I went to CCRM because of their higher success rates with 40-43 year olds and was willing to pay the exhorbenant fees in order to get to the "best". As with many patients, I was from out of town, so had the additional costs to incur but did not matter because I wanted to be a mom!
What bothered me the most, is that you literally don't get back to see anyone until you speak to a business manager, make a substantial payment, sign off on tons of paperwork which releases CCRM from all liability, etc. After this process, you are sent to various appointments between the patient orientation, preliminary blood work, nurse examinations, pelvic procedures, psychologist etc. Each time I felt like I was just here for them to milk more money out of me. I will say that they are very thorough and efficient in their scheduling, that is for sure. I never met my assigned nurses, I met with Dr. Surrey 2x over a 6 month period of time (the first initial meet and greet and when I went back for my testing to go over results). He was off both times I went in for my retrievals so had to see whatever doctor was on duty. I wouldn't have minded if it would have been Dr Schoolcraft but it was Dr. Brown the first time and Dr. Gustofson the second time.
I had 2 IVF cycles, the first time, I was overstimulated: 23 eggs were retrieved, only 9 were mature, 5 fertilized, 3 made it to day 5 and DNA testing proved they were not viable. The second, I was over-stimulated: my retrieval ended up being 4 days before I was supposed to go in for retrieval because my body reacted to the additional meds differently and my bloodwork was not monitored properly. The retrieval result was 15 eggs, 5 mature, 3 fertilized, 2 made it to day 5 and DNA testing proved they were not viable. Devastated and disappointed, yet again, I went back home. This cost me $ 45,000 and that was without the cost medication! Dr. Surrey had the audacity to call me and give me "options" for the future and I am saying to myself, there is no way in hell I am giving this organization another penny, but being the great motivational speaker the staff is there and the fact that they give you hope, it was suggested for me to look at embryo adoption. A program, conveniently, that they offer for patients with failed IVF's. The deal is, you have to wait to be "matched" and the wait can be up to a year or longer. Oh, and the cost was close to $ 8500. Though I did have them put me on the wait list, I was done being milked like a cash cow!
Here we are 11 months later and I get a phone call that there are embryos available. Nevermind that I called my nurses 3x with never a call back, wrote 2 emails with no response with regards to the adoption status over the past 11 months....I was soured on the whole process with CCRM, decided not to pursue the adoption, went back to the basics of IUI, got pregnant and am due any day! read more