the paediatrician and our OB, she also has practical advice for baby care and nursing which has given us some of our sleep and life back. The woman doesn't stop giving! Stephanie had such an important and memorable role in our daughter's safe arrival into this world - thank you Stephanie, our little family couldn't have done it without you!! read more

Stephanie was the back-up doula during my labor, when my doula got called to another birth. In an intense and uncertain situation, she was so warm, direct, and supportive that we immediately trusted and felt comfortable with her. She ultimately was able to keep me from having a c-section; after induction and 2 hours of pushing, the doctor was worried about my exhausting myself and the baby, and wanted to do one. Stephanie firmly but kindly advocated that I try side-lying release and change positions for pushing, and got the doctor to agree. These suggestions worked, and I was able to deliver vaginally, as had been my strong preference. Stephanie was also extremely supportive and helpful throughout the intense labor process, guiding my through each push, getting me ice, drinks, and other items, explaining what to expect, and reassuring me when I got overwhelmed or emotional. I felt like she always knew exactly what I needed to hear to get through the challenging moments. She also helped my husband navigate the process, giving him clear tasks to do and answering questions. Finally, she was so skilled at connecting with the nurses and doctors, which I think ultimately made her advocacy even more successful. While we didn't expect to work with Stephanie, I am so glad we did, and in the end it felt like she was the doula we were meant to have. I couldn't recommend her more highly, and will be forever grateful for her help in bringing our beautiful, healthy baby into the world! read more

I knew I wanted to work with a doula because I'm a first time mom. I was pretty nervous about giving birth (fear of the unknown). After speaking with several doulas in the area, I decided on Stephanie. She had the best energy, hands down. My experience with her was incredible. She helped educate and empower me in prenatal meetings, and she supported both me and my husband throughout the birth of our son in July. She truly went above and beyond for us and I'm so grateful. If you're considering a doula, look no further. read more

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Hiring Stephanie was the best decision I made during my pregnancy. She immediately put my first time mom nerves at ease. I was 31 weeks pregnant when I first met with Stephanie. I was having daily meltdowns between work and concerns about the pregnancy. I was overwhelmed and did not feel prepared at all for the birth process or becoming a mom. She was there every step of the way with evidence based information. She helped us stay informed of all the decisions we had to make. Most importantly, she was the support person my husband and I needed. Before hiring Stephanie, I was not able to sleep. Once we hired her, I got my sleep back, right up until I delivered. She was always just a text or a phone call away... and still is! She is an amazing person & doula. Whenever anyone asks me for advice on the birth process, the first thing I tell them to do is to hire a doula, and if you are in the bergen county area, hire Stephanie! read more

Though I took the basic labor and delivery classes, while pregnant I was spending most of my time planning for life with baby rather than for those few days in the hospital. I hired a doula because I was looking for someone to help guide my partner and I through labor itself - someone with experience, who had seen it many times before. Stephanie is that knowledgeable someone. She is an incredibly calming presence who helped get me through some of the toughest moments in the hospital. She did not judge my preferences - we developed a plan to make it to a certain point before getting an epidural, and with her help I did it. Most unexpected was how helpful her in-home follow up visit was a few days after getting out of the hospital. By that point a new parent has so many questions, and her reassuring presence and knowledge was incredibly helpful. I would recommend Stephanie to anyone seeking the care of a supportive, knowledgable doula - and have done so to a friend, who also utilized Stephanie and had a great experience. read more

Stephanie was our stand-in doula at the last minute because our baby was early and our original doula was unavailable. While this would typically be a stressful situation, Stephanie stepped in seamlessly and brought her knowledge, experience and warm presence to our birth. Stephanie came prepared and I appreciated that she thought of many small things to make me more comfortable. She was not judgmental of my choices and very helpful when I had any questions. My family really enjoyed having her around and she was a great person to have by my side. Stephanie also provided a postpartum visit at which we were talking for so long I didn't even realize it had been over two hours. She is clearly extremely passionate about what she does and her love of the babies and the birthing process shines through. I would highly recommend Stephanie and if we choose to have another child I would definitely hire her again. read more

