NO MATTER HOW MANY DIFFERENT NAMES YOU USE YOU ARE THE SAME FRAUDULENT COMPANY This company is a complete fraud. I'm in the middle of legal actions and will invite anyone who wants to join me To begin with, Iris who interviewed me made so many promises verbally and then they denied it and made me look like I misunderstood everything. They don't find you matches according to your wants, they just throw anyone at you for the sake of the contract. They completely lied to my bank that I denied the introduction while the person was not even available. Thankfully I saved their voicemail and proof to show in court. PLEASE BE AWARE AND DONT GET FOOLED BY THEIR FANTASTIC MARKETING ABILITY TO SELL YOU LIES. I hope I'm saving at least one person from getting trapped. read more

I found out that this company has been sued several times and settle. So for those of you who been scammed there is a chance to get your hard earned money back Good luck read more

Paid $600 per introduction.. Bought 6. 4 were way outside the parameters I set. $2400 wasted.

I want a refund of the over $8000 I paid in March. I have mostly worked with Larry and he doesn't return phone calls in a timely manner. They don't seem to be able to find appropriate matches. Only 3 matches since beginning of March and 2 of the 3 matches were older than my criteria. Does THIS sound like a special service to you. Would this be worth $8000 to you?? Don't use this service read more

Don't ever give this company your money. They are scam artists. Rosie from this office scammed me out of $4300 and I never received another phone call from her. She was so charming and made me feel safe. She was working in the OKC office and the first match I was set up on was with a MARRIED man! Never heard from matchmakers again and they do NOT issue refunds. I was totally scammed as embarrassing as that is. . HORRIBLE COMPANY!!!!! They should be ashamed! Where is BBB and why haven't they been put out of business! read more

matchmakers is one good way to find your match, I've been on 4 different matches all were nice guys. I am currently working with Brie, she's a sweetheart has always been very polite and professional and I believe she is working hard on finding me my match! Thanks Brie for all your time and effort! so I'm a fan! I would like to add i think what makes matching difficult, is deciphering client information, example; those people who say they enjoy/like... camping, horses back riding, canoeing and haven't done it in several years verses those people who are actually doing what they enjoy/like. this seemingly small difference can make or break a match because people change. just my experience. Brie you go girl! read more

I have had very positive experiences with Matchmakers. Everyone I have met so far has been very nice, interesting and looking for that special someone. It is a delicate balance finding that person who shares the same interests and values as yourself and does not happen over night. I have not met my special someone yet but I am hopeful and still looking. read more

Just signed up for the service. I'm still new to it, but so far I like it. The staff member that signed me up was honest about the cost, and didn't try to push anything on me. My first date was with a very attractive, intelligent woman, and my second date is upcoming. There is a real value to the service. Someone who isn't serious isn't going to go through the background checks, the interview, pay the cost, etc. So it tends to filter out those who are dont want to put in the work, right from the start. Looking forward to seeing where it takes me. read more

I agree that the personnel are friendly. The recruiter was amazing, but she did what salespeople do - exaggerate. She said I would receive a referral every 3-4 weeks, and it MIGHT on occasion be 8 weeks. It has been 8 months and I've had 4 referrals. Just PLEASE take the contract home and read it carefully. They don't guarantee anything. You could get one referral a year, and that's not guaranteed.. I got one right away, awful, and then I read the contract. You can't cancel for any reason after the first referral. I found that when I call after 2 months to complain, they miraculously have someone for me. I admit I'm not a catch, but I was assured that there would be no problem finding referrals for me. And a referral means when you talk to them, not when you have a date. Would not do it again. read more

If possible I would give a negative rating. The "matches" they identified for me would have been laughable if I had not given them my $$. I'm a Christian; a match was an atheist. I'm a professional with a doctorate; a match was a sanitation engineer. Initially, I was interviewed for hours; one of the matches was a new widower (as in his wife died the previous week) who spent his days at his wife's gravesite. The first match was an intelligent but closeted gay man (he revealed to me that he only dated to make his family think he was seeking marriage to a woman). My complaints about giving me erroneous information to get me to accept the "dates" were met with defensiveness and ridiculous excuses. After the contact ended, a representative had the audacity to call asking me to sign a new contract and give me verbal assurance that they would be professional in the matches next time. Please do not give these folks your $$. Save yourself the grief! read more

