Working with Patty Spravale through Doula Love was one of the greatest gifts of my pregnancy and birth experience. Although she was completing her student-doula requirements when we began working together, she was a student only in title. She was exceptionally knowledgeable, prepared, intuitive, and professional. Even my midwife commented on how skilled and supportive Patty was and was genuinely surprised to learn that she was still completing her training.
Patty consistently went above and beyond. During our prenatal visits, she was patient, fully present, and never made me feel rushed, even when our conversations extended beyond the scheduled time. She also spent hours supporting me by phone and text while I worked through difficult decisions about induction and my birth plan. She listened without judgment, helped me understand my options and formulate important questions, and gave me the confidence to trust my instincts. Her knowledge of anatomy, movement, positioning, and physical support techniques made her guidance especially practical and effective.
During approximately 18 hours of unmedicated labor followed by another 10 hours with an epidural, Patty was phenomenal. She stayed by my side, continually put my needs first, and remained fully attentive even when it meant getting almost no sleep herself. She took initiative without needing to be directed, helping with breathing, massage, movement, labor positions, the bath, food, hydration, and creating a peaceful environment. She also guided my husband and mother in how to support me. Patty worked beautifully with the medical team--always kind, humble, and respectful, while remaining a calm and strong advocate for me.
Although my birth did not ultimately go according to my original plan and ended in a C-section, Patty helped me achieve what mattered most to me. She helped me try every reasonable option, experience the labor process I had hoped for, and make each decision feeling informed and supported. Because of her, I was not left wondering, "What if I had tried something else?" I knew I had done my best, explored every possibility, and had someone firmly advocating for me throughout. That gave me a sense of peace and closure I did not have after my first birth, and I came away genuinely happy with my experience despite the unexpected outcome. Patty has the rare ability to combine warmth and tenderness with confidence, initiative, sound judgment, and professionalism. I recommend her without hesitation. Any family would be incredibly fortunate to have Patty by their side, and Doula Love should be extremely proud of the doula she has become. read more