Hiring Stephanie was the best decision we made in the pre-birth process! From the moment we met, we knew she was the right fit for us. She was so warm and friendly and knowledgeable and spent hours with us in just the pre-hire meeting! During the two coaching sessions right before the birth, she made us both feel at ease and ready for the challenge ahead. Ultimately my birth did not go as planned and Stephanie was there to help us every minute along the way and truly was an advocate for what we wanted and needed. I do not know how we could have gotten through it without her support! read more

When I was pregnant with my son, I didn't know what a doula was, and I didn't know what kind of birth I wanted to have. All I knew was that I was terrified of delivery! I was anxious about the pain (low tolerance here), the hospital (would they respect my birth plan? would everything be explained to us?), and the whole realm of the unknown (first time mom). After some research I wanted to strive for an unmedicated hospital birth and I knew my husband and I would need strong support and guidance. After my first meeting with Stephanie, I felt like a weight was lifted off of my shoulders. Her experience, encouragement, and understanding of the process helped turn my third trimester from fearful to joyful. We met and spoke many times in the weeks before birth, and I became more and more excited to experience labor and birth. Knowing that Stephanie would be there to help me get through labor allowed me to revel in the idea of it. I surprised myself -- I was now aching to feel the contractions and get through them with her support! I couldn't wait! We were so lucky to have the birth that we wanted -- and I'm not sure I could have done it without doula support. There are so, so many benefits to having a doula, but for me, the best part was simple -- that I could just feel calm and truly enjoy the last leg of my pregnancy. I knew that once it was time, we would be in good hands, and that my husband and I could just focus on the experience of labor and birth. Stephanie was an angel that allowed us to fully experience it, let us be in the zone and not worry about details. She is a facilitator of the most ancient beautiful life force. Another valuable benefit was Stephanie's expertise as a lactation consultant. She was so generous with her time right after birth and really helped my baby and I get into a groove. The hospital nurses and LCs were great, but they simply didn't have the time to sit by our side and patiently guide us through our first feedings. In the weeks after birth, we had some issues and questions, and Stephanie's breastfeeding guidance was paramount! 2 months in, baby and I are nursing like pros. Our second time around, it won't even be a question. Even though we are more confident in the birth process now, we need our doula! Stephanie's guidance was invaluable, magical, and worth every single penny! read more

Hiring Stephanie to be a part of our birth journey was without a doubt the best decision my husband and I made. I always felt anxious about birth and labor, and I knew I needed support. My husband had never heard of what a doula is and he was honestly unsure as to why we needed one. Stephanie exceeded all expectations. From day one, she made my husband and I feel safe, empowered and simply excited! We knew we could safely enter labor and postpartum fully prepared, educated and with a guiding light. Stephanie radiates positive energy while being exceedingly knowledgeable. Ten months after giving birth, I still find myself talking about Stephanie and how grateful I am for her. The birth of a baby happens only once, and I am forever thankful that my baby boy entered the world with Stephanie. read more

I was hesitant about getting a doula at first. I had a hard time justifying the expense, and with so many other decisions to make at the time, I was dragging my feet with the search. Eventually, around the end of week 38, I decided to interview a couple to see how I feel. I don't know if it's fate or just dumb luck, but Stephanie was available and seeing her reviews online I reached out to her. After one phone call I could tell this is the type of person I needed in the delivery room - direct, honest, warm, caring, funny, motivated, professional... Ultimately I just enjoyed talking to her. Her sense of humor and confidence made me immediately comfortable, and we set up an appointment to meet in person. Little did I know I'd go into labor the next day, a week early! I called Stephanie to tell her I'll require her services earlier than I thought. She did not hesitate, and that night once I needed her, she was at my door ready for action. I can't say how happy I am I decided to take her. Throughout the entire thing she was supportive, comforting, helped both me and my husband keep our heads, was friendly with the hospital staff and made sure we were kept informed and I was distracted from the pain. I ended up getting exactly the birth that I was hoping for, getting an epidural late enough so that I didn't need to be induced, and it was purely Stephanie's pain management that helped me through those last few crucial hours before the medication. She's a miracle worker. After it was all over, she was there to help me breastfeed for the first time, and even took some candid pictures of our little family that I will treasure for the rest of my life. A couple of days later Stephanie came to our home for a postpartum visit. I'm not exaggerating when saying she already felt like family to us. She stayed for hours going over everything from latching and positioning during feeding, to pumping and general baby care. Whenever I had an issue in the following weeks, I texted her and she answered immediately, always being very attentive and excited to help. Stephanie is a treasure. I highly recommend getting a doula for birth in general, and specifically, I can't imagine my own birth without her. read more

