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    South Bay Birth Services - Wendy Everett, CD(DONA, CMT and Kersti Smith, CD(DONA)

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    At the risk of sounding dramatic, Wendy and Kersti have changed my life. There's no other way I…read moreknow how to put it. I went into this pregnancy not knowing anything about pregnancy nor birth. I mean that - I'd never even held a baby before, and I'm in my thirties! I was nervous and knew I needed guidance. A close friend of mine referred them to me after she had her own positive experience delivering her first baby at the hospital (without an epidural). A delivery without an epidural sounded like a good idea, and if my friend can do it with their help, I felt SO COULD I! So I scheduled to meet them in person, and then Googled the definition of a doula because that's how foreign the birth world was to me. Fast forward to today, I am 3 months postpartum, and incredibly grateful to have had Wendy and Kersti there for me, as a first time mom home birth. They prepared me, a total pregnancy/birth newbie, to having a home birth! They are supportive with whatever birth plan you decide and will provide tons of resources and information to help you make an informed decision, on whatever you feel comfortable with. I appreciated that they are well balanced, and will present evidence based research, as well as speak from their own experiences, but never pushing their opinions upon you. After months of research, I made the decision to go forward with a home birth and it was the most magical experience of my life. It was relaxing, calm, stress-free, and I felt SO supported throughout my entire pregnancy journey, after birth, and ESPECIALLY during labor. Wendy was present during my labor. When she arrived it was like my guardian angel had arrived, and I was so happy to see her. She had lavender essential oils and her hands worked magic on me during the most intense contractions. The back massages helped me Soooo much and she did it for hours. She not only supported me, but also my husband, and she knew just what to say to keep me positive and relaxed, and knew how to direct my husband to help. She also took photos throughout the labor. It all happened so fast, so it was so fun to have photos to go back and relive the moments. I will cherish these photos forever. Thank you Wendy and Kersti for helping bring my baby boy to this world. I know without a doubt that I'd like them to be my doulas again for my future baby.

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    I cannot recommend Marilou at Doulas by the Bay highly enough. She was our postpartum night doula…read morefor the first few weeks after our son was born, and she was incredible. As new parents, the sleep deprivation is real, but knowing she was there allowed us to finally get the much-needed rest we required to function. Beyond just being a set of expert hands, she became a trusted guide for us and taught us invaluable newborn care tips that we still use daily. We trusted her implicitly with our baby from night one which was critical for us as anxious new parents. Marilou's calm, professional, and warm presence made us feel so at ease during a very vulnerable time. We truly loved our time with her and are so grateful for the care she provided. If you are looking for a doula who is knowledgeable, nurturing, and completely trustworthy, Marilou is amazing!

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    Melissa was incredible and I COULD NOT RECOMMEND HER MORE. She SAVED our labor and delivery !!…read more Melissa was invaluable to my girlfriend (34), to myself, and to avoiding what may have been a very traumatic labor experience for my girlfriend. My gf went into pronounced labor at 4 in the morning, and when we decided to head into the hospital at 7, Melissa headed right over to meet us. The scene at the hospital when we arrived was very overwhelming and confusing (doctor, midwife, and multiple nurses in a small room, many questions being asked at once, and multiple interventions immediately being offered (insisted on?)). My gf was overwhelmed by pain and the energy of the room, and Melissa was AMAZING in asserting and advocating for the preferences my gf was asking for ("She said SHE DOES NOT want a cervical exam right now" / "She said that hurts and she wants you to STOP"). I want to emphasize that at no point did Melissa interfere, but rather simply emphasized and upheld the boundaries my gf was stating. This was particularly helpful when I had to leave to move my car out of the emergency room lane. We had many decisions to make over the 25 hours of my gf's labor (Magnesium?, Fentanyl?, Epidural?, Pitocin?), and the Doctors were always too insistent and overbearing, while also being evasive when they thought our questions weren't aligning with what they wanted us to do. Whereas Melissa always gave us the information we needed ("Yes, it's possible to give birth on Magnesium without Pitocin" / "If she's shaking uncontrollably, she doesn't need to start pushing, you can hold her and help her 'labor down' for an hour so she can rest before she starts pushing"), along with the language that we needed to state in order to get the doctors and nurses to give us the "breathing room" to make the decisions patiently as a family. The doctors and nurses did not have bad intentions, but they were often lacking in solidarity, or overly impatient with us, and throughout the entire 25 hours, the only person we felt was ON OUR SIDE, was Melissa. She gave us the support and information we needed to feel confident asserting our preferences, while also feeling safe. Without her there, I am certain the Doctors would have been able to leverage my gf's stress and fear into railroading her into an experience that would have been much more rushed and traumatic, and with less of a sense of agency or control. I have not touched upon even 10% of what Melissa did for us (bringing us food, setting up candles, acquiring the Peanut and Birthing Ball for us from the staff, amazing coaching of my gf during the pushing, taking pictures during the birth, and constantly reviewing our decisions with us, and supporting them, no matter what we chose). Her knowledge and experience as a Doula, with her own two labors and births, and her strong, supportive, and caring manner were the rock that we relied on, and that ultimately provided a magical experience that my gf will treasure and remember forever. One final note to the men out there, but I was initially quite the skeptic of the whole Doula situation, and I could not have been more wrong. With her intelligence and confidence, Melissa supported me as much as my gf, especially when my gf was either passed out or too overwhelmed with pain to be going over all the details, and I was trying to weigh and research all the medical options. Never was I more happy to not feel alone in trying to navigate a situation.

