We will be filing a formal complaint to the health department after last nights fiasco. My fiancé has a history of anxiety and panic disorder, however he is treating it on his own time with his own therapist/psychologist. Yesterday afternoon, (3/6/2022) around 3pm, I dropped him off to be checked out over a reoccurring fever, nausea, and just general flu like symptoms. This was not the first time this week he went to Mid Hudson's ER over the same symptoms. Each time, they have diagnosed him with something else and provided 0 results or answers. One nurse, gabby, severely dropped the ball on this one. Around 7pm, he calls me frantically to please come to the hospital. They made me wait 3 hours to see him and kept telling me I couldn't. The woman at the registration desk is one of the most incompetent people I've ever seen. She told me my fiancé wasn't even in the hospital and that she couldn't help me. She followed up later with I'm just not allowed to see him. Nobody provided me an answer as to why. At the 3rd hour, she told me to just wait and someone will be with me... nobody was for another hour. Finally, one nurse dragged me back to a psych area where I see they have stripped my fiancé of all his belonging and have him in a blue paper suit. For hours we begged for an answer as to why he's in this unit over a fever. Their answers were all different. He went from being a "flight risk" to "self danger". In all of ours years together, he has never expressed any desire to harm himself or others. He never expressed leaving the hospital. He just wanted his blood work to find the cause of this never ending fever. Nurse Nina threatened him stating "we can do this the easy way, and you sit and wait, or we can do this the hard way and security will come restrain and sedate you". Pretty noble claim to make to a man who shouldn't be there in the first place. Nurse hani was the only competent individual trying to get answers. We were placed in a room Hani was in charge of and staff scolded him for speaking with us... it was his department. Hani was the only one vouching for answers as to why my fiancé was in this situation.
I was advised to speak to gabby in regards to this situation since everyone claimed she was the reason we were here. Upon my discovery, she went home and I was approached by nurse Lisa. This woman needs her RN license revoked. What a husk of a miserable being. She asked who I was and when I stated fiancé she scoffed in my face and said "that means nothing legally". After asking what the issue was, she proceeded to lie about the admission and followed up with "he was throwing himself on the floor saying he was dying, you tell me where he should be". This was out of line and never happened. She proceeded to claim his fever and flu symptoms are results of his anxiety and shoo'd me away with her hand. I was shocked and appalled. Finally we demanded a supervisor and expressed the situation, she also told us we had to stay until a psychiatrist was in, this could be 24-48 hours. They were holding my fiancé against his will over a mistake one of their nurses made. I got my lawyer on my phone and expressed the situation... suddenly the supervisor was eager for answers and managed to get him a psychiatric appointment within the hour. Even the psychiatrist questioned why he was there and immediately stated to let him go. Suddenly Nina was bringing us water and snacks, completely changing her attitude the second legal action was mentioned. It took us another hour for them to get his items together, since they took everything, went through his bag, and dispersed the contents among 4 different departments. Even as we were leaving, a doctor claimed to have called me and asked why I didn't call back. I showed rhem my phone records and she followed up with, and I quote, "oh! I put you down for the wrong person. Oh well, someone else must've gotten the voicemail." How dangerous and incompetent. That's a very very lethal mistake to make when speaking about psychiatric care.
However, nobody would provide the full name of this gabby person who got us into this mess in the beginning. They are hiding something, there is a very deep unethical vibe to this building. Nobody communicates. We will be filing to the state department against everybody involved in the manor for mishandling of information, lack of proper service, incompetent handling of sensitive material, lack of information, unprofessional behavior, and many more. What happened to us last night was an eye opener that this facility need to be heavily investigated. read more