Giving birth was the greatest experience. This was made possible by Stephanie's support in the months leading up to delivery, throughout labor, and the postpartum period where she provided breastfeeding guidance. I highly recommend her to anyone looking to have a positive, uplifting pregnancy and a birth experience that, regardless of how it unfolds, makes you realize your own strength. While laboring, Stephanie pulled out a handful of effective techniques and tricks that made enduring big contractions so,so much more manageable. She taught all of these to my husband and made sure he was the #1 key support player. I did not fully believe that I would be able to endure an unmedicated childbirth or be able to breastfeed and having the support of a doula helped me realize that it wasn't so far out of reach. Highly, highly recommend. read more

Where do I begin with this review...I knew I wanted a doula when I decided to attempt a water labor under the care of a midwife. I was under the impression that a doula shows up at your birth, helps you get through labor, and that's the end of that relationship. Stephanie was an amazing support through the labor process, but it was the time before and after the birth that caused my husband and I to frequently say "wow, it was worth it to hire Stephanie just for that..." Prior to labor, Stephanie came to our house twice to ensure we were physically and emotionally ready for the arrival of our baby girl. She checked in over email throughout the last trimester, and was so responsive to the barrage of requests I sent her over that time. She helped me change over to a new midwife practice, and also find a great local pediatrician and chiropractor (all people she would personally vouch for), and any health-related recommendations she sent to us were always accompanied with the science/research she knew I would want to review myself. During the last few weeks when there were a lot of weird body changes, it was Stephanie I called to talk me through what was normal and how to cope. During labor, Stephanie did everything I could have wanted or needed. Labor and delivery didn't go exactly as planned, and Stephanie was there to provide physical and emotional comfort, and also play the "pushy mom" role when we needed something from the hospital staff. After labor, Stephanie stayed with us to work on nursing and ensure we were ready to move to recovery (even though she was coming off back-to-back deliveries and hadn't slept in several days, she wouldn't leave until we said we were ready). Our baby is now 12 days old and I've talked to Stephanie almost every day. She came for a post-partum visit and immediately corrected the bad latching habits I had picked up at the hospital. She's talked me off the ledge multiple afternoons and always texts me back - even when I'm losing my cool over a 3 am feeding. When I asked if she knew anyone who could come give us a night of relief (post-partum doula), she immediately called up her contacts and found us someone great...and checked in the next morning to see how it went. In summary - Stephanie has been everything to us over these crazy 4 months. Her local connections, experience as a mother of 3, and training as a lactation consultant make her an incredible resource. Her compassion, sense of humor, and boundless energy make her a fantastic doula. I can't imagine having gone through this experience without her, and I look forward to a continued relationship with Stephanie in the future (and maybe for baby #2!). read more

