We held our wedding at the Haven at Tomales a few weeks ago. The venue couldn't have been more beautiful, and we were thrilled with how it went! There are a lot of things to know about the Haven, so I'm writing the review I wish I'd had before booking there.
First, the venue itself is absolutely wonderful. We did our wedding ceremony in the Forest Clearing, and the celebration in the barn. The Forest Clearing is just magical. We were looking for beautiful trees for our ceremony, and it doesn't get better than the Haven's eucalyptus grove. It hardly needs any decoration, it's incredible as is! The barn itself is also gorgeous. It's spacious, pleasant, and well-equipped for weddings with great spaces for the bride and groom parties. Our guests loved the venue, and so did we. All of the pictures from the wedding were just beautiful. The Haven at Tomales is a high quality venue through and through - the venue and its recommended vendors are not cheap, but you get what you pay for!
We're so glad we booked the Forest Clearing because of how special it made the ceremony feel. It did make the wedding more complex and more expensive, which the Haven warned us about early on. You need to rent specific transportation from a list of approved shuttle companies to get guests from the barn to the Forest Clearing. Because the road there has a single lane, the shuttles need to move as a convoy, so you need to rent a lot of said transportation to get guests up in only two trips. Additionally, many rental companies cannot get their wares to the site. The Haven offers benches for a fee for the location and strongly recommends them over rented chairs because they are more stable. The benches were great, and I'd recommend them to anyone holding an event in the Forest Clearing.
The Haven is much more of a blank slate when it comes to wedding design than other venues. They include a few farm tables and many round dinner tables as part of the contract, but you need to rent almost everything else yourself - all the table decoration, any decorative lighting, the linens, the silverware, any furniture for the cocktail area or quiet rooms, the bar, a portable oven for any food preparation, and any heating for the barn. This means you get to really customize the wedding and make it your own! You can see on their Instagram page (https://www.instagram.com/thehavenattomales) how different the weddings end up looking in the same space, based on what the couple wants. In our opinion, the barn was pretty beautiful and well-lit enough on its own, so we just added some minor uplighting.
Part of the beauty of the Haven is its location, surrounded by rolling hills and happy cows. Its remote location does mean that it's good to be thoughtful about transportation to the venue for your guests. The Haven has limited parking available for guests and vendors, so you'll need to arrange special transportation to get guests there. We had a friend who worked at Google, so we rented a double decker Google bus through them to pick up people in San Francisco and Petaluma, which worked out very nicely! We had guests ask us for permission if they wanted to park, and ended up having enough space for everyone who asked.
The Haven has high standards for itself and the weddings held there. They have a very helpful, very specific list of required vendors for catering, transportation, off-ground decor, and bartending, as well as recommended vendors for other categories like rentals and florists. The vendors they list are excellent! Make sure to book your vendors early - this year, the competition for vendors was fierce since so many weddings were pushed back by covid, and almost all of the caterers on their list were booked for our date. They rejected a caterer our wedding planner had recommended to us, but fortunately they had another caterer in a trial period with them for another wedding, and they graciously allowed us to hire that caterer, who turned out to be fantastic. Additionally, the Haven is a great place for a classy wedding, but not a wild wedding. They have a number of sensible rules around alcohol, such as avoiding shots and administering fines if someone throws up, which we had no problem accommodating.
Finally, Mandy in particular was lovely to work with. We were grateful that she let us move our wedding back a year when covid struck without charging us. They even let us hold a 6-person live-streamed wedding ceremony at the Forest Clearing to get legally married for free! Mandy was a great guide around the venue during our tours there, a responsive planning partner as we approached the wedding, and super helpful throughout the rehearsal and wedding itself. The wedding went incredibly smoothly from start to finish and a big part of that was the work Mandy did to make it all happen.
We're very grateful to have held our wedding at the Haven, and recommend it for anyone who wants to hold a beautiful, intimate, high-end wedding in a bucolic setting! read more