My 3 year old daughter went to swim school here as a new swimmer. She had been going about 5 months and had a few different instructors. She was afraid of the water but had made strides. She still didn't enjoy the deep water, but we could get her in the pool and she followed most instruction that she felt comfortable with. One evening, her normal instructor was not there so the owner, Wendy taught the class. Wendy is known for being abrasive but as long as my child is being pushed the right way, it's always okay. My daughter was crying this time, I think half because Wendy is abrasive and was not her normal instructor. The other half I think was because Wendy was bringing her into the deeper water which she was not comfortable with. My daughter continued to cry while being floated on her back.
My daughter was visibly and verbally uncomfortable, stating she was scared multiple times. With no sympathy to this, Wendy kept my daughter on her back while she was crying. She continued to cry and Wendy proceeded to splash her in the face. The splashes then became cupping water, and purposely putting it into my daughter's mouth, causing her to cough, and swallow water repeatedly while Wendy stated "if you keep crying, you're going to keep getting water in your mouth." This happened several times, but my daughter continued to cry while undergoing this. When my daughter continued to cry, she was submerged under water a few times while still on her back, taking in more water. At this point, I told my daughter to exit the pool. She continued to cough up water to the point of almost vomiting, outside and inside, though I wish she had. We left immediately, and I assured Katrina she would never intentionally be hurt by Wendy again. This was reckless behavior, and it endangered my child. I am glad I took her out when I did because this could have ended so much worse.
My daughter coughed all night so the next day, I took her to urgent care where they did an X-Ray and found water in her lungs. She was diagnosed with subsegmental atelectasis/infiltrate from aspiration of water. They advised me that if she gets a fever, to bring her back in as it can be very serious. We followed up with her doctor the following week since she was still coughing and the doctor said it was good news that she never developed a fever but to keep our eyes on it. The coughing is simply the body's attempt to get rid of the water. 2 weeks later, we did a follow up X-Ray since she was still coughing but luckily, her lungs were clear. My daughter coughed for almost 4 weeks.
When I contacted Wendy to discuss reimbursement, she called me several times, and left a few messages. She even stated she "lost her patience, " "made a bad choice" with my child and "took responsibility." She mentioned that I threatened her but I simply asked for my money back with the 2nd option being court. She sent a few emails stating the same type of things and then said she was taking a leave of absence and disappeared. Wendy never even asked how my child was. She simply called her insurance company and attempted to let them handle it. In her insurance paperwork that they sent me, she even said she was not a witness. I told her insurance company that I would not be a part of whatever fraud she was trying to commit.
I went ahead and filed a small claim against her. I certainly could have gone further but I simply wanted her to take responsibility, apologize, and ask if my child is okay! Her insurance company then told me that they would gladly pay the small amount we requested.
After it was settled, the insurance company told me Wendy had requested that I do not post anything on social media about the incident and I politely told the insurance company that she is insane if she ever thinks I would do that. I was shocked that she would even ask this of me. It is absolutely my right as a parent to let other parents know what is going on there and what kind of instructor she is. If she admittedly loses her patience with 3 year olds, she should not be teaching them. This situation could have ended so much worse, and was the scariest moment of my 3 years as a parent. To watch a "responsible" adult purposely hurt your child is something I never wish on anyone. Really, she should be happy I did not press charges instead of walking away in shock. My daughter now has a fear of the pool more than when she originally started. We are taking a break for a while and will maybe try it again next year with private lessons from another school. Don't bring your kids here and always trust your gut! read more