It's truly hard to express in words what Stephanie meant to us during our pregnancy, laboring, birth and postpartum, but I'll try! We got pregnant with our son in October 2018 and knew we wanted the support from a doula but didn't know exactly what that mean...until we met Stephanie and from that first moment, we knew we wanted her to be a part of our journey. Because this was our first pregnancy we were thirsty for knowledge and Stephanie was the ultimate resource - helping us create our birth wish (birth plan), sending us evidence based articles so we could make educated decisions, offering ways to stay centered and healthy and making intros to vendors that align with our philosophies. The beauty of working with Stephanie is she supported our decisions without judgment and was (and continues to be) a beacon of love and encouragement. She's as hands on as you want her to be - and while I have an amazing partner in my husband, she brought an extraordinary balance of confidence, knowledge and poise to our labor and delivery. As a result, she was a major reason why that experience was amazing (how many people can say that?!). One of the most challenging aspects of this experience for me wasn't the pregnancy or delivery, but rather the ability to breastfeed. We had hoped to exclusively breastfeed and Stephanie helped to guide us down that path. Her postpartum visits were not only valuable from a knowledge and practical perspective but even more impactful was her presence and encouragement, which brought a wave of comfort and love during the extremely difficult first few days. Stephanie will forever be a part of the family - she was with us for every step of this intimate and beautiful journey and we'll be forever grateful. And of course if there are more littles in our future, she's the first person we'll call! read more

There's no way for me to express the deep gratitude my husband and I hold for Stephanie! She was with us every step of the way to ensure we had the information and support we needed to make the best decisions for my pregnancy and birth experience. She has a way of making you feel like you've known her your entire life and makes labor FUN. Most importantly, she knows exactly when to step in and when to step back to make sure your partner is engaged and confident. Hiring her to be by your side is the best money you can spend, and truly a blessing... read more

Stephanie is one of the most compassionate, empathetic, and grounded souls I have ever met and it's not an exaggeration to say that she is worth 10x the amount she charges for the amazing service she provides. I could not imagine getting through my 36 hour labor and birth at home without Stephanie's grounding, steadfast presence and wonderful wit. She's also an EXCELLENT birth photographer and took some stuffing shots of my birth. She kept my husband calm and collected and she helped me establish a secure latch with my baby after she was born with some amazing lactation services. Her service continues well beyond the "giving birth" stage. This is a woman you can FaceTime at 9pm on a Saturday and show her how your baby is biting your boob and she will calmly walk you through it with a joke and a loving, helpful manner. Stephanie is immensely overqualified for the work she does and is one of the most intelligent, well educated people I know--she has found her life's calling in doula work and it radiates from every fiber of her being. I honestly can't recommend her enough. Search "ThatDIYCouple" "homebirth" on YouTube to see a video of our homebirth, you will see how amazing Stephanie was! https://youtu.be/FcL3-IEbqx0 read more

Everyone says that labor is hard. Well, you don't really know how hard it is until you're in the throes of it. Time stands still and flies simultaneously. You succumb to your own internal ebbs and flows of pain as you get ready to welcome that perfect little angel into your life. Your body literally becomes the vessel of an ancient birth ritual- and no matter how well you've prepared for the event, and regardless of the fact that the body knows what it's doing, what you actually experience is as foreign as it gets. I knew that hiring a doula would be essential for me considering the fact that I'd chosen to go the natural route (pain killer free!- the horror!) The second I met Stephanie in person I knew that she would be the perfect fit for me. She is passionate for what she does, extremely well-educated, experienced, loving, and has a very grounded demeanor. And did I mention that she is also very funny? Well, I couldn't have selected a better advocate for my birth plan. She was able to answer my crazy questions and pointed me in the right directions as far as literature to read, videos to watch, and exercises that would help prepare me for my day. And the day that I went into labor, I felt comfortable and calm knowing that she was there just to help me get through it all. I highly, HIGHLY recommend Bergen Doula. She will forever be a part of my baby's birth story and a part of my family's life! I lover her to bits! read more

