"It's not a diet, it's a lifestyle." I HATED when people said this to me. I couldn't picture myself as someone who would ever prefer a salad over a burger and I'm definitely not someone who minds spending a whole day on the couch. And I had failed so many times before, what was the point of even trying? But with 70+ lbs to lose (a number that often paralyzed me) something had to change, so I decided to reach out for help, both to guide me and to keep me accountable. That's when I found Dara on Yelp.
I started working with Dara about 4 months ago to work on weight loss (exercise and nutrition). Best decision I ever made. I knew she would be a good fit from the first consult call where she asked me not only about my weight loss history, but also about the emotions surrounding that history as well as my stress and wellness habits. It felt very holistic from the get go.
Since then, I've lost ~25 lbs and counting. Unlike past experiences (and I tried everything - Weight Watchers, Beachbody, just personal training, just meal tracking), working with Dara has given me the tools to enjoy exercise, to enjoy the food I'm eating (both burgers AND salads!) but still be working towards my goals, and to avoid any sense of depriving myself or missing out. I've even started meditating! I love the macros approach to nutrition because I feel full, I can have lots of variety, I can enjoy the foods I love, and I feel like I know exactly what it will take to succeed.
Dara has helped me find a balance and build habits that I feel like I can maintain. In the past, I would focus on either fitness or nutrition and I would have a good run but then go back to old habits. Working with Dara keeps me accountable and motivated because 1) she really cares, 2) I actually enjoy everything I'm eating, 3) the workouts are varied and 4) the results are there! She's accessible by text and will send me recipe ideas that she knows I will like, grocery shopping tips, how to have a balanced approach to dining out or to a weekend away with friends, and even tips on how to handle my stress in healthy ways. Everything you need to succeed long term.
At the beginning of working together, one uptick on the scale felt devastating. She's also taught me to not put all my attention on that number. I've dropped a clothing size, I've noticed tone in my muscles, I feel stronger, and these are all wins that we celebrate. This is a huge change from anything I've done in the past and a healthier way of thinking. In a way, my mindset is the biggest thing Dara has helped me change--and the most powerful.
During quarantine, we've continued our workout sessions virtually and frankly it's helped me keep my sense of routine and my sanity. I purchased just a few pieces of equipment and I still feel challenged even though I'm working out from home!
If you're scared to start, if you've had bad past experiences with trainers who don't seem focused on your results, if you're OVER diets that force you to avoid foods you love or living your life, or if you just need some accountability from someone who truly cares about you and your goals, I highly recommend you work with Dara. Your body and your mind will thank you! read more