Uggg
You should know that to an outsider looking in, you seem to harbor disturbingly negative views about human nature, and it undermines the "goodness" of the good news you say you have to share with the world. Your weekly messages are all about putting fear into people.
Being told over and over again that what you have to offer is good news. But implicit in this good news is the very bad news that we are so bad, God had to kill himself in order to get over it.
Does that not strike you as...I dunno excessively demeaning? For every time we are told that God's love surpasses all other loves, we are being told that it takes an extraordinary kind of love in order to love the likes of us.
Go ahead and tell me that's not what it means.
See, I know this narrative very, very well. I've inhaled deeply of this message and I can recognize its aroma almost anywhere. Each mention of the surpassing love of God reminds the listener of his or her own innate unworthiness. Without that unworthiness, without the implicit notion of our own horribleness, this love wouldn't even be anything special.
And the worst part about it is: Even as you're reading this, some of you are preparing to defend this narrative, arguing that you and I really are that awful, that undeserving that worthless.
But the system of belief which we've inherited bears a striking resemblance to an emotionally abusive relationship, complete with even the same kinds of language you would hear from an abuser who actually exists:
Apart from me, you can do nothing.
Even on your best day, your best work is like used menstrual rags.
Why do you call me good? No one is good except God.
Does putting it that way offend you? If it does, I wonder why?
Is it because those would be terrible things to say to someone? Or is it because you feel they misrepresent what your message actually is?
I don't think I have misrepresented the message at all, and I've got a Master's degree in this stuff-from a conservative seminary no less-
It is an anti-human message, I see the damage it causes in peoples lives. Folks, I reject that narrative, and you should, too. I smell something rotten inside that beautiful packaging, and I've seen what it does to people.
Don't even get me started on your obsession with money! People should not feel obligated to give to a church! Your new scam Difference Makers pretty much locks people into giving every month & they even get a special gift for signing up. So what about people that can't afford to give $20 a week? Your arrogance amazes me! How much money has been given out of almost empty pockets in order to sustain your expensive building? Not to mention the money your collecting to build more churches! If you'll simply ask to see the budget breakdown of Real Life Church you will likely find that over 50% of those funds goes towards maintaining the church property and to the salaries of the church staff. Do I need to remind you what Paul meant when he said ( It's better to give then to receive)
When Paul uttered those famous words "It's better to give than to receive," he was telling a group of preachers that they should follow his example by providing for their own livelihoods instead of depending financially on their congregations. Yet another layer of irony comes from the fact that the tithe is not even a New Testament concept. In the Old Testament, people gave a tenth of their grain and meat and other measures of wealth in order that the priestly class might have a living.
How long before you stick people up for another 10 million so you can build a church in Canyon County? read more