This year (2022) we took two separate rides on the Train of Lights and this is written primarily from the perspective of parents of a 16-month-old toddler.
The first experience (4:30pm from Fremont) was with standard tickets where my husband, 16-month-old son, and I started off in the open-air car. My son was fussy and got cold, so we walked through the open cars to try and find a seat in the warmer enclosed cars. This ended up being quite the adventure, as every time we found an open and empty seat, someone else came back to claim 'their' spot, which was frustrating - it should be a policy of 'move it and possibly lose it', but I am not one to argue. The constant back-and-forth walking between cars was also a bit overstimulating for my toddler. There were also large groups of adults drinking that got a bit loud and rowdy, and with no holiday music, that could be a plus or a minus for you. I don't begrude anyone any fun, but.. full transparency!
All that said, the cars were decorated beautifully. There are little alcoves with animatronic figures or holiday villages - part of the fun is discovering all of the little surprises! The volunteers, mostly seniors, were kind, gracious, and knowledgeable. One of them mentioned that all the different wreaths on the train were made by one individual which I found to be impressive. The Santa volunteers were friendly and engaging, though they have limited time with you as they need to accommodate the entire train. I'd recommend bringing something eye-catching and attention-getting to help you get the perfect photo with little ones within the first 5-10 seconds.
The second experience (7:30pm from Niles), we reserved the first class parlor, which was restored from (if I'm remembering correctly) 1928! Our on-board historian mentioned that it was originally covered with some ugly gray paint which they had to remove layer by layer - truly an act of love! He also brought to our attention the California poppies on the overhead panels. He mentioned these were recreated from a single panel.
Our second experience with our toddler was much more enjoyable. We kept him on our lap the entire time, but the lack of people constantly walking by was less overstimulating, and the car was warm. We were offered a choice of chocolate chip or oatmeal cookie, and hot cider (with or without brandy) or hot chocolate. I chose the hot cider with brandy, and found it enjoyable and with just the right amount of 'cheer'. We were also blessed with an absolutely lovely group of fellow passengers, many who also had small children under the age of 3 with them. The children were all well-behaved, and the parents were friendly and engaged with all of the children, including ours.
Takeaways:
* For adults looking for more of a 'party' atmosphere, I'd recommend the open train cars. Just dress warm and bring your own drinks and snacks. I saw people with bottles of wines and charcuterie boards, and all I could think was "YES".
* If you're in the interior cars and want to roam around and 'keep' your seats, I'd recommend some kind of placeholder or assigned party as there are no seat reservations.
* I'd definitely recommend festive (warm) attire. One of the more adorable things I saw was children in their holiday pajamas, and parents with the holiday headbands and 'ugly' (cute!) holiday sweaters.
* For parents of smaller children who you're worried may become over-stimulated by the constant walking by and lack of room to move, or for those with more delicate seniors or who would benefit from a calmer environment, I'd recommend the premium (parlor or dome) cars.
* For parents with small children who aren't good at looking at the camera, I'd bring a 'distraction' item that squeaks or lights up to get their attention when they're with Santa since he does his best to help you get that special photo, but he needs to move fast to give everyone the same opportunity.
* Snack bar prices were raised from $1 per item in 2021 to $2 per item in 2022. They only accept cash, so you need to have smaller bills handy, or pre-purchase snack credits at the ticket counter prior to boarding. The snack bar offers hot chocolate, hot cider, cookies, assorted chips, and fruit snacks. I think there was also trail mix.
TLDR: We had a great time, and I can't wait to go next year. Hopefully, we'll try the dome seats one day! read more