I've had the great benefit of working with Scott Barella and the Cornerstone Counseling team in individual, family and group settings, and I cannot praise Cornerstone enough for the positive impact Scott and his team have had on some extremely challenging issues being addressed in all of these modalities. Scott's skill, insight and experience have helped navigate through not only interpersonal, psychological, and behavioral issues with clients ranging from child through adult ages, he offers a very pragmatic, down-to-earth, thoughtful and empathetic approach to everything from basic day-to-day life strategies, to analysis and treatment of deeper therapeutic issues. In this regard, I have found it both unique and tremendously beneficial that Scott's ability to address issues and provide support not strictly from a purely psychological and therapeutic standpoint, but also from a strategic day-to-day solutions-oriented life-coach perspective as well, was not only more comprehensive than any other therapeutic providers I have worked with, but also extremely effective in treating the "whole" person, and the real-life issues being faced by clients from these multiple "fronts". Scott is especially adept at helping clients to dissect often complex or overwhelming feelings or issues, so that they can be identified and addressed more effectively. His ability to facilitate clients in developing more clear and manageable insights into issues is tremedously empowering. I continue to utilize many practical tools and strategies learned at Cornerstone on a near daily basis - something I cannot say about many clinicians with whom I have worked, and those tools continue to make a very positive impact in my life. Scott is an extremely intuitive and empathetic clincian, a remarkably patient listener, and even had my children feeling both comfortable and validated while working with them. As a group facilitator, he is especially adept and extremely effective while maintaining a very positive and engaging dynamic. His availability both on and off schedule has literally been second to none, and his interest in client's welfare is deeply genuine. As a therapist and a counselor, I cannot say enough good things about Scott and the entire Cornerstone team. But as a part of your personal life-support-team, Scott is an incredible resource, and an absolute gem. read more

I'm writing this review to give Scott Barrella the recognition he truly deserves. My name is Kevin Hunt, and I've had the privilege of working with Scott Barrella. This review reflects not only his dedication as a professional but also his character as an advocate for justice and fairness. Scott's practice aligns with the highest standards of ethics, morals, and fairness. He is deeply passionate about helping his clients, particularly fathers seeking to maintain meaningful relationships with their children. He is well-respected in the community, and I had the honor of participating in his parenting and domestic violence classes. These sessions were transformative for me--Scott's guidance helped me understand the legal process and navigate some of the toughest moments in my life. As an African-American male in Ventura County, I've experienced firsthand the challenges of racism, bias, and systemic privilege in the family court system. However, Scott Borrello is far from any form of bias or prejudice. He is a man of dignity and unwavering commitment to justice. His practices are rooted in fairness and the best interests of the children, rather than being influenced by wealth, privilege, or external pressures. Unlike other monitors, like Denise Riley A+ visitation services Scott does not allow external factors--such as influence from attorneys or financial status--to dictate his decisions. He maintains a steadfast focus on creating peaceful and meaningful relationships between children and their parents. This is in stark contrast to my experiences with other services, such as Denise Riley's A Plus One Visitation, where I found that fairness and the best interests of the children often took a backseat to external influences. I strongly recommend Scott Barrella's services to anyone seeking a monitor who operates with integrity, fairness, and compassion. His dedication to his clients and their families is unmatched, and I would caution anyone against using services such as Denise Riley's that fail to uphold the same ethical and professional standards. Scott Barrella is truly a beacon of fairness and respect in this field, and I cannot thank him enough for the support and guidance he has provided to me and countless others. read more

This is the second posting of this review which Scott had pulled by Yelp. Earlier today I wrote in a very negative review of the director of this center. Magically, it has disappeared or moved so far down the list as to be gone. I noticed lots of other reviews that seemed to have experienced the same problem. Does Cornerstone have the authority to remove negative reviews and replace them with fake positive reviews? The director charged a penalty fee of $105 for 3 absences from the Anger Management class that my son was attending. There is no where in the contract stated that he has the right to do that or determine what the amount of a penalty fee will be for a missed absence. When my son alerted the director to the fact that Zoom was not working and having technical difficulties making it impossible to attend the class, he said that's too bad and you will have to pay the penalty fee regardless and if you want to get reimburse for the expense, contact Zoom. Zoom, obviously would not reimburse anyone for the web site being down. The director didn't care. My son contacted the Ventura County courthouse and the Probation Department and was told that his case had been dropped making the requirement to take the class, moot. My son contacted the director and asked for a reimbursement of fees. Scott told him "nope, good luck". He knew that even though he had overcharged penalty fees that the contract had been written to protect the director from any legal recourse. Not sure if that is even legal. I suggested that anyone who needed to take the course to consider alternative options rather than Cornerstone. Not 5 minutes after posting the review that my son's phone was ringing off the hook from Scott who also attempted to contact me multiple times and left a voice mail to return the call. This is all harassment since he can't handle negative reviews. In an act of retribution, he contacted the Oxnard Police department to look further into the case and attempt to intimidate my son by texting him that the case was still open. I sincerely question whether the positive reviews of this site are real. Quit pulling down reviews that are contrary but true. read more

