Cemeteries aren't much fun to write about, except if there's a good ghost story attached or you're talking about them from an artistic perspective. The former at Toowong Cemetery relates to an alleged spot on one of the roads that winds around the cemetery where your car will be "pulled up" the road on a decline. (This urban legend has been doing the primary school circles for generations; I wished it stopped at primary school.) In terms of the latter, I'm sure photographers, stencil fans etc will find a lot here to intrigue them.
As to myself, I have a morbid fear of cemeteries. Likewise I'm not too fond of funerals or death, either. An older relation died recently, calling for both the funeral and cemetery service. And to those fellow cemetery-phobes out there: you can get over it.
I got over it at Toowong Cemetery. It might have been the peaceful and appropriate funeral service, but when we arrived at the cemetery everything felt "right". It was hard to describe, but I not only conquered my feelings of panic but took charge. I ended up being one of the pallbearers and actually voluntarily approached the grave (while everyone else hung back), removed the planks and watched them lower my grandmother's coffin into the ground. I recognized immediately that the coffin was beautiful and her final resting place (the cemetery itself) was, too, and that these factors would have been important to her. I mulled over it for a while and thought my grandmother would have been happy with the service. This all sounds ridiculously naff, but it's true.
As these ideas swirled around I didn't even notice much of the other graves or soil mounds; or when I noticed them, I felt strangely calm.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not in love with cemeteries yet - but this one I owe a debt of gratitude to. read more