We are so happy that we decided to have Deanna officiate our wedding, as she not only was…read moreincredibly professional and easy to work with, but she went above and beyond for us. Deanna not only wrangled our large family for photos without knowing who anyone is beforehand, but she helped us get our vows printed when we forgot the morning of, and she even helped get me into my dress! Deanna's amazing personality shone through in working with her, and her warm and friendly demeanor is what made us want to have her officiate our wedding. Thank you Deanna, for being such an important part of the best day of our lives.

We had a wonderful experience working with our officiant for our wedding. From the very beginning,…read moreshe was incredibly friendly, responsive, and easy to communicate with. Even though she is building her business, we truly appreciated how detail-oriented and thoughtful she was throughout the process. She guided us step by step--from the ceremony structure to the marriage license--making everything feel smooth and stress-free. On the day of the wedding, she was calm, professional, and helped the ceremony flow naturally, which meant a lot to us. Our guests felt comfortable and the ceremony was simple, warm, and meaningful--exactly what we were hoping for. We're very grateful for her care and effort, and we would definitely recommend her to other couples looking for someone supportive and genuine. Thank you again for being part of our special day!

Thanks for everything, Shyamala. The ceremony was lovingly personal and your words were deeply…read moretouching. I can never thank you enough for making our wedding so special!

Shyamala was the perfect choice to perform our ceremony at the Brazilian Room. She crafted and…read moredelivered the perfect ceremony for us and several people commented on how beautiful and true to the two of us it was. Working with her was an absolute pleasure every step of the way. She really has a talent for asking the right questions and sensing who you are as individuals and as a couple, then reflecting that in your ceremony. She has curated a wonderful selection of readings and rituals to give you some ideas for things to incorporate in your ceremony, but is also skilled at bringing in any other ideas you might have. She sent us a draft of our ceremony two weeks out (which made me cry the first time I read it, tip: don't read it at work) then worked with us from there to make it perfect. Afterwards, she gave us a printed copy of our beautiful ceremony to look back at forever. We can't recommend her enough.

We chose Sharon because she was different from the rest of officiants you typically hear about or…read morehave seen at previous weddings. For anyone who thinks that the officiant is simply someone who reads a bunch of words, marries you and doesn't think this is an important part of the wedding... you should really re-think that, it is much more. Sharon took the time to get to know how we met, who we are and dug deep into our lives. She makes you think deeper about your partner, family & friends, why you're tying the knot and what you really want from it all. She really helped set the vibe/feeling and flow for the wedding as well being the officiant. Just remember, during the ceremony all eyes are on you and the words being spoken by the officiant and its a significant moment... When Sharon sent us our first draft of the ceremony, it was already perfect and we didn't need to make changes. Also, Sharon's overall personality/vibe is really comforting, happy and she is very on top of things throughout the whole process. Again, don't let the idea of an "officiant" or costs change your mind as everything you know is the old way of doing things. Sharon/Inner Light Ceremonies is the new benchmark and standard of officiating.

For our marriage ceremony, my fiancé and I wanted a secular ceremony that reflected the values we…read morehad brought to our relationship. Our wedding planner (Chanda Daniels) put us in touch with several bay area professional officiants, but it was clear that Sharon was the right fit for what we were looking for. Sharon Lacay is a charming, compassionate, and graceful person who will work with you to construct and lead an intimate ceremony for you and your partner. She has a calm demeanor and always has a smile on her face. Starting close to 9 months in advance of our wedding, Sharon met with my fiancé and I to learn about our values and what we wanted to share with our family and friends. In just a few hours of conversation she synthesized our core beliefs and sacred truths, putting together a draft for our ceremony that captured all of the things we were looking for. In fact, while reading the first draft I was overcome with so much love and emotion that I started to tear up. We had only minor edits afterwards, and Sharon helpfully checked in with us as we neared the date to make sure the ceremony still felt true. Sharon also has a great eye for detail. During our rehearsal she pointed out different ways we could approach the altar in the Redwood Grove (Berkeley Botanical Gardens, Berkeley, CA) and how we would pass the microphone among the wedding party for their readings. All of our guests remarked on how unique, beautiful, and personal our ceremony was, from readings to the tree planting ceremony, ideas which Sharon brought to the table. In sum, if you are looking for a joyful and secular officiant who can help you create a ceremony that reflects your relationship, look no further than Sharon. We are so proud of how she helped make our wedding day a joyful and special occasion for us and our families.

