I cannot thank Stacey enough for guiding my ex-husband and I through the divorce process. Even though ours was completely amicable, there was still a lot of detail that we couldn't begin to imagine, even in what we thought was a relatively "simple" divorce. In addition to Stacey's legal expertise, she referred us to a financial professional who proved invaluable to the process and ended up saving us both money and sparing us financial headaches down the road. In addition, the lawyer she referred us to who processed our agreement and guided us through court was impeccable. Our mediation process had been slowed down by several unexpected life events we had to tend to. Once we were able to resume, everyone helped us to speed up the process and we were done very quickly. I also want to emphasize that throughout the entire process, Stacey and all of the professionals we worked with treated us with the utmost respect. Even when you are dealing with an amicable divorce, the process itself can bring up issues that you might not expect. Stacey and everyone she referred us to was 100% easy to talk to and sensitive to the process. That was a complete comfort to us. I highly recommend the mediation route and if you are thinking about, you should give Stacey and call! read more

I have known and worked first hand with Stacey for many years. I regularly see her go out of her way to help her clients. She spends her own time without charging to find resources and do research to make sure her clients get what they need. She is highly trained and very professional. She has several glowing reviews on her website. She frequently gets feed back from clients who are extremely grateful for the guidance she provides. Divorce is traumatic and tedious work. I have no doubt that Stacey did everything in her control to have the previous reviewer walk away with her needs met. She is not in control of decisions a judge might make, I am positive that she found a way to help this person. read more

We can't thank Stacey enough for her compassion and handling of our mediation. I credit Stacey and her process for saving our marriage! Working through Detente's information requests re-fostered a level of communication between my wife and I that had been missing for years. Completing the inventory and financial document requests made the two of us take inventory of ourselves, our relationship, and what was really important. Stacey's excitement and encouraging words when we told her we were cancelling the mediation process re-enforced our decision to choose mediation vs. individual attorneys. Thank you Stacey! read more

Stacey is a Godsend. She provides a service that I wish were more widely known to the public during a divorce. She is an excellent guide through the process, very knowledgeable about all aspects of it, and willing to spend a lot of personal time with her clients in order that they reach the best possible outcome. Going through the process is never easy, but I felt at all times that Detente would lead us to the right final outcome. And that is because of her dedication, and most importantly her kindness and understanding, that she displays to her clients and their needs. Thank you! read more

Stacey did a great job as we had many hurdles, including COVID, caused tus to pause the process, Stacey kept on top of things and was able to pick up where we left off when we were ready to continue. I appreciate Stacey for staying the course with us and helping us through this process. I thought she handled our case very well and helped take a lot of the stress and worry around the legal parts of the process and made it easy for us to understand the steps involved. read more

Stacey provides exceptional service. Her thorough knowledge base of the intricacies of the divorce process made it easy to trust her and she presents all pertinent information up front.  She is great at meeting couples where they're at emotionally and financially. Navigating through the unknowns and stress of a divorce can be overwhelming but Stacey made both my wife and myself feel comfortable through the process. I can't recommend Stacey enough. She is the best! read more

Stacey Langenbahn gives unbiased thorough information so you can make the best decisions possible in an extremely hard situation. She is communicative every step of the way. She is responsive to emails and respectful of others opinions and time. If you are unsure of how to proceed have a consultation with her and she will ease your worries with her calm cool and collected demeaner. 10/10 recommend read more

Detente Mediation Services Stacey did an amazing job helping us navigate a very difficult time. Truely a cost effective, alternative to "lawyering up". Stacey's impartial, knowledgable mediation allowed a fair settlement to be reached. read more

I highly recommend Detente. Stacey has made the process easy and efficient. She is pleasantly professional and has a vast amount of knowledge with divorce mediation. I am happy that we went with her service rather than lawyers. read more

The mediation process was exactly what we needed. The process was very thorough especially regarding the difficult pro se divorce paperwork and making a possession order that fit our unique schedules and circumstances. read more