If you are feeling nervous about your upcoming labor/delivery or had a previous negative birthing experience, you need a doula and you need Stephanie! As a first time mom, I didn't know what to expect and wanted to counter any unwanted pressure, touching, harassment, and decisions from my obgyn and hospital. I saw the system as a place that did not hear nor respect the voices of laboring women. And I was afraid of the raw pain I would be in during labor. Before labor, Stephanie gave me confidence and peace of mind that I would have a positive birthing experience. I felt in control and that my voice would be heard come the day. She also understood my reservations about my obgyn and connected me with a wonderful midwife that I ultimately switched to (and I was so glad I did!). It was nice that she was always just a text or call away whenever a question game up, and had ample resources at her fingertips. I gave birth in April 2020, right when the pandemic was at its height in the NYC/NJ area. Nevertheless, I had a wonderful birthing experience. I felt prepared, supported, coached, loved, cared for, everything you want to feel when you are most vulnerable. In addition to being just plain awesome at her job, she is a wonderful, energetic, humorous and positively uplifting personality that was just what I needed when I was feeling nauseous, lonely, achy, tired and everything else in between during my pregnancy. I felt comfortable in saying or doing just about anything in front of her, and I never felt I was at risk of offending her with any of my crazy thoughts and questions. When you are with her, it is a judgement-free zone. I am so grateful to have this amazing woman in my life and would not hesitate a moment to recommend her as your doula. read more

When I found out I was pregnant, I went through all the emotions - beginning with excitement but evolving into apprehension. I met with an OB who unfortunately did not help ease my worry, did not offer me warm congratulations, and left me feeling like I was in for something I could not handle. Call me crazy, but I preferred to see my pregnancy as normal, exciting and empowering! When I switched to midwives, I had found a better match for me. I had a normal pregnancy, but even if I didn't I knew I was always in good hands. It didn't hurt to get a hug every now and then as well! At first, I was not sure if I would also need a doula or if I could afford it, but my midwives highly recommended Stephanie. She gives hugs too! I loved the genuine, personal care she gives expecting mamas and I knew from our initial phone call that she needed to be our doula. My baby girl is 6 weeks old now and I'm still raving about her birth and the value of having a doula. I will be for many years to come. A big perk for me was feeling so at ease about having a natural birth, even when things got quite hard in the moment. Stephanie is so knowledgeable about birth and in the weeks prior to my labor and right up to the big moment when the intensity was growing and my husband was beginning to wear out, Stephanie never made us feel like something was not going well or uninformed. I only felt that everything I was experiencing was normal, expected and that I could do it. It was a stellar feeling that is unfortunately not part of many other birth stories I have heard. I found out how important it was to have Stephanie not only supporting me but also my husband and my family members who were waiting right outside the hospital room door eager for updates. They adore Stephanie as much as we do. The most admirable thing about Stephanie, which makes her such a wonderful doula, is her energy and passion for this work. She was unwavering in her support after many long hours of labor and she really cares about the families and babies she works with. Her love and support just overflows! She has opened herself up to provide ongoing advice as a lactation consultant and even a mama friend matchmaker, connecting us with other new parents in the area! At our first meeting, Stephanie told us that she never gets tired of seeing babies born but that it is even more magical to see a woman become a mother... so Stephanie is just... *sigh* amazing!!! read more

