My ex texted me from a bed in the North Baldwin ER, cracking jokes about the most painful & traumatic experience I've ever had, that he put me thru.
it's been a few years, & I thought I was finally healing, but the texts triggered me & I was back there all over again.
I'll briefly explain. We were auguring while he was eating rice & he grabbed a handful & threw it in my threw it at me as hard as he could, about 4 or 5 times. The only way I could stop him was cowering. That made him bow up, challenging me to a fight.
Apparently, that doesn't sound too traumatic, but it stung really bad. And when I took a shower b/c I had to. there were red marks on my face & neck. He emotionally & physically abused me that all day & night,
If you knew our back story, you'd know why it hurt so bad. I told the two nures my story in the ER & they treated me as though I was a nuance that they didn't want to be bothered with, only contributing to the trauma. Tbh, they were cruel & I am still deeply hurt.
When two nurses refuse to see you & not even acknowledge the pain you are feeling, you become angry & I said something to them that I can't repeat. One put her hands on me pushing out the door as I was leaving. They ended up calling the police & I went to jail with my hospital band on. read more