DUIL ~ TEWKSBURY, MASS.
I was pulled over on the Lowell…read moreconnector traveling south to my aunts apartment in Southborough, Mass. August 2023. Long story short, I got my second OUI.
If you get a second offense operating under the influence, you automatically get a 14 day sentence to DUIL. No ways around it, sorry!
So, I want to help you, get through this.
First, DUIL stands for Driving Under The Influence of Liquor. You laugh ... It's on ya test!
Second, DUIL is located in a weird place. The program you must attend is on the Tewksbury State Hospital grounds. This place is a historically registered property for many reasons. Look it up. The building you'll stay in was originally built and used for the nurses dorms of Tewksbury State Hospital. Walking through it, you'll feel like nostalgia.
Moving onto nostalgia, the DUIL building is about 170ish years old. I would tell you a ghost story but that's now why I'm here. Beautifully maintained in historical perspectives. You will arrive on the date and time specified on your entry packet. I can not say this loud enough, read the Middlesex DUIL Program Client Handbook. You'll get this in the mail. Read It! It literally is boring as hell but you'll fall on your own face if you don't read it.( I may write a few stories after this) https://mhsainc.org/programs/duil/
I entered DUIL on October 28, 2024. Yes, I was there on Halloween. It was an usually warm October. Look at your weather forecast when you pack your 13 pound bag of life for fourteen days! Don't overpack. If you do, you'll be forced to toss anything you don't need or go home and start over. At your own cost! *Handbook
When I arrived, I was a bit nervous as you will be. The check -in is right outside the basement door of the old nurses quarters. Carlos ( in charge guy) will be there along with a few other staff. I hope when you go, Carlos is there, he is strict but fair. Professional. They will have an event table set up with a sign that says DUIL. It might look like the Girl scouts are selling cookies. I assure you, your in the right place. Get there early!! I'll tell you why later.
I walked toward the sign-in table as my sister walked along my side. I handed over my paperwork to Carlos, he allowed me a moment to say Goodbye to my sister, he is kind. He is the assistant director I believe, I could be wrong but, he's the Big Guns. My heart pounding, I entered the building. I was second in line for entry, I was instructed to carry my belongings into the building and place them on a shelf right inside the door. It's a basement and the shelves are metal inventory shelves from like the backroom of a closed K-Mart. Low ceilings, huge plumbing pipes, I can see valves for on and off shut off's. I hope no-one tall drinks and drives.
There is a process before you can actually 'enter' the program. I won't give too much away because we have to leave some things to surprise! But DO NOT DRINK ALCOHOL at all before going. For God Sake Don't! Not even the day before. You will be breathalyzed. Your BAC will be reported to your PO and You will have to start all over! I do know several guys who smoked a fatty on the way though;) When I went to DUIL, the roster for my sentence started with over 50 people. I was very lucky to be in a small enrollment group, end of October may be your time too! I entered and began my sentence with 25 males and 5 females ( I was one of 5) Yes, thirty drunks. I had my own room because of the enrollment level being so low. Room 5 on the women's unit. I left some prayers behind.
When you go through the basement enrollment, as you enter DUIL you will be met with a few people. A nurse, bring ALL your updated current scripts, bring anything over the counter you need !! Bring extra ~Advil PM ~ Melatonin ~ EAR PLUGS! ~ laxatives ~ compression socks and water pills. Bring herbal tea bags in a ziplock baggie if you're a tea drinker like me. If you try to sneak anything in, they will find it and you will be removed and that would suck big for you! They do have coffee and tea but it's not theRritz so expect accordingly:) It is literal hell. If your a princess, I'm already laughing.
You'll be given a linen bag to throw all your stuff in! The attendant will even give you a sticker with your name on it. Don't pack heavy unless you're strong. They do NOT help you carry your belongings. You drove drunk, you're not treated any other way. I got my room assignment and was told to 'settle in'. With my sheets / towels etc. You will have one fitted sheet, I could literally see through mine. One top sheet, mine was okay and a blanket! Have you ever been to the ER or Jail? Yep, that's the blanket. Fake crochet and thin from so many rounds of bleach and fast dried.
Let's get to the important stuff. You won't sleep, so charge up. You'll swell up, so shrink down. When you arrive, you will be assigned a chore. It's like an orphanage. If I was to