After my best friend had her first child, she told me that the best piece of advice she could give me going into pregnancy was to find a good doula. I happened to find a great one in Stephanie, and my birth experience was exactly what I wanted it to be: calm, safe, empowering, slightly comical, and overwhelmingly beautiful. I definitely had my hang-ups about giving birth. After reading countless articles about how the maternal death rate in the U.S. is among the highest of any developed country, I was scared of medical personnel insufficiently tracking blood loss or missing signs of pre-eclampsia. I wanted an advocate. I wanted someone to help me stick up for myself during what is arguably the most vulnerable moment of a person's life. After explaining this to Stephanie, I'm sure she thought I was going to be very high-strung and anxious, but surprisingly (to her as well as to myself), I just kind of resigned myself to the forces taking over my body. Stephanie had lots of great tips about how to encourage proper positioning of the baby and even how to induce labor. I gave many of these a half-hearted try. (I recommend showing a little more dedication than I did!) Many of Stephanie's written materials include the phrase "when women need women most." This really resonated with me. My husband was extremely helpful and 100% necessary during my son's birth, but I found so much comfort in Stephanie's words, calm demeanor, "this too shall pass" attitude, and grounding touch. Her physical presence at my birth was nothing short of a miracle, given that the country was reeling from the devastation caused by COVID-19 at the time, and hospitals were still learning how to best support laboring women while reducing the risk of viral spread. And thank god she was there. Stephanie, with the help of a very confident young nurse, convinced my OB to allow me to push in alternative positions and to do so for 4 1/2 hours without intervention. Stephanie also helped me make game time decisions about whether I wanted my water ruptured or whether I wanted Pitocin and in what form. She definitely fulfilled her role of strengthening my voice and helping me to advocate for myself. I remember, when broaching the topic of having a doula with my OB, how she chuckled and said, "Sure, sure. Yeah, doulas are great. But you're going to have a lot of people with you in the delivery room. Doulas are important for after delivery." The implication in that first part was certainly wrong; what would I have done without Stephanie? Possibly had a C-section and definitely not felt as calm and centered. But I was unprepared to understand how right she was about the second part. Stephanie was so important to my mental health postpartum, particularly when it came to breastfeeding. Like many new mothers do, I was struggling with the physical pain of breastfeeding and the psychic pain of my perceived inadequacy. Breastfeeding hurt! And it didn't seem like I was giving my baby any nutrition. A few days after I had gotten home, I basically had an emotional breakdown. I tried to temper my words when reaching out to Stephanie, but she sensed my distress. She was over at my house the next day with a scale. She weighed the baby before and after a feeding and helped me use my breast pump for the first time to demonstrate that, yes, I was producing nutritious colostrum, and, yes, the baby was getting it. It is really hard to choose a doula. If you have interviewed doulas, you know that they're all lovely people. Stephanie was just as lovely as all of my other interviewees were, but she also had this strength shining from within her. She was loving, accepting, and open-minded, but also a mama bear: resolute and strong-willed when she needed to be. If I had any artistic talent, I would render Stephanie as a majestic and imposing tree with wide, long branches, and glittering leaves. She can withstand any storm, she will protect you, and she has a beautiful, glowing spirit. I will always cherish having had her by my side on one of the most important days of my life. read more

Stephanie has been so helpful to me on my breastfeeding/pumping journey with twins from coming over to my home to help with latching and tandem feeding to always being available via text if I ever have any questions. Highly recommend! read more

My husband and I have selected Stephanie after a long research because her natural empathy with us, her professionalism and the human sense that she transfers. She follows up all my pregnancy, delivery and postpartum; She did not limit her service as an expert consultant, Stephanie built a really close and nice relationship making us feet confident and comfortable. We had planned a Natural birth with active Labor, also, for us was important the participation of my Husband and the connection with my baby. We followed all the birth plan that we designed, even if at the end the delivery turn in a C Section, I'm completely satisfied and happy with all the decisions we took together. Stefanie is that kind of person that gave her best, she always answered immediately and effectively all our calls and messages. She never lost sight of the goals that we determined at the birth plan, especially when it changed in a C section, and she took care that the hospital followed as much as possible our birth plan. We are so happy to have chosen her as our Doula Mi Esposo David y yo estuvimos buscando una Doula para tener un soporte para recibir nuestra primer hija. Despues de entrevistar muchas Doulas, escogimos a Stephanie por la gran empatia que genero con nosostros, profesinalismo y humanindad que transmite. Ella no solo se limito en asesorarnos previo, durante y despues del parto, si no creo una relacion con nosotros y nos hizo sentir siempre seguros durate todo el proceso. Yo planee tener un parto Natural, tener una especial coneccion con mi Esposo y bebe durante este momento; hicimos todo como lo que planeamos y siento que no falto nada de lo que deseamos a pesar que tube una complicacion que termino en un parto Cesareo. Stefanie es una persona especial que da todo de si misma, siempre respondio imediatamente nuestras llamadas y mensajes, nunca perdio de vista los objetivos que determinamos juntos, ademas creo una coneccion con mi esposo y con migo que nos hizo sentir completamete en famila, es la tia Norte Americana que lo sabe todo en el momento mas importante de nuestra historia como familia, la llegada de nuestra primera hija. Nuestro idioma Nativo es Espanol e Italiano; quiero exaltar la flexibilidad y capacidad de Stephanie para interpretar y facilitar la comunicacion no solo entre nosotros, si no tambien con el personal del hospital. Estamos muy felices de haber elegido Stephanie como nuestra Doula. read more

