Ah, yes the Calvary Chapel of Pasadena - what a joy !!!
I was led to the Calvary Chapel by a Billy Graham TBS special. I was so moved by what Billy said - how Billy said it - Billy's conviction ... I knew I had to find more out, as in 2006 I was going through divorce, turmoil, chaos, career indecision and terror. I was afraid. I wasn't sure I had anything left. I'd run out of petrol, fuel. So after the TBS
special I called the 800 number on the screen, and a loving Christian came on, a woman. Prayed with and for me. Directed me to the closest Billy Graham affiliate she could find (she was based in Tennessee), i.e. the Calvary Chapel in Pasadena. She cited the Pastor, Xavier Ries, who was known through-out the Christian World as a fierce defender of Christian values, change, the hearts' role in any demise in which we've suffered - she gave "X" five stars - out of a possible four. So the following Sunday I went - and knew from the very first worship song, "How Great Is Our God," that there was nothing to fear. That I was home. That I would survive the passing trauma and storm, get through the divorce, which was something exceedingly difficult to decide upon. Then a teaching position was taken away (all the state cuts CA suffered through from 06-09). My father died. And I was suddenly living alone. Fearing I could find a second partner at that time/age. Ah, but the Calvary Chapel!
I'm not going to lie and say this was an easy transition for me. The Pastor often upset me with references to psychology, child rearing, do's and don'ts - he's someone that speaks his mind and, in X's own hilarious words, "Gets a lot of letters." He forever pleads not to send him any, any angry letters - after a terse sermon against things such as Same-Sex-Marriage - or our weakening Global partnership with Israel - our greatest ally. So my transition to the Calvary, and to Christianity - came in stages - but I never quit, never gave up - assumed it was me and I merely needed clarification. Knew I needed this and that it worked for me from the first moment I walked in. Isn't that all we need to know? That something "feels right" from the jump? Stage one and Stage two were a bit ugly - had an argument with the front office, mouthed-off, voiced disapproval at constant jabs at the world of psychology. But there came a moment in late Act Two when I began to understand, get it. When my hard-heart finally began to soften all of these years. Because it's the Heart that must be changed - and if you believe that - if you realize your own Heart's became callous/cynical - then there's Hope. Cuz you can't Change what you don't Acknowledge. So I "got" that the problem weren't the sermons, wasn't the Divorce, wasn't the change from 12-Step-spirituality into Hardcore Christianity - the problem was a hard heart. Thus Act 3 was opening a Bible, reading and studying scripture, CD's that our great Assistant Pastors (Tony Scotti, Henry Duran, to name just a few) - following along every Sunday and Thursday AND keeping my big mouth shut - an actual FIRST in my life. And I began to love the staff, the worship team, those around me/us at either the earliest Sunday service - or the second service at 9:30 a.m. And I began to love the World, love People again, forgive those who'd wronged/beguiled me while asking for that same Forgiveness from people. It's been nine years this past Easter I listened to the Billy Graham TBS special - found the Calvary - began attending as much as I could. I didn't do this perfect. I was on-again, off-again for awhile. I sought other churches closer to home - but when in doubt it's always about the Calvary Chapel in Pasadena - because it SHOULD have been impossible to change-my-heart at that point in time. No other Church or Pastor could have had this strong an effect on me. I had to have it drilled between my eyes time and again until there was no doubt, only Conviction. I had to be called onto the carpet when I got out of line. I had to understand there's only one way - His - per Xavier Ries at this Calvary Chapel - and Raul Ries at the Calvary Chapel in San Bernadino County. Chuck Smith-trained (You Tube). So if you're missing something, or you feel there's something else but don't exactly know WHAT - come to THIS Calvary Chapel in Pasadena. You'll never be the same. You'll leave the-old-you behind, shed him/her, and you'll grow into just WHO the Lord meant you to be. The Calvary changed my Heart - and for the first time since the age of 16 and 17 - I'm happy. How can you put a price-tag on something like Joy. read more