I've only been with Oklahoma Singles for a few months, but so far the experience has been terrific. After dating online for a few years - and hating every minute of it - this has been such a welcomed surprise. I'm meeting a different class of people, and the best part is they have been matched to me. Gianni, my Personal Matchmaker, has been very understanding and diligent. She has gotten to know me and what I'm looking for in life and a partner. I can't wait to see who I get to meet next. I recommend Oklahoma Singles to anyone who is tired of online dating or tired of sitting home without the opportunity to meet a great selection of people. read more

I'm a very intelligent person, but I had a bad experience with a dating web site in which I was almost scammed out of $7K dollars and had my life threatened. Because of that, I will never do online dating again. I just joined Oklahoma Singles a couple of weeks ago and had my first date the next weekend. I was skeptical, but knew that if someone was willing to invest in finding a match, they would be serious about it. I met my first date and was immediately impressed. We went on a second date the next day. We are looking forward to spending more time together. I love that the service does a background check. You can't get that with online dating. Plus, the service knows who you are with which provides more security. Gianni, my contact, is very responsive and friendly. If you are really serious about meeting someone, this is the way to go! read more

WOW! I was married 30 years and thought this would be the safest way to get reintroduced into the dating pool. I was impressed with the initial interview - very thorough, but I didn't feel like I was being "grilled" or judged in any way. The background check is great! THat alone, helped weed out the scammers and potential crazies. Upon signing up, their handout reiterates a lot of common sense and safety issues. I just had my first date. They were very close, but not quite....but, that's ok. The ice is broken and the butterflies in the stomach are flying in formation. The staff seems very knowledgeable and friendly. They seem to want the best for their clients. I'm looking forward to continuing this journey and finding a mate for this next phase in my life! read more

They have been nothing but kind and generous. You get what you pay for! You can't PAY for chemistry! But you can invest into you're love life. And get great results if you are realistic! read more

I couldn't be more happy with the outcome of my membership! I will say this service takes patience but I followed my gut and found a great guy! There were some instances that there were delays in my matches but everyone I every spoke with was polite and professional. I had 2 bad dates but that was not my matchmaker's fault and she was able to find my Mr. Right! My advice, be patient because what they do does work! read more

Someone called me from this service and insisted I had filled out their online application. She even went so far as to essentially call me a liar when I told her I had not. Instead of listeming to me and taking me off her list she insisted I must be "shy". Well I am neither shy nor am I a liar. I have been married for over 50 years and my husband is still very much alive. I would certainly never use this service even if I were looking. read more

My interview at first was going well as I was filling out my profile. My interviewer assured me there were a lot of men in the area that would fit my criteria. As I tried to read over the contract, he then told me if I signed that day, he would take off $500.00 of the sign-up price of $2500.00. He continued with what I believed to be high pressure sales tactics. I was cute, personable, intelligent, no problem finding matches. Also, he mentioned, that he had another appointment in an hour. So, yes in my haste I signed the contract with only a minimal review of it. My first match came the beginning of August 2019. The man named Al was seven years older than me, I asked for no more than 5. On our coffee date I discovered he was extremely liberal, I'm conservative. Long hair ponytail, I asked for no ponytails, scruffy beard. I was told he had a PhD and was a consultant. No PhD, nor did he consult. My second date on or about the 8th of August 2019 was again, to my surprise, not close to what I was looking for. A nice man, but then again, liberal, had health issues to which he walked around the state park where we met with walking sticks. The terrain was flat. Date number three mid-August 2019 was a nice man, however - 8 years older. After two months on October 29, 2019, date number four. Another nice man just no real connection. After each "date" I filled out the requested questionnaire and promptly sent it in. A possible match on Dec 3, 20219, nope, lived over 30 miles away, another lived 50 miles away. When mentioned by my matchmaker that I could relocate, um, at age 67, no. I mentioned that in my interview at the office. Mid-December I received a call from a girl named Shonday. She offered me a premiere membership for an additional $700.00. Telling her of my disappointment, her only comment was that things slow down over the holidays. I asked what exactly was a "premier" membership? I'm now getting sub-standard dates no one else wants? She danced around the answer as to what exactly this premier membership was versus what I had. To my surprise, last week during a conversation with Emily, I have a trial membership. When asked what that means, Emily also, shall we say danced around the answer. There is nothing in the contract that states a "trial membership". On Jan 17, 2020, Emily called with a match named Luke. Again, after expressing my disappointment with this company and asking for a refund, I reluctantly agreed to this. After a five day wait, he never called, and I contacted Emily. Again, asking for a refund for my three introductions. She continued with her sales pitch and informed me that my match even though he didn't call would be counted against the seven that I paid for (it's in the contract). I informed Emily that I would no longer be interested in this company and insisted that I still receive a refund. With-in ten minutes of ending the conversation, I received an email wanting me to confirm that I wanted my membership to be put on hold. I replied that was not correct and I wanted a refund. This morning Mar 9, 2020 at 9:50 a.m. I called Luke. We are given the matches phone numbers to recognize when they call. I told him about my membership concerns. I asked him if he was contacted about me and had he been given my information? He said he was contacted; however, he had no intentions to call me because he had requested the week before to have his membership put on hold! So why would I be charged with an introduction that never was? I emailed Emily about this today. A total waste of time and money, shame on me. read more

