The old joke continues to live on. Which profession is the oldest scam throughout history? Lawyers?…read morePsychologists?
Believe it or not, the punchline is photographers.
Earlier this year, I said a little prayer for my buddy who was getting married. I told him I could plan an escape to Canada if he just gives me the OK. He told me not necessary.
He also told me his bride to be had picked out a wedding photographer. That was a news to me considering I know most of the local wedding photographers in Long Beach. He then told me about this group of women photographers that will be their photogs.
Automatically, I was very skeptical.
Wedding photography is a male-dominated industry for a reason. One, for a take charge types, man tends to be more assertive in terms of getting the type of shots they wanted. For a physical role, it's not easy to mount all these equipments and carry them from one location setup to the next location. If a family wants a pre-wedding photo at a beach, then wants to go a park for a post wedding photos. Three locations in one hour, it can really take a toll.
Then comes the emotional abuse where criticisms sometimes mounts on the photographer by the parents of the bride & groom. Worst off, the biggest whiner can be the bride herself. You not only have to do the job, but you also have to put up a lot of stress, energy, and a lot of unwanted criticisms from people telling you on how to do your job.
I know it only because I worked in two weddings, a prom, and a graduation as an assistant to the main photographer. I have seen a lot of breakdowns. It's not just women that can be seen crying at the end of the exhausting day...men too.
So you can guess I'm more cynical than ever about the choice of having not one, but three female photographers for a wedding.
To my amazement, the reason this company got chosen as the wedding photographer was that their photos was featured in a wedding magazine my friend's future wife have seen and instantly she felt in love with the photos.
Then to my horror, I found out that they charged a lot more than some of the more reliable and reputable wedding photographers in the same area. Needless to say I am getting anxious about the whole thing. I bought those concerns to my buddy.
Guess what?......he has no say on about this. Apparently, it's HER wedding. LOL
True to form, on the day of the wedding, some of my concerns were subdued. Also they were positives on having female photographers over male photographers. For one thing, they get more access to the bride. Hate to even admit it, the photos on the bride are more important than on the groom (hahahaha, guys, you'll find that out real soon).
The other advantage was that they are a little bit more subtle on the way on how they carry things without being abrasive or aggressive. Instead of being the paparazzi, they are more in the backgrounds taking photos without interrupting the guests or taking photos on every click.
The main photographer that day was Andrea. I had the pleasure of meeting and talking to her since I was the Best Man in the wedding. I got a big sense that she was much better at reassuring the parents and having things under control. Even if she didn't, she would never let it be known to the wedding crowd. Probably I would be the only one that would know since I would make the same mistakes when I was working as a photographer.
The wedding itself was a beautiful event. Right afterward, the photographers gave a little preview or review of the photos that would be on the album. They shown a little slide show teaser on the portable laptop. Wedding guest can see the slide show of chosen photos on the monitor. It's a smart move only because it gets the guest excited and wanting to order the photos down the road.
If you scratched the comments about what I thought and my biased eyes on the quality of the photos, it would be totally up to the one important customer...the Bride.
The lovely bride love the photos and the caring attentions to the details. She appreciated the communications about the concerns or questions she might have. My pal and his new wife have interviewed a few potential photographers, but she felt more comfortable with Red Loft after they presented details about on how they will approached taking pictures for the wedding and what packages will be included.
So far they have kept their words on all the arrangements of photos and the preview of the photos. Believe me, there are horror stories you want to avoid about certain wedding photographers.
It was a satisfaction that made both the bride and groom happy about the memories that they will cherish for the rest of their lives. That was the only thing that matters the most at the end.
I definitely would recommend any couple of looking over their work and considered them for taking photos of your precious moment in your life.
For once, Lawyers wins out the punchline to that joke.