I have deep concern for the welfare of anyone who would engage in therapy with this counselor. My experience was that of being deeply retraumatized by Stephen Beck.
It has now been many years since I filed a complaint against Stephen Beck with the Oregon Board of Clinical Social Workers. It was my belief during the seven years that Mr. Beck was my therapist that he violated these Laws and Rules:
* Dual Relationships
* Sexual Involvement
* Misrepresentation
* Incompetence
* Breach of Confidentiality
* Unprofessional Conduct
Although the Board did not take away Mr. Beck's license to practice, they did take disciplinary actions. He was fined $4,000, required to acquire additional educational credits and training, would remain under clinical supervision for three years, and the disciplinary action would be made public. Given that this was before the Me Too era, I have wondered since then if his license would have been removed today given the sexual nature of parts of the trauma that I experienced with Mr. Beck.
Stephen Beck appeared to be compassionate and very charming in the early years. And I believed that he was experienced with trauma and an expert in everything. This role as expert was something he really reinforced. In addition to being my individual therapist, our family also did some work with him, my first husband and I engaged in couples counseling, and my former husband was in a men's group that Mr. Beck facilitated. Ultimately, we all experienced harm from these experiences.
Given how much unhealed complex trauma I continued to have and being deeply instinct injured, it took me years to truly grasp the nature of the trauma that I experienced, and my family, over the course of my/our therapy with Stephen Beck. I also felt enormous shame over how dependent I'd become on him and how I allowed the abuse to continue for so long. Today I understand that this harmful dependency was created by this therapist. I also was so traumatized at the time that I broke off from the "therapy" with Stephen Beck that I developed fibromyalgia.
Gratefully, I've since received therapy (which has included IFS - Internal Family Systems - therapy) that has empowered me in many ways, including the healing work that I've long needed for my history of PTSD and complex trauma - AND healing from the trauma I experienced with Mr. Beck. I am also now many years symptom free from fibromyalgia, I am happily remarried, and deep generational trauma has been radically healed, unburdened, and transformed.
As a retired social worker and human being who cares deeply about the welfare of us all, I feel that it is my duty to share my experiences and warn others. Molly Strong read more