I recently completed a full 52-week program with Cornerstone Counseling led by Scott Barrella, and I can honestly say that the experience had a meaningful and lasting impact on my life. When I first began the program, it was a requirement connected to a legal situation from 2023, and at the time I didn't fully realize how valuable the process would become for my personal growth. Over the course of the year, Scott created an environment that was structured, respectful, and genuinely focused on helping people grow and change. His approach is professional, direct, and compassionate at the same time. He challenges you to take accountability for your actions while also giving you the tools and perspective needed to improve as a person. The weekly Zoom sessions were organized and engaging. Each class focused on real topics that apply to everyday life--communication, emotional awareness, accountability, respect in relationships, and personal responsibility. Scott does not simply lecture; he encourages real discussion and reflection. Because of that, you don't just sit through the program--you actually learn from it. What stood out to me the most was how seriously Scott takes the responsibility of guiding people who are trying to better themselves. He holds everyone to a high standard, but at the same time he truly wants to see people succeed and move forward in a healthier direction. Over the course of the 52 weeks, I saw real changes in how I think, communicate, and handle situations in my life. The program helped me develop a much stronger understanding of accountability, emotional control, and respectful communication. Those lessons extend far beyond the program itself and will stay with me long into the future. If someone is required to attend a program like this, I would absolutely recommend Cornerstone Counseling and Scott Barrella. What could easily feel like just another requirement instead becomes an opportunity for real growth and self-improvement. I'm grateful for the experience and proud to have completed the program. read more

Scott and the offices at Cornerstone offer a variety of programs to aid in developing the appropriate skills to become the best version of yourself. Through the counselling provided at Cornerstone not only can you obtain the tools for your own personal success but you can also learn the tools to become the person that your family and those closest to you need you to be. Scott offers group classes and individual sessions. These individual sessions gave me the guidance to ensure that I was approaching parenting in the most effective and compassionate manner possible and these sessions also helped me develop a long-view approach toward life. I came out of these sessions with a clear path toward my future and a plan to provide for my family and to give back to those close to me. The group sessions offer a safe space for people who have had similar challenges in life to have open dialogue, some with inspirational tales of overcoming adversity and others with cautionary tales so you can avoid making their same mistakes. Cornerstone is a one stop counselling shop that can help with the major issues people face as they move through a complicated and challenging world. Unlike traditional therapy or psychiatry, the format of this counselling center is to provide participants with effective tools that are applicable to real life situations. Importantly, Scott is a kind, compassionate person who often cares as much or more about your success as you do. Sometimes we all need to be put back on track or affirmed that we are in fact on the right track and whether it's career, parenting, relationships or personal shortcomings, Cornerstone is the place to address these subjects. read more

Absolutely outstanding! Working with Scott Barrella has been a transformative experience during an incredibly challenging time. As someone navigating the complexities of co-parenting with a high-conflict ex-partner, I was feeling overwhelmed, stuck, and frankly, hopeless. From our very first session, Scott Barrella provided not only comfort and understanding, but a wealth of practical tools that made a real difference. What sets Scott Barrella apart is their expertise in translating psychological concepts into actionable, real-life strategies. They didn't just offer theory; they walked me through specific examples that mirrored my situation, which allowed me to immediately apply the skills in my day-to-day interactions. The techniques for setting boundaries, managing emotional triggers, and communicating effectively have empowered me to protect my well-being while still prioritizing my child's needs. Each session left me feeling more equipped and confident. Scott Barrella was always patient, non-judgmental, and incredibly knowledgeable about high-conflict dynamics. I truly appreciated their ability to break down what felt like insurmountable problems into manageable steps, and their encouragement helped me stay committed to healthy co-parenting, even when it was tough. Thanks to Scott Barrella, I now have a toolkit I can rely on--and a renewed sense of hope for my family's future. I highly recommend Scott Barrella to anyone struggling with high-conflict co-parenting. Their guidance is invaluable! read more

This course will transform your life, you will mend the past and learn to make peace with others around you, whether you have had to move on or need the skills to continue healing your relationships. Scott provides immensely important lifeskills that help in all aspects of life, greatly improving your ability to navigate throughout your interpersonal relationships. He is a true guru and has all the right credentials. Your success is crucial in this phase of life that has brought you here -it is essential to put in the effort required to make sure you apply the knowledge bestowed upon you, it is to your complete benefit and you will reap the rewards that you can apply your entire life. Completely worth every minute. Don't just do it because its required, (but certainly maintain and put forth the effort if it is), but if you have difficulties in other areas, no matter the scope, Scott's teachings are far reaching and will help you find resolve and will change you for the better with every technique you apply. He teaches from the heart and a sharp mind, a true master that will allow you to gain crucial skills that you need to keep your life together. It is up to you, what are you waiting for? Get to business and get your lives back- your life, and the lives of others that you will learn to cherish - depend on it. Sign up already! read more

