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    Its Just Lunch

    Its Just Lunch

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    Northeast

    The staff is friendly and prompt. They actively listen to feedback and try to match you with people…read morewith similar interests/values.

    For context, I'm a 35-year-old woman, and I wanted to wait until I had completed my experience with…read moreIt's Just Lunch before leaving a review. I ultimately chose to cancel my membership. During my membership, I went on three total dates through the service: two in Minnesota and one in Denver. I'm giving two stars because, contractually, IJL did provide the service I signed up for. I received introductions, went on dates, and had communication with my matchmaker. However, there is a big difference between technically providing a matchmaking service and providing a high-quality, personalized matchmaking experience. For the amount of money I invested, I expected much more from the latter. The initial consultation was actually the strongest part of my experience. It was discovery-focused. I was asked thoughtful questions about who I am, what I value, and what I'm looking for in a partner. That conversation was part of what gave me confidence to sign up. Unfortunately, I did not feel that same level of curiosity continued after becoming a client. The experience became much more sales-oriented than discovery-oriented. I frequently felt talked at rather than asked questions. Instead of conversations being centered around "What are we learning about you from these dates?" or "Why has this become important to you?", I often felt like information was being presented to me and I was being encouraged to reconsider preferences I had already communicated. My final conversation with Natalie really crystallized the issue for me. After I declined several proposed matches, we discussed why. I explained that through the dating process I had realized consistent physical fitness was an important lifestyle compatibility requirement for me. Rather than feeling like there was curiosity around why that had become important, I felt like I was being challenged and persuaded to broaden the definition of what I should accept. At one point during that conversation, I directly communicated that the interaction was beginning to feel aggressive to me and that I felt like I was being attacked for saying no. I needed to stop for a moment and breathe before continuing the conversation. I work in sales myself, so I understand persuasion, objection handling, and challenging assumptions. Those skills have their place. But I wasn't looking for a dating coach or someone to overcome my objections. I was paying for a matchmaker. I wanted someone who was curious, reflective, collaborative, and interested in deeply understanding my values before suggesting alternatives. A matchmaker should certainly challenge a client occasionally, but I believe understanding needs to come before persuasion. As a client goes on dates and learns more about what does and doesn't work for them, that feedback should be valuable information that makes subsequent matches more intentional. This was especially important for me because I was not living locally in Minneapolis. Two of my introductions were in Minnesota and one was arranged while I was traveling in Denver. Participating in the service required substantial travel, scheduling, and expense on my end, so I needed to be intentional about which introductions I accepted. Ultimately, I realized I was putting far more time and emotional energy into trying to make the matchmaking process work than I wanted to. When I decided to cancel, the company offered to put my membership on hold until I moved back to Minnesota. I declined and asked to proceed with cancellation. To their credit, that conversation was handled professionally and my cancellation request was processed without an issue. I don't believe this service will necessarily be a poor fit for everyone. Someone who wants more coaching or appreciates being encouraged to broaden their dating criteria may have a very different experience. For me, however, a premium personalized matchmaking service should be exceptionally good at listening, asking questions, understanding compatibility, and continually learning about the client through each introduction. My experience felt much more sales-heavy than I expected, and ultimately the quality of the matchmaking and communication did not justify the investment for me.

    Meshwerx - matchmakers - Updated August 2026

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