Most people call this the "gay Coyote Ugly" and honestly... they're not wrong. It's a 5-star vibe for me, but the onllllyyyyy ding is it's cash only--so come prepared or hit one of the ATMs inside. The bartenders are always friendly. What really makes Flaming Saddles stand out is the crowd late night. Once the other gay bars close, this is where everyone ends up. You'll see the "who's who" of Hell's Kitchen--drag queens, bartenders, nightlife folks--basically their after-work hang (or pregame, depending on your stamina) until 4AM. Jukebox is a cute touch too--just read the room. It's a country music bar after all. read more

A fun gay bar with cowboy vibes. A group of girls and I came by for a night out. We all had a round of tequila shots ($10 each) and sang along to the music. There are song requests that get queued into a Spotify playlist, but we couldn't quite figure out how it worked. Every half hour or so, all the bartenders do a little show on the bar, which is entertaining. Note that this bar is cash only and there are ATMs inside. Also recommend getting some singles to tip the dancers. read more

Had to visit Flaming Saddles while in Hells Kitchen! Wow! What an experience! Staff dancing on the bar. Great music and delicious drinks. read more

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I want to add that the owner personally reached out to me after reading this review, and I was honestly blown away by her kindness and sincerity. She apologized directly, asked to hear more about what happened, and made it clear that this is not how she runs her business. When I first visited Flaming Saddles back in 2021, I had an amazing time (so much so that I specifically wanted to bring my friends to experience it too). That's why this experience shocked me so much. But the fact that the owner took the time to write me such a thoughtful message shows how much she cares about her customers and about maintaining a welcoming, fun environment. I truly appreciate how seriously she took this and will say confidently that this reflects very well on her and on the heart behind the business. It's clear that the behavior we experienced is not representative of what Flaming Saddles is about. read more

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The pandemic closed the WeHo location of this raucous country-western gay bar, so Jamie W and I never made it there. We're not the cowboy hat-and-chaps type anyway. However, we decided to submerge our inhibitions and come to the Hell's Kitchen location during a particularly frosty day in Manhattan. We loved it right away because the bartenders were friendly in their revealing tank-tops and tight blue jeans. The bar counter itself was huge and long. We eventually recognized there was a good reason for the size and length. It allowed the bartenders to get up and perform some provocative line dancing (photo: https://yelp.to/ds4ww7U9b2). We didn't know if there was a set time for the frivolity, but we enjoyed the show. Good thing I had five-dollar bills on me. So did the already inebriated bachelorette party who kept slapping the bartenders' firm backsides. Of course I had to test them myself. Their firmness was not accidental. It turned out they were all Broadway dancers earning money between casting calls. Happy Hour drinks were generously poured and quite reasonably priced at $7 for a 2-for-1 deal. We got familiar with their Tequila Sunrises in quick order (photo: https://yelp.to/OBhF3OMOT2). Neither of us did anything inappropriate during our long stay here, but maybe the well drinks were just not potent enough. Or maybe Jamie and I are decent people who haven't been nominated for cabinet posts. Yeah, that's it. DRINKS - 4.5 stars...sometimes quantity is the only thing that matters AMBIANCE - 5 stars...I was kinda expecting Debra Winger on a mechanical bull SERVICE - 5 stars...the boys were nice and just flirty enough TOTAL - 5 stars...get your Urban Cowboy fix in Hell's Kitchen RELATED - Thirsty in NYC? Here's my collection of bars and restaurants I've patronized and reviewed: https://bit.ly/2YS9ELs read more

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The Coyote Ugly of Hells Kitchen. Loveee it. The vibes are so fun and I wish I could learn the dances with them! Taylor and Lloyd are excellent at their jobs. I always feel so welcome and happy when I'm here. I couldn't resist a jello shot, bringing me back to my college days. Tasted delicious and went down smoothly! What a fun place to make new friends and simply celebrate life. I love the music and watching the TVs while posting up at the bar. If you do the same, make sure you leave room for the dancers to move their feet! Bathrooms are unisex, so don't be shy! And thank you to Security at the door for making us feel safe. Can't wait to come back. read more

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This is a nice small bar, very packed on weekend nights. No cover. Open floor for people to hang out and dance. Few tall booth tables are available for drink and dine. The music is good here, but I didn't see any DJ, mostly it's a playlist. The bartenders are multi talented here. Alongside serving drinks, they also do amazing dance performances and also do clean up runs to collect empty bottles cups, and glasses. read more