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    This review is a bummer to write, but after reading other reviews about communication delays and…read moreissues on the administrative end, it's clear i'm not the only one experiencing this issue and something needs to be seriously addressed. Alicia herself is wonderful, and we used her for placenta encapsulation in 2019. We had an overall good experience, so as we are nearing the birth of our 3rd baby, I reached back out to Alicia as a return client looking for placenta encapsulation again. It took 4 days to get an initial response to my email. Julia (Alicia's assistant) reached out to let me know Alicia is on maternity leave and had a few clarification questions to get the ball rolling with another doula. Unfortunately, I never heard from Julia or anyone else again. I've since left a voicemail and 4 follow-up emails with no response. If Born Doulas is too busy to accept me as a client, I would have appreciated hearing that upfront vs. just ghosting me, especially as a returning client. These types of customer service issues are just unacceptable, and if you are looking for a doula or placenta encapsulation company during the very delicate time of pregnancy and delivery, I recommend looking elsewhere and finding a company that cares about communication.

    I can't begin to describe how wonderful, passionate, caring and knowledgeable Alicia is! From the…read morebeginning she guided us during the pregnancy, had many great tips for me, and helped me make my (right) big decisions towards the end. My birth story took longer than we expected, 40+ hours and Alicia was so supportive and strong even till the last seconds, let me correct that, even after the birth! Her stamina throughout the 40+ hours is just amazing! She was always there reassuring me that everything is going well, and making sure I'm hydrated and nourished to go on with the big game. This alone makes me want to tell every women, regardless how supportive your husband is, you still need a doula 100% especially Alicia 10000%! Before and after the birth I had many complications, that caused me to be hospitalized right after my birth, so my newborn was left with my clueless husband and mother. Alicia right away came over and helped them in so many ways, guiding and teaching them how to take care of our baby. She kept checking in on me before and after the birth regarding my condition, and helped me in all kinds of ways, sending over wonderful people to help with my condition, etc. We are eternally grateful to you Alicia! Baby M sending all his love!

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    Born Doulas - Alicia Fishbein
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    1.7 km

