I want to recognize several incredible staff members at Heritage Oaks who made a genuine difference…read moreduring a very difficult time in my life.
Most importantly, MHT Ruth. Ruth has such a grounded perspective on life and a natural ability to lead with both strength and compassion. She was a calming voice when so many of us were dealing with anxiety and other struggles. I still do not understand how she could work back-to-back shifts and continue showing up with that level of patience and care, but she did. She paid attention to every patient and somehow knew when someone needed reassurance, guidance, or simply a steady presence. She is a beautiful soul and an exceptional MHT.
MHT Diane was incredibly kind, attentive, and supportive. Her warmth mattered, especially on the difficult days.
Nurse Kristine was one of the most empathetic nurses I encountered. She genuinely cared about how her patients were feeling, not simply what needed to be checked off for the day.
And Nurse Naz -- I will forever remember Naz. Naz's attitude was basically: get well, take your meds, we have things to do. Naz could be responsible for what felt like half the unit and somehow stay completely on top of everything. I genuinely do not remember Naz ever forgetting a medication request. They even stepped outside the usual nursing role at times to help with things like taking us to lunch when the MHTs were busy. Naz personally discharged me, which made that moment especially meaningful. And yes, I absolutely noticed the fashionable outfits. Whenever Naz came back on shift and said, "Allie, I'm your nurse," there was a tiny internal squeal of excitement because I knew I was in good hands.
Social Work Intern Kim was also wonderful. She was thoughtful, encouraging, kind, and inspiring. Finding out she was working toward a second master's degree made me admire her even more. Somebody hire Kim already.
And I especially want to recognize floating Nurse Marina. The level of compassion she brought onto the unit was extraordinary. Marina was BUSY, and somehow she never made patients feel as though she was too busy for them. She listened. She noticed what people needed. She showed up. She cared for every patient with patience and empathy. She is incredibly beautiful on the outside and somehow even more beautiful on the inside. Her willingness to care so deeply meant more to many of us than she probably realizes, and that was remarkable.
Inpatient psychiatric care happens during an incredibly vulnerable period in someone's life, and the people caring for you during that time matter. These staff members treated us like human beings and helped make an extremely difficult experience feel safer and more manageable.
And for the record, I am VERY happy to be home . I still have dark moments and my brain is absolutely still doing its little nonsense sometimes, but I'm sleeping, taking my medications as prescribed, using my coping skills, and doing the whole "functioning human being" situation. Apparently this is what getting back to normal feels like I'm grateful for everyone who helped me get here, but respectfully, I am NOT trying to earn another stay. Catch me running
deeply grateful, medically compliant, emotionally reflective... and also absolutely not trying to renew the membership
From,
Allie 2Wessst