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This bar is great vibes but the staff do not treat women the same. A few of us lesbians got waters pulled out of our hands and told to leave randomly and refused to let our male friends know we were heading out. extremely upsetting experience especially after saying we would leave and to just let our friends know we were ordering ubers and they absolutely refused to tell them or indicate we were heading out safely to our male friends. it felt extremely targeted because we were feminine lesbian woman in this space. read more

I'd been here a few times but after the bartender was rude to me, I won't be back. He was dancing and trying to tell me to move but it was impossible to hear so he actually lectured me at the bar. It was Pride weekend, who could hear? Nope. read more

bless this place. If it ever changes, there will be a riot. Fantastic bartenders. Cash only beacon of trashy cowboy dive bar - may you live forever! read more

Cool country music bar (LGBTQ). Everyone is super friendly. Standard bar service (beer/cocktails). My friend bought a T shirt from them as souvenir. read more

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Pros: Flaming saddles is so fun especially when it's a bit later in the evening when there's more people. They even have a Photo Booth! Con: cash only, but they have an ATM inside. Overall, I've been a few times and whenever I'm around, it's a fun time read more

Love the vibe of this bar. Staff are super friendly and attentive. The coordinated dances on the bar, as well as the solo performances, were super hot and fun to watch. Cash only. read more

I stumbled into this bar after having dinner across the street with some friends and not wanting the night so end. So we said we'll pick the first bar we notice. We walked down the block and saw a bright red bar that wasn't crowded. Perfect! Im older now so I need a seat and not to feel like I'm cornered by people lol I was immediately greeted by the nicest bartender upon walking into the bar. The drinks were solid and decently priced (about 10- 12 bucks for gin and ginger ale; I can't remember) they were also having a happy hour; buy one get one on drinks. I sat in the booth and enjoyed my night out. They also do the cutest dances on top of bar every once in a while. Tips are welcomed. Really had a great time here! read more

This is such a fun spot to grab cocktails and they have a great show with the bartenders. It is cash only and the atm charges a huge fee, so make sure you bring cash. read more

Flaming Saddles is great! The same owners of Coyote Ugly with the same concept. Good all around fun. The bartenders are top notch dancers and put on a great show. Fun and friendly crowd. Recommended for a fun night out in NY. read more

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It brought me so much joy to stumble upon Flaming Saddles while inebriated and walking around the area. Even though I wasn't the biggest Flaming Saddles fan when we had a location in my neck of the woods (West Hollywood), I was sad to see my location close during the pandemic, so it was a little nostalgic and fun going to the New York location. Giving mad gay Coyote Ugly vibes, this place is so much fun.... Especially when the bartenders get up and do their routines. Drinks are affordable and strong, there was a great bartender, I wish I remembered his name because made me feel at home. You can't beat a bar, decorated in all things western, will definitely go back next time I visit New York. read more

Such a fun bar! It was our first gay bar in the city and we loved it! The boys showed us a good time! read more

This is a fun and cute bar. Fun entertainment on the bar by employees, but wish they did it more often like the one that used to be in WeHo. I'd recommend this as a stop when in Hell's Kitchen. read more

Flaming Saddles Saloon - March 2023...cute bar. Fun entertainment on the bar by employees, but wish they did it more often like the one that used to be in WeHo. - Gay Bars Near Me - New York, New York

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What an amazing experience! A gay country bar?! I can't say enough amazing things about this place. This is literally coyote ugly meets YMCA! And I couldn't be more happy with how the night was! The entertainment was top notch and the drinks were strong! read more

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We had an amazing time here! The bartenders were quick to pour our drinks. We were delighted to find them on the bar doing a dance for us at the most unexpected hour! The bar itself was slow on a Tuesday night but the bartenders made it feel lively and fun! read more

Four shots were kind of a lot tonight. $48 for some green tea shots. But honestly good music and epic vibes with friends!! read more

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Came here for my birthday, ordered 3 drinks and went back to the bar to get a water for my friend. He needed another one after. This one bartender told me when I came back to the bar, "Don't even think about ordering another water, buy a drink." He continued to stand there and not serve me and make fun of me with a customer. Luckily another bartender was nice enough to give me a water and was very kind about it. We did not stay. To be in a bar and not serve someone a water when their friend clearly needs one is truly ridiculous. Incredibly rude service and we will not be coming back. Went to Industry instead and it was 10x better. read more

I went here for one drink with my coworkers. I liked the atmosphere and the bartenders were really nice. 4 stars because they are a cash o my establishment. I was really lucky that I had cash on me! Two of my friends ordered a beer and my other friend and I had absolute raspberry and sprite. The pours were generous. I would definitely come back! read more