Prem is an absolute must for any celebration or life experience you need a helping hand through…read more.. My husband and I had such a hard time finding an officiant for our non-denominational yet spiritual wedding. We wanted to incorporate our disparate (Jewish, catholic, non-religious, yet ritualistic) backgrounds, while keeping it casual and inclusive... a tall order! Prem met with us and we immediately felt at ease with her warmth and understanding. She was thoroughly engaged throughout the process, asking questions as a couple and as individuals. She crafted a ceremony for us that was so unique and perfect. Upon our rehearsal, we had inclement weather- heavy winds and a decision to move the ceremony indoors- as a bride I was upset and anxious- Prem was a grounding force and a calming and reassuring presence. Prem helped us deliver a ceremony that I want to reenact every day. Our guests raved about the ceremony (while most wedding guests just want the open bar). Everyone asked how we found Prem. We are so lucky to know her Thanks Prem! We love you

We weren't sure what we wanted for a ceremony and were struggling to identify how to proceed with…read morea more nontraditional ceremony on our own. Prem helped us shape a wonderful ceremony that felt our own and really captured the things we most cared about including, without feeling beholden to tradition. Prem was easy to work with and very flexible throughout the whole process. Prem also did a great job adapting to all the little unpredictable moments on the day of and made it a wonderful day to remember.

My husband and I cannot say enough great things about Larry! He truly helped make our Wedding…read moreincredibly special. Our guests kept raving about the Ceremony and how beautiful it was. At one point my husband kept tearing and Larry made such lighthearted jokes that made our guests laugh and put my husband at ease. He answered all of our questions and helped us with the marriage license process. We loved that we were able to make the Ceremony our own, Larry did everything to make it about us and our love. He went above and beyond and we could not be more thankful.

My wife and I had the blessing of meeting and working with Kathy Wilkerson for our marriage…read moreceremony in August 2023 at the Marin Civic Center. From the first online inquiry, I was able to set up an exploratory call with Kathy within a few hours. She asked insightful questions and listened attentively. She was interested in the style preferences of both myself and my bride, even down to what we wanted her to wear at the ceremony. Being from San Diego, we were less familiar with the Marin Civic Center. Kathy offered recommendations about different spots we could potentially use for the ceremony, and the pros and cons of each. She provided us with an overview of what to expect before, during, and after the ceremony, which immediately set me at ease. The Ceremony Planning Workbook she used made writing our vows so much easier. It broke down the ceremony into sequential stages. For each stage we had ready templates to choose from or the ability to write our own. The workbook was user-friendly. Kathy took something that ordinarily would be overwhelming, and made it simple - the mark of genius. Kathy made sure we were on schedule with writing our vows, gently checking in on us, even when our lives got busy. On the day of our marriage ceremony, she was on location an hour early. She communicated with our photographer to help find the best angles for where we should stand for the vows. She warmly greeted our family members as they trickled in and conversed with me to help me feel calm. Half of our wedding party arrived 15-20 minutes after the scheduled start time; Kathy was patient and reassuring while we waited for our ceremony to get under way. After the ceremony, Kathy provided us with a lovely keepsake booklet of our vows, which is something other officiants in the area did not offer. She timely submitted required paperwork to our county, and also Emailed me as soon as our county confirmed the marriage license was ready for pick up. Kathy Wilkerson is warm, knowledgeable, classy, communicative, organized, and conscientious. Her personal attention over the course of multiple months made us feel like we were the only couple she was officiating for. In a heartbeat, I would recommend her for any wedding, large or small.