So grateful for Stephanie as our Doula. Our experience from start to finish was wonderful. We met Stephanie through a referral for our second baby. We didn't have a Doula for our first but knew that it was something we wanted for our second since we wanted a natural birth. Stephanie started our journey with a comprehensive review of our past birth, what decisions we could make for the second and came up with a plan. This birth plan gave us confidence because we were informed but also provided my husband and I with a strong partnership heading into our birth. Our outcome was a healthy and natural delivery! One of my requests was to make the vibe in the room like a party, as I wanted a positive and happy atmosphere as our baby entered this world. Stephanie heard this and took this request throughout our entire experience together. Whether it was showing up on my front lawn blasting Earth, Wind, and Fire (mid pandemic) and having a dance party on a random Wednesday or stringing fairy lights across the hospital room, she leaned into my request and did it with love. Stephanie has incredible warmth and lovely energy and I highly recommend her as a Doula. read more

As a first time mom I felt completely overwhelmed preparing for birth, dealing with those last few months of pregnancy and some general anxiety about the medical side of birth. Stephanie was a life saver! She talked me through all my worries, and helped guide me to resources when I needed them. On the day of my daughter's birth she was a rock star. She labored with us at home for HOURS, had lots of tricks to manage pain and helped us time going into the hospital at the right moment (not too early and not a home birth)! I honestly can't remember much about the hospital since it went so fast, but my husband says she was there with us every step of the way. I am so thankful that Stephanie was part of our birth team. She guided and advocated for me so I could have the birth I wanted. Would 100% recommend!!! read more

If you are considering hiring a doula, look no further. Stephanie is the most amazing, responsive, and understanding support person you could ever think of having with you during such an intense moment of your life. After having a bad experience with an OB who made it clear she would not respect any of my wishes, I wanted to make sure I had an advocate in the room with me. I ended up switching OBs and the hospital I was planning to deliver in at 37 weeks pregnant. Stephanie helped by giving me choices on hospitals that supported natural births and by having meetings with me prior to labor and delivery to talk all things birth and breastfeeding. I felt so prepared and empowered and was ready to bring my baby girl into this world. Stephanie taught me how to breathe through contractions and make it into an almost meditative state. She guided my husband on how to further provide support and helped keep all of my anxieties at bay. In addition to all of her guidance and support, she also captured the most amazing pictures of the labor and delivery. They are Live Photos and I love looking at them and watching the process of bringing my sweet girl into this world. Stephanie helped me with the first latch and then came to my house once I was home with the baby to help guide me with breastfeeding. We were stuck in a loop where my baby was not eating which made her tired and then was too tired to feed. Stephanie helped us come up with a plan and now 6 months later and I am still successfully breastfeeding. There are not enough words to express my gratitude and love for her. I tell everyone I know who's pregnant or thinking of getting pregnant to be sure to hire Stephanie. You will not regret it! read more

I had an rough induction with my first birth that left me a little traumatized and wary of the dehumanization of birth in a hospital. The second time around I knew that I did not want the same thing to happen. I knew a doula would help me avoid unnecessary interference in the birth process. Specifically I was hoping to avoid needles and an epidural. We met with Stephanie before our birth and really discussed how to have a natural birth in a hospital. Throughout the end of the pregnancy little complications would arise and Stephanie would give me research to support the actions that my midwives were taking. It really put me at ease. When I learned that I would have to have another induction Stephanie was my second phone call. We talked about how I could still have an empowering birth despite the need for another induction. With her help I had a great birth without pain medication, she encouraged me and helped me navigate the hospital setting. After the birth I ended up hemorrhaging, it was terrifying. Stephanie held my hand through it all, the beautiful moments and the difficult ones, she is a great doula and a wonderful supporter of women! read more

I can't say enough good things about Stephanie. All I will say is that having Stephanie as my doula was one of the best decisions I could have made in my pregnancy. Her guidance, love, and support before, during, and after my labor was incredible (not just for me, but also for my husband!). Highly recommend. read more