Dr. Highum is a very caring doctor. Listens carefully. He answers his calls and doesn't leave you…read morehanging. Very professional and caring doctor. I trust him with my life. Jeanette Cott

I've been going to Dr. Highum a little over 17 years and i will continue!! He's very nice,…read moreprofessional and i trust him completely!!!

I have visited with Dr. Hatherley from time to time over the last 25 years and have found his work…read moreto be incredibly useful. I have a Masters Degree in Clinical Psychology myself! Dr. Hatherley is NOT a Psychiatrist, as the previous review stated; that would require a medical component; rather, he is an exceptionally gifted Psychologist and Teacher. All of mankind is out there "trying to be happy" in a world that is growing more complex and demanding by the day. Few realize that happiness is a RESULT of leading a satisfying life. Dr. Hatherley has provided me with a sure and steady pathway of growth over the years which has resulted in a sense of satisfaction with my life. I met him at age 34; I am now 61. Dr. Hatherley does have a dry sense of humor which perhaps takes a little getting used to. It is intelligent humor and not designed to be belittling or rude at all and it comes from a caring heart. There is value in levity when dealing with life's serious issues. Perhaps this Renee C. may not have been ready to look at him/herself. In which case it's easier to to criticize the Doctor than take the medicine. Dr. Hatherley is a world class Psychologist who should be on PBS broadcasting. His work is unique and extraordinarily important. Kay G

This review has been overdue for a while as I went through a lot of the old cliche adage, "I did a…read morelot of soul searching" on whether to post something. I don't like giving bad reviews considering I did get a *few* good tips from Dr. Paul's insights. But given how much money I have spent on his services and finally now seeing clearly his methodology and preaching, I need to give an honest assessment incase others on here come across his psychiatry and they deserve to know what they're getting themselves into. I will start clearly stating that Dr. Paul is at most levels, a textbook psychiatrist. I'm not sure how much real life experience he has dealing with large groups of people on an intimate/real friendship level beyond his practice... as he even claims that he doesn't believe working in a corporation because he doesn't fit in that environment. That is scary considering I'm assuming many of his La Jolla clients are going to him to neander through the corporate ladders today, but that's just the tip of it... A lot what he talks about - and relays in his books (if you go into his group "class" sessions, you are required to do some reading) are purely conceptual and abstract ideas. I've gone to enough counselors to finally figure out that while these concepts may be profound to think about from a cognitive, rationalization viewpoint... how can one appropriately apply to real human beings? Much of his "teachings" are about meeting other people's needs, wants and understand in order to gain happiness. Yes, that is a basic principle in psychiatry, we all get that. But so much of what he talks about is so convoluted in not meeting or taking care of the self's own needs that this actually becomes co-dependent on making others happy first, you second. (very Confuciusism and he will say much of that he got was from his Eastern philosophy education) Instead, he will tell you that life's happiness will come largely from non-human pleasantries like nature, animals, hiking, music... which don't get me wrong, are nice to observe and temporarily fill in our empty void. But come on people, most of us don't live in the woods like John Muir.. we have real lives that involve being at a workplace, dealing with multiple personalities and real life challenges and scenarios. I felt like the reason I was going down WAS for the very reasons he was teaching and was growing frustrated that instead of hearing helpful advice, I was routinely being downsized, ridiculed or "put in my place." He talked about his other patients negatively when they weren't even there. This is how he operates his group sessions too: He goes around, takes apart every person's character defect (which hey, is okay if you want that) with much cynicism. Oh wait, cynicism is supposed to be funny! Several times I went in with hope in healing and finding understanding (which he preaches about and I understand), but I left.. feeling depleted, depressed and negative. More than that, I would often hear one thing and contradict himself the next: Be humble, don't be outstanding - yet he plastered photos of himself everywhere on his books. Right. I often left feeling negative about the world, negative about others, myself and hopes of elevating myself. Sure, I gained understanding... but I wasn't any happier. Therapists aren't supposed to do that to you... they're supposed to encourage you to get yourself back up, gain energy to seize your problems and move out of your hole. Instead, I felt like Dr. Paul wanted me to just keep coming back - as he would incidentally promote about his upcoming teaching sessions in hopes of me signing up. He actually refused to answer my questions saying that I did not have the knowledge to apply them into my daily life. Yeah, that's a bit f!#%'d up? Who's the paying customer here? I should've reported him to the BBB right then and there. I'm not a psychiatry major, but a friend of mine who is told me that Dr. Paul's own self-concept is so skewed (like many other therapists) and grand on himself. Therefore, he doesn't even know about his own problems and instead of nourishing me with the tools to empower myself, I felt belittled and resigned. Mind you, this is my opinion and my opinion only. If you are looking for someone who is has a pessimistic viewpoint of life (oh, excuse me... he says he's "realistic") - and to "tell you" how to think, then he's your guy. I don't know about you, but with all the baggage I've had in my past and given how tough work and real life can be many times over, I know notions like hope and optimism are key drivers for keeping me sane and hoping to improve my way of life. If you go into Dr. Paul's office with a shred of optimism, he will close your happiness in no time flat - and gladly insult you while at it.

