Adopting an animal as a new family member is an exciting, but also very emotional and sometimes stressful experience. Just like having a human baby, there is a great deal of anticipation, expectation, and dreams about what a perfect pet and perfect adoption experience will be.
Now, let's get to reality -- adopting a pet is not easy, and the process is time consuming and difficult, but in the end, it's worth the effort. We adopted an adult dog from JR Pups and Stuff, and while it took a lot of time and energy, in the end, it was absolutely wonderful. If you are certain that your family is ready to commit to adopting an animal family member, then I absolutely recommend that you check out JR's Pups and Stuff.
JR's has specific rules for adoptions and a clear process. First, you fill out and submit a written application. The agency will check with your veterinarian and if applicable, your landlord. Our application got stuck during this process, as our indoor cat had not been to the vet recently. So after waiting a while, I called and emailed JRs to see how things were going and was told that it was the vet check that had stalled the process. I contacted our vet, got our cat up-to-date and then we were approved for a home visit.
I was *nervous* about our home visit, but it was fine. We met with Terri, a wonderful volunteer, who reviewed a lot of information about dogs and adoptions. I was concerned that JR's might be picky about our (fairly average) home or (unfenced) yard and I really shouldn't have worried at all, they were very nice, easy to work with and reassuring.
Next, we received an email that our application was approved. I sent in an email requesting to meet several dogs, maybe 5 or 6. This was a little odd for us, but I only head back from one foster about one of the dogs. So we visited, and... as it turns out we only needed to meet that dog. :) She is now, my dog! But, I am not sure why I did not hear back on the other dogs -- perhaps the volunteers were busy or other applicants were ahead of us. So, just be aware that patience and persistence are required during the entire adoption process. If we had really wanted to meet additional dogs, I feel like I may have needed to be proactive about making those requests and following-up to get the meetings set up. Once you are approved, don't be shy about connecting with JR's to request meetings, but be patient while the volunteers are working on scheduling with you.
We ended up finding our dog quickly after approval, but... it might be a better strategy to get approved as an adopter, and then take your time with the meet and greets and wait to see the new dogs coming in for adoption. JR's will get groups of new animals at a time, and if you are looking for a certain breed or personality, it might benefit you to wait for an animal that really fits your family's adoption criteria and needs. Do set your criteria! We wanted an adult dog, already potty trained, and with very good indoor manners, that was not aggressive to cats, and our dog truly fits that description.
Note that JR's breed descriptions are typically just guesses. JRs has an extensive network of fostering volunteers, who really get to observe the dogs within a home environment and see their strengths and weaknesses. Some dogs will even benefit from some training while in foster care.
The foster volunteers ultimately decide who may adopt the dog, and it is their responsibility to determine if the animal and the family are a great long-term match. Our dog's foster was extremely careful and met us three times to ensure that we were the right fit. Everyone at JRs wants successful adoptions, not returns (which are heartbreaking for everybody).
Let's talk about the adjustment period after adoption -- it was not easy! Our family had never owned a dog before, and so having a new creature in the house was exciting but stressful. We enrolled her in training at Think Pawsitive (excellent - I will review them soon) and I can see why the first few months with a new dog are so hard. A huge life change. It is important to understand this going in so that you are ready to commit to the animal and work through challenges and new routines as you bond with your new family member. It will be difficult and requires patience. Our dog's foster was supportive and helped us with questions during this time. We also found training very valuable. Over time we learned how to be good dog owners, and our dog learned to be part of our family.
This is long -- but I hope it helps you if you consider adopting a rescue animal. JR's is a good organization and as long as you are patient they are wonderful to work with. Best wishes! read more