    My last review was removed because I didn't provide enough "details" about my experience employing…read moreMelissa Dean as my midwife. So Yelp reviews have set standards in terms of the number of details you must leave now? Let me give you more details. These are my OWN PERSONAL EXPERIENCES. DO NOT REMOVE THIS REVIEW. 1. Melissa was busy with other births all scheduled around the same time as mine. There ain't no way of scheduling your birth to be when someone else's birth isn't. FYI - it's her and Ricki. That's it. So when you in the middle of a 48hr labor and Melissa's been gone for 12hrs since you crawled on your hands and knees into SCVMC. Just realize that things could have gone differently. 2. If your baby has any number of problems that could be detected with modern tech, she cannot help you with that. She'll put you in touch with other facilities for ultrasounds etc. (all extra costs) but that should be a red flag. She really ain't scientifically or medically equipped to make decisions for you or your baby. All of your visits will be soothing and cozy. But your just paying for nothing more than contact with someone who has delivered babies away from hospitals. That's great. But sometimes problems can be prevented. 3. You will be charged the full amount no matter whether or not she does anything at all when you deliver apart from direct you to SCVMC hospital. 4. If you end up needing to go to the hospital she will ask you to drive yourself to SCVMC. And by the way, there are some really smart and talented medical staff there. In the end I owe them my life. But, are there also some not so great staff there? Most definitely, in my opinion. Will you have any idea who will be there? No. The doctors will also tell you point blank that you were naive (that's the nicest way I can think of describing what I was told by multiple nurses and doctors) to put your trust in a midwife like Melissa Dean. Hopefully you don't pay for that decision with your baby's or your own life. You won't need to be told that, you'll get that exact vibe from everyone there the minute she walks in. 5. If you end up at SCVMC, and there's a bed available for you after a few hours, and you get a doctor who isn't completely disgusted with you that you endangered your own life and the baby and now you're there begging for your life to saved.... *If* that happens, and if it does happen, and you're lucky to get away with your health and the baby's health. That's awesome. But if like me, you could be separated from your baby for a week because you almost died (doctor's words not mine) and your baby is on a ventilator in the NICU as a direct result of the trauma caused from not seeing a doctor earlier. 6. Finally, you'll have paid Melissa Dean and you will have to pay her 100% of her costs. But you should budget and figure out whether your insurance is accepted at SCVMC and what your costs will be for delivering there. It might be best if you don't have insurance because it is a teaching hospital and as far one of the doctors told me they won't turn away patients in need regardless of if they have insurance or not. How the bills work out afterward for everyone, I have no idea. But the bills I got from an emergency C section and a week in the NICU were, as you can imagine, astronomical. Why two stars and not one? Because she doesn't mean any harm and she's a nice person who believes what she's doing is a great service to people who want to deliver at home or with a midwife at a birthing center. But that's not always the case. My point in leaving a "review" that gives a different side to the one that Melissa Dean tells you is so that you can be informed and ask questions. Don't go into this process without having some sort of check on the facts of what you're getting yourself into. With hindsight, if I was to give advice and you really want to deliver at home, don't be afraid of it. But also have a plan B organized. And that means having a doctor that supports your decision and also can provide you with immediate care and deliver your baby for you at a moments notice. Check in with that doctor regularly. Ultimately I blame myself for not preparing in this way for my delivery. A doctor that can tell you it's okay for Melissa Dean to leave now and he/she can take over. And does that have enough detail? Or Will Melissa Dean complain again and have the review taken down again?

    I had been hoping to have a home birth for a really long time, so when I got pregnant, I knew I…read morewanted to find a midwife who would help facilitate that. After our initial interview with Melissa and her assistant Ricki, my husband and I really liked them and felt like they would be a great fit for my pregnancy. My husband is fairly skeptical of any kind of hippy, holistic medicine, but Melissa was great at balancing the holistic and scientific sides of midwifery, and I really appreciated that she never pushed me to try any of the more woo-woo aspects that can come up with a home birth (such as anything to do with the placenta that didn't involve disposing of it as medical waste or telling me that I need to eat any kind of specific diet or buy expensive products). All throughout my pregnancy, Melissa and Ricki were super supportive and answered all my questions really clearly and provided so much reassurance when I started feeling anxious. They were great about responding to texts and emails, and provided me with great care. I really liked having one hour appointments, so I had time to chat with them and get all my questions answered. I was able to get all the standard testing done through their office; Ricki drew my blood to get genetic testing done at 13 weeks at my regular appointment, and when it came time to do the gestational diabetes test, they sent me out to eat pancakes before they drew blood at my appointment - no nasty orange sugar drink for me! When we were nearing the end of my pregnancy, they visited my house to help us figure out the best place to set up their inflatable birthing pool, and answered all our questions about what it would look like when I went into labor. When my baby was overdue and then my water broke but labor didn't start, they gave me suggestions for how to try to naturally induce labor, and checked in with me every day to see how things were going and listen to the baby to make sure we were both staying healthy while we waited for labor. Unfortunately, none of that worked, I ended up having to be induced at Santa Clara Valley Medical Center, but I was so thankful to have them on my side. They were there with me when we checked in at the hospital and prepared us for what the medical team was going to do to get labor going. Ricki was there to support us when my contractions were getting really strong, and Melissa made sure I only had the best doctors checking in on me. When my labor didn't progress as quickly as we were hoping, Melissa was there to answer all our questions about when they would start talking about c-sections and what that experience would be like. She was so supportive and caring as I watched all my birthing hopes and plans went right out the window. Perhaps the most important thing Melissa did, though, was to make sure my baby was able to start nursing as soon as possible. She checked on him in the nursery and told the nurses that they needed to give him to me right away to nurse. She then came and helped him latch on and showed me how to hold him and get him situated so I could do it on my own later. We have had so many friends who did not have that advocacy after their births who really struggled to breastfeed their babies, and I am so so thankful that Melissa was there to make sure we didn't miss the window to feed in the first hour. My baby has been a champion breastfeeder ever since, and we had so many fewer struggles in that regard. I also really appreciated that we had Melissa and Ricki to check in on us in the days and weeks post-partum. They texted, called, and visited us at the hospital and at home to see how we were doing and to answer any questions. I really feel like they helped get us off on the right foot, and I would absolutely use them again to try for an at home VBAC.