Minister Maggie Beretz officiated at our daughter's wedding and she did a beautiful job and the…read moreceremony was so moving and inspiring. She was friendly and professional and helped my daughter and her fiancé decide on the details of the ceremony, offering options and suggestions. Highly recommend her!

So, you're looking for a wedding officiant? If you want a stress-free experience with a seasoned…read morewedding professional you can stop your search. Minister Maggie married us last summer and from the initial email, to our in-person planning meetings, to the big day, Maggie was an ultimate professional. She provided a bevy of examples and suggestions while helping us personalize our vows, effortlessly helped us navigate the small bumps along the way and went above and beyond on the day of our wedding. We got many compliments on her officiating and couldn't have been happier with our choice. When I think back to our wedding ceremony, I can picture all of my friends and family gathered together, my partner standing across from me, and Maggie's smiling face and calm voice, guiding us through.

I called Mark less than three weeks before our wedding date and he was accommodating, helpful,…read morepatient and kind. We picked the "custom" wedding option and he spent over an hour on the phone with us, walking us through the process and helping us make decisions about the components of the ceremony. From the information we gave him, he crafted a ceremony that was genuine, touching and warm. We had a simple ceremony and only four guests, but Mark still treated it as though it were the royal wedding. During the ceremony itself, he helped us to feel calm and confident and eased our nervousness. We will have many happy memories of our wedding thanks to Mark.

Short answer: One of the best wedding officiants I have ever seen perform a ceremony. Nearly…read moreeveryone who came to our wedding said the same thing, Mark was great. Longer answer: My wife and I were married by Mark in October, 2011, at a small ceremony at City Hall. We are from out of town, and so, had a lot of anxiety about doing the event so far away. My wife, ever the researcher, came up with Mark's name somewhere, and we asked for his help. We had a couple of phone calls with him and in the calls, Mark did a great job of detailing the event, his needs and listening to our preferences and expectations. We had a number of e-mail exchanges, and his forms and format are all very easy to follow, and yet, provided an incredible about of personalization to the event that made it very special for us. Mark's personality definitely shown through at the event. He was upbeat, cheerful and helped set the tone for the entire day. He was on time, very well dressed, and obviously has a knack for this thing. Again, all of our guests commented that he was one of the best wedding officiants they had ever seen. His style was very inclusive, and he made it a point to make everyone there feel a part of our special day in a way I have never seen done before. I cannot say enough about how thoughtful, professional and enthusiastic Mark was. I highly recommend him to anyone planning a wedding in San Francisco. Thanks again Mark! Bill in St. Louis

We had a perfect October wedding with Rev. Katherine officiating. We met prior for a one on two…read moresession, then a few emails and a phone call, and together we put together a very personal and memorable ceremony!! We wholeheartedly recommend her for your feature nuptials as well as funerals, as that where we first encountered her, give a very touching eulogy.

Rev. Katherine created a beautiful ceremony for us with the perfect balance of solemnity, joy and…read morelightheartedness. I was impressed with the attention and consideration she gave us even knowing we were having a small, simple wedding with only a few guests. All of her communication was timely and thorough. From the initial consultation conversation through to the touchbase the night before, she took the time to make sure we were happy with the vows and comfortable knowing what to do during each part of the ceremony. She brought unique touches to the ceremony like including family and friends and acknowledging those who were unable to attend but here in their hearts. We did an outdoor ceremony and Rev. Katherine was very flexible and openminded, game for a small hike to get to our spot and unfazed by windy weather the day of. Her knowledge and experience in officiating in the Bay Area is apparent and I was grateful she so readily shared her advice and recommendations with us. The combination of professionalism, kindness, and humor that Rev. Katherine brought to the preparation and ceremony was just fantastic, allowing us to relax knowing we were in great hands. I can't recommend Rev. Katherine enough. I'm so happy to have chosen her as our officiant and thankful that she graced us with her gift in crafting and leading such a wonderful ceremony.