We had a scheduled induction on March 9, 2022 at 1 am. We confirmed our appointment via MyChart App and arrived at 1 am. We had also called to confirm that we were allowed 2 support persons and doula. The security guard took our temperatures and verified my two support persons COVID19 vaccination cards. We left our car parked at the front waiting area while we checked in. The Birthing suites are on the first floor to the left of the entrance which makes it easy to go in and out for any items left in the car. Upon arrival and before being checked in we had to sign admission and payment paperwork. Our nurse came out to get us about 15 minutes after arrival.
We recorded the entire process with our GoPro except record/photograph any employees. When she took us in to our room we made ourselves comfortable and set up baby's crib, dad's resting area, my moms area, and placed our snacks and my electrolyte drinks in the fridge. Per our doula fruits, protein bars, and electrolyte/hydrating drinks were recommended during labor and delivery. The nurses nor my doctor wanted me to have a heavy or full meal to avoid any complications later during active labor.
I came in at stage -3/ 0 % effaced/ .5 centimeters and 37 weeks 3 days pregnant. We gave the nurses a thank you box full of goodies and our birth plan. During labor & delivery the nurses explained the methods of induction and what they were going to do next. They were extremely respectful of my decisions, caring, and empathetic. We started with cytotec, proceeded with a foley balloon, and eventually with pitocin. They did not Insist on an epidural they simply mentioned that if I needed one to be conscientious of the time it takes to administer. I ended up getting an epidural after 20 hours in labor and had my baby within 20 mins of having an epidural! The gentleman who administered was gentle and explained every step of the process. I did not feel a single thing and it was the best thing I could have asked for. I wanted to have a less invasive induction and a positive induction experience. Which was achieved! I delivered a safe and healthy baby by 10 pm.
We had a celebratory meal for mom and dad the following day. We also enjoyed their tea service every afternoon. I had overly packed my bags with perineal care but the hospital provided all of that there. Like so, diapers and baby clothing are provided by the hospital. During labor I used their peanut and birthing ball. I had purchased robes, that I ended up not using. Their robes were pretty comfy and different than other hospital robes.
The next day, we were moved from the first floor to the 6th floor because they needed to make space for incoming moms. This is when my entire experience went down hill. If I could rate it as a 0 stars, I would but the wonderful delivery experience downstairs deserves to be recognized. Mrs. Foss, Courtney, Sherry, etc were nurturing and amazing during my labor.
The nurses upstairs were not as professional, empathetic, nor friendly. We had to wait 2 days to get a car seat challenge because our baby was born on the small side. We had a nurse mention that we're not going to be able to go home again for the 3rd day because they didn't have anyone to conduct the assessment. They were going to do air for a NICU child to be discharged for my baby to be assessed. I found it infuriating that the other NICU nurses could take care of other children but couldn't conduct a 90 min screening on my child. This was the only assessment needed so we can go home.
Our discharge (Caucasian) nurse made a microaggressive comment that I found absolutely inappropriate and unnecessary. My baby had jaundice and she said, "since she doesn't have perfect fair skin like mine you can't see the jaundice." We are Hispanic and have pigmented skin complexion, yet that doesn't mean we can't see our baby's yellowish skin complexion due to jaundice. That unconscious and insensitive comment was absurd and bigoted.
We hope that after the hospital sees this comment they offer multicultural training to their employees to promote a more inclusive and diverse environment like Hoag Newport and the city we live in, Irvine. read more