This counselor showed a definite prejudice toward members of the police force having at a previous time counseled numerous members. This seemed to taint her counseling of my marriage. My husband had carried on an affair on line, and via hundreds of text messages and numerous phone calls, for over 5 months. While in counseling, Ms. Reed told him he did not "really" have an affair and did not need to apologize to me for any of it. Also at this same time, I found out my husband had kept in touch with a previous relationship for over 8 years while I was under the definite belief that he had ended this relationship prior to our wedding. Ms. Reed once again told him he did not need to apologize for this either. We were separated for a little over a year when he finally moved back in. A few months passed by before he let me know that he had an additional one time affair with someone he met that had car trouble on the side of a freeway. He slept with her later that night when he got off work. Of course having been counseled by Ms. Donna Reed, he just figured he did not need to tell me about this affair or apologize for it. I knew from all my counseling that these did constitute "cheating" - and if you research this you too will find that the on-line affair and the other long kept relationship both constitute emotional affairs and are far more damaging to a marriage than the more simple physical/sexual affair. To this day our marriage suffers from Donna Reed's unprofessional and ignorant counseling. Amends have never been made, forgiveness has not been accomplished, and our marriage is stagnant. We have absolutely no romantic life and are merely roommates with the last name and binding fences around us. It is a miserable way to live, but unfortunately in Obama's present economy, we are unable to divorce. I will finish this review when I have more time, however this is good for now - at least you have been forewarned.
Note: My husband does take care of my medical needs, however if I had it to do all over, I would have dropped Ms. Reed like a hot potato and made sure we saw someone else who kept up with the current times! Maybe our marriage would have moved past this miserable existence......I believe it would have. read more