I'm going to detail my time here. Everything I say is 100% the truth; I implore you to believe me. Even if it sounds fake. Please.
Lighthouse is the worst school I've ever been at, having gone there from 2007-2011, in my high school years. It gave me nightmares for seven years - leaving because it was overtaken only by a new, more threatening nightmare - and learned helplessness for thirteen. Before going here, I was a fine enough student. Very clearly disabled and needing accommodations, but otherwise there was nothing wrong. This school is vile. You're treated like a child, you're not taught anything, you're handled physically for things like refusing to do classwork, or even just saying inoffensive things the staff think is offensive, and it makes you feel worthless. Bullying is allowed, despite the zero tolerance policy. Let me explain, one at a time, in order.
Being treated like a child: I don't mean in the sense that yeah, you're a high schooler or whatever, of course you're still a kid. No, I mean you get treated like you're five. If you say something offensive - or just that the teachers think is offensive, a friend of mine got in trouble for talking about noodles. Y'know, pasta, we were talking about mac and cheese - you get a strike, referred to as a cue. Three strikes and you get sent to time out, which will be elaborated on later. This can include things like: lying, saying minor swears (crap, hell, etc.), displaying any knowledge of sex, refusing to accept an obviously fake apology, or just anything the aides think falls into one of those categories. Like noodles, a euphemism from when we were five. We were 18 during this conversation, even, meaning we were legally adults. Oh, and this is going to sound a bit out of place, but I remembered from another review: you're assigned a "therapist" by the school, and absolutely nothing you say is confidential. Don't like a staff member? Something wrong with your home life? Well, now they know.
As for not being taught anything, this is technically only half right. If you only went to Lighthouse, as it's an escalator school (elementary through high), I'm sure you'd learn things. As someone who went to a public school, though? I was doing middle school work, again. I don't know if it was the fault of the No Child Left Behind act leaving me behind or just how things are done there, but it was the *exact* same work. Same books and everything. Do you know what it feels like to have your friends talk about homework, and you just have to sit out because you don't know anything they're doing? I have, and it's incredibly alienating and makes you feel dumb. When I confronted them on it in 12th grade because I finally had enough, they gave me excuses until I got an actual adult into it, and they told me that they would teach me if I completed all of the schoolwork they gave out that year. I figured, alright, I could do that. I did it before; how hard could it be? So I did what I was given, asked for next week's, and...was told to wait for next week. So I stopped doing it entirely. I have since taught myself some things, but...well, it's *still* alienating not knowing comparatively simple things.
So, what happens when you refuse to do classwork? They call people to take you to time out - physically, if you refuse to go, because you didn't do anything wrong. Rather than de-escalate situations, they're designed to escalate them. If you don't submit, they try to get a rise out of you so they can get handsy. They don't do it in ways that leave bruises, since otherwise parents would ask what's going on, but they don't have any problems violating your boundaries and treating you like scum of the earth. I still feel a visceral disgust at the number 718, because it's their code for calling them. Students constantly act out, and I cannot blame them one bit. Wouldn't you, if you felt like a prisoner? But, where do they bring you? A place that's deliberately 20 degrees colder than the rest of the school - you're forced to take a sweatshirt off if you know you're going and keep it on, by the way - and have to sit at a desk and write about what you did wrong and apologize for it. If it was to a student, not to them. I was very acquainted with this place by the end of the year, because I refused to play their game anymore.
And lastly, as the "things the staff think are offensive" thing was covered, making you feel like you were worthless. I mean...do I even need to say it? I wasn't allowed to be a high schooler, I wasn't even *taught* like a high schooler, and was treated like I was worse than garbage for refusing to submit. This led to an incredibly tumultuous stint at working multiple jobs, all of which ended in failure. I no longer trust therapists because I'm always terrified of them leaking information to anyone I have issues with. Only send your child here if you want them to fail. Please, I am begging you, send them elsewhere. They deserve better than this. read more