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    Melissa Dean - Melissa, and Baby Jett. Thanks for a wonderful delivery!

    Melissa, and Baby Jett. Thanks for a wonderful delivery!

    Melissa Dean - Our family with Melissa several days after the birth of our son

    Our family with Melissa several days after the birth of our son

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    Silicon Valley Doulas - Czarina Bowers

    Silicon Valley Doulas

    4.6(63 reviews)
    10.4 kmWest San Jose

    Due to my privileged position, and very personal experience with Silicon Valley doulas, I can tell…read moreyou it has been nothing short of exceptional since their inception. Czarina brings over 20 plus years of experience, extensive training, and a true passion for supporting families through one of life's most meaningful transitions -- welcoming a new baby. Her background covers everything from lactation consulting and sleep training to postpartum depression and psychosis support, patient advocacy, birth preparation, and more. She's worked with over 300 families over her career thus far, providing truly personalized and compassionate care each and every time. Her depth of knowledge about the birth journey, babies, and the postpartum period is remarkable, and she always approaches her work with professionalism, empathy, and a calm confidence and experience. One thing I respect deeply is her clarity and integrity when it comes to her business policies. She has a no-refund policy that's clearly stated in her contract (which is completely legal and standard for her field). The reason is simple and fair, much like many other businesses she reserves specific dates and times for the families she assists and does not take other clients during those scheduled sessions. When someone cancels or tries to back out of a contract she's already set aside that time, so it's clearly ethical that her time and commitment are respected. If you're looking for a highly skilled, knowledgeable, compassionate, empathetic doula who combines unmatched experience, professionalism, and genuine care, Czarina is the person you want by your side through pregnancy, birth, and beyond.

    TL;DR: Last-minute cancellations, fell asleep on duty watching our newborn, refused hands-on baby…read morecare, offered useless virtual support, prepaid for 13 nights, and refused refund. We're disputing the charges with our credit card company. Do not recommend. We hired Czarina for evening doula services shortly after welcoming our newborn, hoping for support and rest. Unfortunately, the experience caused us significantly more stress than doing it alone. The most alarming issue was that she repeatedly fell asleep snoring loudly while on duty watching our newborn. This happened on multiple visits. We could see and hear her sleeping, which meant that instead of resting, we stayed awake monitoring her to ensure our baby was safe. When we addressed this directly, her response was shocking: she claimed she was doing it to "train us to be better parents" and get us used to sleeping while the baby sleeps. As exhausted first-time parents, this felt unreassuring and completely unsafe. We hired a night doula to reduce anxiety, not to monitor the caregiver. Beyond the safety issues, basic doula duties were neglected: * Refusal of Care: She was unwilling to help wash the baby and unable to provide clear, hands-on guidance for newborn care. * Household Help: She provided little to no assistance with basic household tasks. * Ineffective Virtual Support: She attempted to substitute some support with "virtual" sessions, which offered zero value to us as parents who needed physical, hands-on help with a newborn during overnight hours. Her reliability was poor, with multiple last-minute cancellations and rescheduling. Most importantly, we prepaid for 13 nights of service. When we terminated the arrangement due to the safety concerns and poor service, she refused to provide a refund for the unused nights. We were forced to escalate this to our credit card company to try and recoup our funds. Czarina was pleasant to speak with initially, but her actions put our peace of mind at risk and violated our trust. If you are looking for reliable, hands-on postpartum care that allows you to rest, I strongly recommend looking elsewhere. Ask specific questions about staying awake during night shifts, hands-on newborn care (including bathing), refund policies, and what "virtual support" entails before hiring.