Tell me, Oklahoma Singles - does it give you genuine pleasure knowing you have taken an unimaginable sum of money from a trusting and loving albeit lonely soul whose days are now spent in misery, despair and deep regret over how he thought you could make a beneficial change in his life, and instead is out an unbelievable amount of money? Is this how you choose to conduct your business and treat your clients? read more

They fail to provide the services they verbally claim to provide in the initial sales process. They say they will provide a match every 8 to 12 weeks until you meet your match or until your "purchased" matches (I purchased 16 matches) are expended. Two years into this ridiculous process and they have provided me with five names all of which occurred in the first 10 months. I have heard from them twice in the last twelve months but they never had a confirmed match for me. That is almost 14 months without a single match, certainly NOT the 2 to 3 months they verbally discussed during the sales process. The service is highly deceptive and a waste of a large sum of money. Their contract does not match the verbal description of the service. This is definitely false advertising. Believe the complaints filed with the Better Business Bureau. read more

Foolishly signed up before doing my homework on the company. Later when I took the time noticed several of Google reviews seemed fake because they were within a few months of each other and the reviews were way to positive. In addition, the reviews on Yelp were poor as well as a decent number of Better Business Bureau complaints. Signed up on a Thursday afternoon. Wanted my money back within 3 days after the research, called over the weekend to cancel but kept getting told I needed to talk to Megan. Never sent my personality information into the firm, all they did was a background check on me. That is all. By that Monday was finally able to speak to Megan and she informed me I was only entitled to a half refund, because of the "Contract". I get that I signed the contract, however, if a business has to lean on contract law protection to keep a customer's money who has not even used the service and was a "member" for only a few days and then he wanted out, this is a terribly negative sign for the business and the services it provides. I can understand receiving only half if I had actually gone on at least one date or even a few weeks went by. However, I wanted my money back within a few days. This is bad business practice, to keep customer money. A business should lean on its services to make happy customer and make money, not lean on contract law. I was informed that if I had actually asked to have the cancelation fee stricken from the contact I could have, but I was stupid enough not to do that. So the firm can and will give you a full refund within a certain time frame if you ask for it at the time of the contract signing. Also, the firm could have tried to find out why I was so uncomfortable with the service all of a sudden and figured out a way to make me happy and keep me as a member. In my case, I have come to the conclusion that they will "match" you with whoever might be available and maybe somewhat what you are looking for. Very unprofessional read more

This is a scam and will scam on newly single dads via burials of their spouses. They set you up with an individual in which you are told one thing and then when you meet the person, it is additionally wrong. read more

rude - I was called by Tiffany and she wanted me to join. I told her I was more inter sted in Chinese ladies because I was wanting someone younger. She called me a pervert and hung up the phone on me. Any club that treats their first contact with me like this , is not a club I want to join. Stay away from this club! read more

Everything starts out well they treat you really well the first month or two. After that you rarely hear from them unless you call them and then they say they will call back and nothing so I would be very careful about paying them the amount of money they want, it's no different than dating online. For $6,000 you can go set yourself up a web page and get a whole lot more attention than these people send you read more

Biggest waste of money and time, ever. After the first match which they stated would not be fitting my profile, but was necessary to identify what I was looking for, it took 4 weeks and several calls before a second Match was arranged. However, this match was already planning on leaving the state. Another month and many phone calls later, and they still didn't have anyone for me to see. They frequently didn't answer or return calls, either (other than their clueless central office). So, save your money and go to Match.com... read more