Replying to Mr. Barrella's January 24, 2026 response, which I have attached here. For those reading this review, I think it is important that Mr. Barrella's own words be preserved. In this response, Mr. Barrella wrote: "I still remember you as an excellent participant in our program." Those are his words, not mine. I encourage readers to review that statement alongside the other information, documents, communications, timelines, and reporting that I have referenced and draw their own conclusions. Mr. Barrella also invited me to call him regarding these issues. I have no interest in private phone calls. I have no interest in off-the-record conversations. If Mr. Barrella wishes to address any of the questions I have raised, he is welcome to do so in writing. In fact, if Mr. Barrella wants a written release allowing him to discuss my case with anyone he chooses, I would be happy to sign one. There is no need for a private conversation. There is no need for a private meeting. If there are answers to the questions I have raised, put them in writing and let people evaluate them for themselves. That is all I have ever asked. The screenshot attached here is preserved so readers can review Mr. Barrella's response in its entirety and decide for themselves what weight they believe it deserves. read more

I can't speak highly enough about Scott, the instructor for my domestic violence, anger management, and parenting classes at Cornerstone Counseling. He is kind, compassionate, and truly cares about his students. From the start, Scott creates an environment that fosters a brotherly bond, reminding me of that one high school or college teacher you never forget--the one who made learning enjoyable and engaging. His lessons are well-structured, and the videos he incorporates add depth and understanding. Scott makes complex subjects feel relatable and easy to grasp. The discussions in class with fellow students make you realize you're not alone in your journey. Everyone has a story, and these shared experiences build a supportive community where we all help each other move forward. One of the things I appreciate most is that Scott holds his students accountable. He doesn't just teach the material; he ensures you're doing the work, showing up, and staying consistent. His extensive knowledge across all three courses really shows, and for an added bonus, his networking and rapport-building are top-notch. Cornerstone Counseling is affordable, and my advice to anyone considering these classes: just show up, be accountable, and don't quit. You won't find a better guide through these difficult times. read more

I ended up having to take a year long session at Cornerstone Counseling Center with Scott Barella as the head counselor. At my first session my response to this type of program was probably like most students, " I don't need this , I'm fine ". Man was I wrong and I found myself looking forward to my once a week sessions . Scott had a very interesting and informative way about his teachings and messages. The group I was in was very diverse in our ways of life and I found it amazing how professional and talented Scott was at getting this large group of very different people to ALL get on the same page and participate with enthusiasm. This large group of complete strangers became very comfortable working as a team to become better people under the expert direction and teachings of Scott Barella and Cornerstone Counseling Center. Life throws us curveballs at times and I can absolutely say that Scott has taught me how to handle them the correct way with ease and confidence ! I started out this review with " I had to take a year long session and when I had completed the course I now change that to "I got to take a year long course" It turned out to be a GREAT learning experience for me ! Thank You Scott Barella and Cornerstone Counseling Center ! read more

I recently completed a 52 week course of domestic violence counseling classes, and I can confidently say that it has been one of the most impactful experiences of my life. The program was both enlightening and empowering, providing a safe space for individuals to share their stories and learn from one another. My peers were highly knowledgeable and compassionate, creating an environment where I felt comfortable discussing my experiences. They offered valuable insights into the dynamics of domestic violence, helping me to understand not only the impact it had on my life but also the patterns and behaviors associated with it. Each session was well structured, covering a range of topics from understanding emotional abuse to developing healthy communication skills. What I appreciated the most was the mix of educational content and interactive activities, which allowed for personal reflection and group discussion. This mixtures facilitated deeper connections with my peers, making us feel less isolated in our journeys. One of the key takeaways for me was the emphasis on self empowerment and building resilience. The classes provided practical tools and resources that I could apply in my every day life moving forward. read more

This guy that runs this place I think his name is Steve he is a total hustler! He will ask you to get to the program early and then show up late, ask you to do paperwork and then rush you through it so that you sign a contract locking you into 15 weeks of therapy even if you go there voluntarily! I called this guy just ask some questions about the contract and it seemed to me like he is the one that needed anger management classes because he got an attitude immediately and he told me just to go check online because the contract was on online! so I asked him since we were on the phone can't I just ask you a question and he got more of an attitude! Then it just went downhill from there. This guy is a total hustler and all he wants is your money we spent an hour and 15 minutes talking shit and not even 45 minutes into bookwork because it's more like a locker room situation there where everybody just talks shit and there's no actual therapy happening! So if you want an anger management class to help you do not go to this class because this class is bullshit! read more