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This is a cute fun place! The drinks are a bit overpriced compared to some other bars around but still a nice experience. read more

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ordered a vodka sour and i couldn't taste any alcohol at all - not in a good way where it's not noticeable, i literally think he didn't pour correct bc i took an extra second or two to decide. vibes were decent i guess? idek ppl should get what they pay for though, pour a proper full shot. read more

Fun little place, with old country music playing. Waiters dance on the bar every hour or so. There's a fun photo booth available, and a jukebox to choose music options. Drinks are ok, and no cover either when we went! read more

Awful service. Bartender had nothing but disdain for our entire group. I'll be spending my time and money anywhere else. Has been a tradition for years, but won't be anymore. read more

Cash only very inconvenient seems like a trend for many customers. Wish they would've led with that

This bar definitely knows how to throw a party. It's such a fun and friendly gay bar. Definitely recommend if you're looking to have a good time. It's cash only and they play country music. They also have men dancing on the bar like coyote ugly. read more

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Fun. TouchTunes catalog is very limited. And shame on you for blocking all Selena songs. read more

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such an amazing time here in the bar. Jakob took such a good care of me and my friend. we promise to come back just because of him. thank you Jakob for the good customer service you provided us. Luis. read more

Flaming Saddles is probably about as much fun as straights should be allowed to have at a gay bar. This fun, friendly spot is a perfect place to kick back and throw down a few drinks with friends and enjoy quality, often country-tinged tunes (and/or whatever camp is on the TV--The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas is a frequent favorite). Oh, and if the idea of handsome, shirtless men dancing on the bar Coyote Ugly-style sounds appealing...then you really, really shouldn't miss this place. Most times I've been here, it's been quite crowded, but the barkeeps manage to not keep you waiting, mixing some solid, stiff cocktails--even while adroitly attending to their aforementioned bar dancing duties. Prices aren't bad for HK, either. I would stick to drinks, though. Wine options are few. Beer options are a bit more plentiful, but not many good options, and the one draft I had seemed skunked. Still, well worth coming in for those drinks. This place is relatively spacious, and particularly good for groups/events. My bestie had his Big Gay 40th here (don't tell him I gave away his age away), and it was riotous fun for our huge group. Also, if you happen be a Drag Race fan, do yourself a favor and pop in for a live viewing here. It is some sassy spectator sport viewing, as the crowd roots for their faves and essentially live tweet the show live for you. It can be more entertaining than the show itself--which you know is saying something, hunty. read more

Well priced drinks, great music, the dancing from the bartenders is OUTSTANDING! I had an absolute blast visiting!!!

Well, wasn't this just a fun spontaneous stop on our self-guided walking tour around Hell's Kitchen! Popped in on a Sunday afternoon and was greeting by a friendly bartender and country music blaring. Soon enough, all 3 bartenders were up on the bar boot-scoot-boogying away. We meant to stay for one drink but ended up staying for a pitcher so we could play beer pong. Definitely worth a stop! read more

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On the way out the bartender harassed me about not tipping him. He was rude from the beginning.

Love Flaming Saddles. Found it very soon after moving to the neighborhood and it's popular and a great, upbeat vibe. Lots of bartenders dancing on the bar for specific songs. For someplace with the name Saloon and Saddles in it - there is very little country music, which is the only downside. Bartenders are nice, pour well and while busy still take a moment to greet you. Chris is the absolute best...adorable, great personality, hot - but straight! Definitely a must stop spot! read more

Flaming Saddles was an easy start to our night. The staff was great, the music was fun, and the drinks were inexpensive and easy to get. The line dancing on the bar added to the evening! Definitely check it out! read more

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Its a great time just go. Good entertainment and drinks are affordable. I'll definitely come back

I left my heart at this NY bar. A lovely bartender name Caroline from Dalton's (see my review) recommended this spot as a fun gay bar coyote ugly style and it did not disappoint. The two main bartenders were hot and friendly. Taylor. TAYLOR. Taylor. Beautiful and so very sweet for putting up with 5 hens. Lol. He had my heart at hello. I told him about 20 times that I was in love with him secretly lol. There is a whole lotta bar dancing and shots. Do not look needy when they are looking for a shot taker or else you will get passed up. They had great drink specials the night we were there. I enjoyed the music. Country and a mix of 80s/90s. But who is paying attention when hot guys are dancing on the bar? We definitely had a fun time. The crowd was friendly and the staff was fun. Definitely recommend this as a go to spot. read more