Helping me help myself. All I have to do is show up. Discussing my life with a trained person is…read morevery effective especially in developing new ideas for the same old problems that persist. I believe Dr. Margaret Tess to be a necessity in my weekly routine.

I can't begin to express how much Dr. Stephen Tess has helped me in dealing with my anxieties of…read morelife. I am a TBI survivor. I had only had women Psychologist up until finding Dr. Tess, but after speaking to him on the phone I knew he was the right fit for me. He is so kind, patient, & so insightful. He really knows how to explain situations to me so I can look at them & apply them with whatever I may be experiencing at that time. I always walk out of his office feeling so much better & ready to take on another day! I am so grateful for all he has been able to help me with & look forward to the years ahead.

Review way overdue…read more I saw Dr Mihtar many years ago when I was going through a transition in life. I've seen many therapists, psychologists and would consider myself an experienced patient. Hands down he is one of the best and most skilled doctors around. He was extremely intuitive and can really change people's anxious and depressive thoughts very quickly. Since he's a psychiatrist/MD and a very very experienced one at that, his rates reflect the level of his experience. He does take insurance which is great. My my opinion he was worth every dime. Highly recommend!

Dr. Mithar is an excellent therapist and skilled clinician. He pinpoints the problem(s) and has…read moresugguestions to help with coping skills and life management. He is personable and can quickly assess situations that need to be addressed. He prescribes medications wisely and doesn't over-medicate his patients. It's a real pleasure working with Dr. Mithar!

I can't speak to the kind of doctor he is but after being denied care because I am over the age of…read more70, that speaks volumes to me. The problem with our society is that we throw away our elderly and do not give them the respect that they deserve. I think that all people regardless of age should have a right to a happy healthy life...ageism is rampant.

Dr. Sivtsov is extremely patient, honest, and knowledgeable. Went through three psychiatrists…read morebefore him to treat depression to no avail, but under his careful guidance we were able to find the right treatment within a month. He might not be the perfect fit for everyone but he is very good at what he does and truly listens to the patient and their needs.

Ignore the one negative review. Dumb. Two sides to every story and has nothing to do with her care…read more Tina has a heart of gold and I've been seeing her for over a decade now. I wouldn't have the life or success I have without her and of course her giving me the tools to do the hard work and self reflection. She is a gem and I was on the search for many years for someone like her. Her therapy not only includes talk, but mind and body so you can understand how to control thoughts and feelings instead of reacting to them. Thank you Tina so much! I would recommend her to anyone and in fact I have and she has friends of mine as patients.

Tina has helped me for many years with anxiety and relationship issues. I have always had a…read morepositive and professional experience as well as good results.

Sean is a true professional, knowledgable and a very talented therapist. He has had a meaningful/…read morepositive impact on my life and he is a wonderful therapist . I highly recommend his services.

Sean helped me get a great start into hypnosis. Never did it, was skeptical as to hypnotherapy's…read moretrue potential on me since I'd never been hypnotized but decided to give it a go. This guy's good at what he does and I learned some great hypnosis techniques and pain management info. I eventually stumbled onto self hypnosis because I couldn't (still can't) drive myself safely to see him. The 3 or 4 sessions I did with him made it possible so definitely time and money well spent.

Dr. Linder is a truly compassionate and gifted therapist. I did EMDR a few years ago and while it…read morewas helpful, it did not help the PTSD as I'd hoped it would. Working with Dr. Linder has been a completely different experience. Mostly, I am no longer reacting in a trauma based way. My life has become so much more full and happy. I have incredibly deep gratitude for Dr. Linder. I would highly recommend him to anyone suffering and in need of EMDR.

I have worked with Jason for several years and he is an exceptional therapist. He is professional,…read moreempathetic, and highly effective in the help he provides. He creates a safe and supportive environment to feel heard and validated. I highly recommend Dr. Linder to anyone seeking relief.