I completed the 52-week Anger Management program through Cornerstone, and my experience was excellent from start to finish. Scott was incredible. He was professional, respectful, and organized throughout the entire process. He guided participants through the program while still holding everyone accountable and focused on personal growth. What stood out most was how much Scott genuinely cares. You can see it in the way he invests in helping people make positive changes and real progress in their lives. The program had a meaningful impact on me and truly changed my life for the better. The classes taught me practical tools for managing emotions, improving communication, and making better decisions. What could have felt like simply checking a box became a valuable learning experience that provided insights I will carry with me for years to come. I highly recommend Cornerstone to anyone who needs a court-ordered program or is looking for support in making meaningful life changes. Thank you, Scott! read more

It's unfortunate that bitter women who are delusional and irrational will post such a belligerent post. If one can be this crazy and irrational to a professional you can only imagine how this person treats their child. Don't allow an immature, basic, unintellectual individual keep you from getting the help you need. She obviously needs more help than Cornerstone can offer. An inpatient psychiatric evaluation will definitely do her some good or at least the minor child (to get him away from her intermittent psychotic episodes) involved the case. Her post is so comical. She sounds like a 6-year old by giving his license number as if it's not public records. I think she should do herself a big favor and commit herself. This much of craziness should not be allowed with the general public let alone be allowed to have children. I feel sorry for the child/children in this case. Scott, I pray your business continue to thrive. I will continue to refer clients to your office. read more

I recommend Cornerstone 100% During what I consider the hardest time of my life Scott was the right kind of support. 18 month ago the Ventura court sent me to co-parenting and anger management classes, in what I thought was an unfair and unnecessary measure. I was so wrong! The communication techniques that Scott taught me I use everyday because they work. I can see the results. The mother of my son just respond differently and we are able to talk like PEOPLE. lt turns that controlling my anger was necessary and I feel good that now I can do it . All I can say is that I live an hour and 10 minutes away from The cornerstone office but I drove those miles because I saw the value of being there. 18 month ago I couldn't see my son ( he is 4) for more than 14 hours a week, today my son spends almost every day in my house and that for me is happiness. Be open minded, get educated There is light at the end of the tunnel!!! Good luck! read more

I can't say enough great things about Cornerstone Counseling Center in Simi Valley. The staff is incredibly professional, compassionate, and genuinely cares about the well-being of their clients. From the moment you start your first session , you feel welcomed and supported in a safe, comfortable environment. The counselor Scott is knowledgeable, patient, and take the time to really listen and understand what you're going through. They provide practical tools and guidance that truly help you grow and work through challenges in a healthy way. It's clear he is passionate about helping people improve their mental health and overall quality of life. If you're looking for a place where you'll be treated with respect, understanding, and real care, I highly recommend Cornerstone Counseling Center. They've made a positive impact and are an amazing resource and it's life changing! read more

Scott Barrella (instructor/host) has been an amazing help! Not only does he listen to each member in the program but also tries to understand the specifics by communicating and digging into the situation. His format to how teaching is done is amazing and makes us learn by actively participating in every session, watch movies that correlate to the section we are learning, and critical thinking. Even though it is a 2 hour session he always makes sure that everyone has a chance to talk and respond to the question asked, if not, we will continue it next session. Being a graduate I can say that I am really happy I took this program because even though you might say "I'm not a violet type" you will be surprised on what you can learn. Trust me, this program is worth taking for to better ourselves and prevent violence from happening! read more

Scott at Cornerstone Counseling Center has been truly life-changing. From the very first session, he created a space that felt safe, grounded, and genuinely supportive. He listens deeply and is incredibly smart. He never ceases to ask the right questions (which in my experience is very rare). He has helped me uncover clarity and healing in a way that is empowering, not overwhelming. Scott is thoughtful, compassionate, and equipped with insight. He doesn't rush the process or offer cookie-cutter advice. Instead, he meets you where you are and helps you build tools that actually last. I've walked away from sessions feeling lighter and more self-aware. If you're looking for a counselor who is professional, trustworthy, and truly invested in your growth, I cannot recommend Scott highly enough! Thank you Scott! read more

Scott Barrella at Cornerstone Counseling Services knows how to get things done, is no nonsense, and is a super diligent and hard working therapist. Our issues were not at all simple or easy to address. I consider it good fortune that we found our way to Cornerstone because, based on my experience with numerous other therapists, Scott showed the required commitment and flexibility to support us in solving our problems. And his referrals to other specialists were outstanding also. Scott Barrella is direct but he is fair. If you make a commitment to him, you need to deliver. And if he makes a commitment to you, he will deliver, without fail. He always made himself available, even late after hours and on weekends -- something you rarely see in business, let alone the profession of family therapy. read more