They also have a business set up on Oklahoma City. They lore you in and fail to tell you about the cancelation policy in fine print. Then after they get a good sum of money from you they forget about you. It took 3 months and me contacting them to get one date. This business is terrible. Please don't waste your time and money. I could have joined 50 dating sites for the price and had 20 times better results. Very disappointed read more

Although the matchmakers Jess and Lorena were very nice and friendly, I have been very disappointed with my matches, as I have not been matched with anyone I would want to date on an ongoing basis much less marry. I had a lot of hope for this service as it is so high priced and promises such good results, but I would not recommend it to anyone. Try Eharmony, Ourtime or Christian Mingle! read more

SAVE YOUR $$$$! OKLAHOMA SINGLES IS A SCAM! I joined Oklahoma Singles in March of 2014. I was 61 at the time and look 10 years younger. I have a Ph.D. in the humanities and many cultural interests. When I signed on, I directly asked would they have matches for my demographic and interests. They assured me they did. It's been a total bust. It's now April 2015, and I have not had a single match. If you're like me, save your money. The contract is written so they have no obligation to you whatsoever. I'm sure all their sales reps work on commission . . . thus the misleading information. read more

Have been working with Gianni and feel she is really helpful and trying to find me the right person. I have met nothing but very lovely ladies just not "the one" quite yet. read more

Brie is my matchmaker for this dating site. Although I've not found Mr. Right as of yet, Brie is very involved and is actively looking for a good match for me. I recommend this service to someone that is serious to find a partner in life. read more

I am very pleased with my experience with Oklahoma Singles. The matchmakers are friendly and seem to have my best interests at heart. I have only just begun but no need to feel anything but hopeful in light with my first meeting with the gentleman they chose for my first trip into the dating world. read more

Wonderful way to meet people. Allows you to meet people outside your usual circle of friends.

I have to say I am very disappointed in my results with this service. My matches were really no better than what you can find on any other dating website, free or otherwise. Considering the large sum of money spent, I regret signing up. The staff is very kind and friendly, but that doesn't really matter if the results are not there. Maybe this service would work better for the younger crowd (I am in the over 50 group). read more

A caveat before starting: I have not signed up for their service. And have no plans to. The one-star review is for the rudeness I have encountered from their phone solicitations. A few months ago, I received a card in the mail advertising a dating site, brokenarrowsingles DOT org. I went to the website, thinking this was going to be a more locally focused version of, say, OKCupid, but after entering my information, I learned that this was a matchmaking site that had human intervention to make matches instead. I do not have a problem with this, but due to 50+ hour work weeks and a second shift schedule, I rarely have the time to schedule a meeting with a matchmaker in person, so I waited for the call from the matchmaker and explained that I had filled out the online form expecting something different, and was not interested in their services. The person on the other end of the call started to exert some rather high-pressure sales techniques to get me to change my mind, but I maintained a steady mantra of "No thank you" and finished the phone call. I assumed this would be the end of it. I was mistaken. Since that initial phone call, I have received between one and four calls per week from this company to inquire when I plan to schedule my initial meeting, and I have to start from the beginning explaining that I am not interested in their services, and put up with several iterations of "How do you know you aren't interested, since you haven't tried it yet?" questions before the salespeople will relent. Today, however, came the call that prompted me to write this review. A while back, after the first week of these phone calls, I'd done my due diligence, checked online reviews, did some research on the company, and contacted a few people that had posted reviews, asked them a few questions about their experiences, and came to the conclusion that this service was, indeed, not for me. Today I received a phone call from another of their salespeople, told them that I had, long ago, attempted to tell several of their salespeople I was not interested, and instead of simply replying "Oh, I'm sorry, and I'll take your name off our call list," like I had hoped for, the salesperson proceeded to ask why I was not interested, and when I said that I had read reviews and talked to a few people that used the service and found that it was not for me, I was met with a "Well, then, what's the name of our company?", followed by a few more rather interrogative questions. Full disclosure: I could not directly answer the stated question, as I was at work and did not have access to my home computer where I kept the file I had made months ago, could not recall the exact name of the company or affiliate, and felt that answering the question even slightly incorrectly would result in further hostility from the salesperson. In summary, I can not recommend, or see myself, spending money on a company that treats potential customers as rudely as they have treated me, since if they are this rude to me now, how rude would they be after I'd taken that treatment and given them money for it? read more

If you are thinking of joining, I recommend NOT. I believe this service to be a fraudulent endeavor. I can also report that not one person i have met through the service has been satisfied with it either. read more