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    Silicon Valley Doulas - Stephanie Freeman

    Stephanie Freeman

    Silicon Valley Doulas - Beautiful umbilical cord keepsake by Stephanie to accompany the placenta encapsulation

    Beautiful umbilical cord keepsake by Stephanie to accompany the placenta encapsulation

    Silicon Valley Doulas - Postpartum visit with Stephanie

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    Postpartum visit with Stephanie

    Empowered with Anne - Your newborn will only sleep on you, not to worry! Let's have a newborn sleep chat

    Empowered with Anne

    5.0(84 reviews)
    3.7 kmCambrian Park
    7 years in business
    Women-owned & operated

    We worked with Anne when our baby was four months old, and I honestly can't say enough good things…read moreabout our experience. Before sleep training, he was waking constantly after midnight and would only sleep if he was being held. My husband and I were completely exhausted and knew we needed help. The first night was a little tough (as expected), but to our amazement, he slept all the way through until 7 AM and continued to do so consistently throughout the two weeks we worked with her. Since then, he has been a great sleeper. Of course, there are occasional off nights if he's sick or not feeling well, but even then, he's usually able to put himself back to sleep quickly, which is such a huge change from before. Anne has also continued to support us beyond the initial training. Recently, she helped us navigate a sleep regression and the transition from three naps to two. She's incredibly responsive, knowledgeable, and genuinely supportive. She is also one of the kindest, sweetest people to work with. As a first-time parent, my anxiety was through the roof, and I had what felt like a million questions. She never once made me feel judged or silly for asking anything, no matter how small and always responded with patience, reassurance, and thoughtful guidance. If you're having any kind of trouble with your baby's sleep or even just considering sleep training but feeling unsure I truly recommend taking the leap. It completely changed how we navigate our days, our mood, and overall quality of life. Our baby is sleeping well, and so are we, and it's been a win all around. The process with Anne felt seamless and manageable, and we felt supported every step of the way. We are finally getting amazing sleep and waking up feeling refreshed, something we truly didn't think was possible before working with her. She has been an absolute lifesaver, and I cannot recommend her enough!

    Choosing and trusting Anne to help with our baby's sleep was one of the best decisions we have ever…read moremade for our family. Truly life-changing feels like an understatement. We love Anne and are forever grateful we found her. I'm a second-time mom and genuinely believed I could figure sleep out on my own. But my two babies could not have been more different. After weeks of exhaustion and feeling overwhelmed, I realized I needed help, and hiring Anne was the greatest gift we could have given ourselves and our baby. Before Anne: Our baby was incredibly sensitive to sleep from just a few weeks old. We relied almost entirely on contact naps because he wouldn't nap in his bassinet. I would sit on the couch for 1.5-2 hours at a time just to make sure he got the rest he needed. We kept him swaddled until nearly 3 months because it was the only thing that calmed him. I was exhausted, physically and emotionally, and knew it wasn't sustainable. When we transitioned to the crib, it felt even harder. We had to rock, shush, nurse before transfer, bounce on a birth ball -- anything to get him drowsy enough to put down. Even then, naps were only 30 minutes. He couldn't connect sleep cycles or self-soothe. I felt stuck and honestly defeated. After Anne: The transformation has been unbelievable. Our baby now falls asleep completely independently -- no rocking, no shushing, no bouncing, no nursing to sleep. He naps 1-2 hours during the day and sleeps independently at night. He still has one night waking for nutrition, which Anne reassured us is completely developmentally appropriate. Beyond the sleep, Anne gave us confidence. She gave us peace in our home again. She gave us rest. The Process: Anne is not only incredibly knowledgeable, she is deeply caring. You can feel that this is her calling. The level of support she provides is unmatched. Her responses (through the voice messaging app) were always thoughtful, detailed, and so timely. We never once felt alone in the process. She answered every single question with patience and compassion and made thoughtful pivots whenever needed. She goes above and beyond in a way that is rare. This is not just a business to her - she genuinely wants families to thrive. And it shows in everything she does. If you're even slightly considering hiring a sleep coach, take the leap and choose Anne. She is phenomenal, compassionate, professional, and truly life-changing. Anne -- from the bottom of our hearts, THANK YOU. We adore you and are so grateful for you.

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    Empowered with Anne - Here to help you achieve your sleep goals!

    Here to help you achieve your sleep goals!

    Empowered with Anne - A Mom helping Moms.

    A Mom helping Moms.

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    Delivery Doula - Paula Calhoun - doulas - Updated July 2026

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