Went into secret desires, wasn't quite sure about what item I wanted to get. Izzy (blue hair) was fantastic!! She really helped me pick the perfect toys for me and my partner!! She also was very careful and considerate when referring to my partner, who is genderqueer! The selection was the best I've ever seen when being in any sex store!!! Had the best experience :))) read more

They always seem to be closed - hours say until 10pm on Saturday's. I arrived at 6:47pm - store was closed. Have yet to go in because this is the second time now. Online and door say the same hours do not sure what's yup. read more

This place is amazing. It's my go to stop. The Management are very professional and kind. The products are amazing and range from amateur to experienced. The employees know their stuff and there is a fun rewards program. Thank you for also helping me with my earlier purchase:) read more

They have a great variety of choices for many of ones needs. Everyone that works there seem so happy it makes you smile and be in a happy Mood. They are helpful & Friendly but the best, they aren't in your face pushy sale clerks. Great prices, great selection. Pretty much an all around great place read more

Hmm.... I'll start with the positive points about the store Huge selection of items, tons of things to choose from. Covers a lot of interesting fetish & cute and local to the neighborhood The products all seem like they have very good quality and the price point is normal. I wouldn't say that they are gouging price points or anything like that. However, the girl that was there while I was working, I kind of had a situation with, and she was actually really bitchy and made me feel so upset that I cried in my car once I left There is products throughout the store that are unboxed next to the same or similar items that are boxed, and I just thought that you were able to look at things because they are all different shapes colors and sizes and I wanted to get a closer idea of what I was looking at so I opened a box and then she came over and was like yelling at me saying how you're not allowed to open the boxes and that there's signs everywhere saying that you can't open the boxes, but I honest to God did not see a single sign in there partially because it's a really vulnerable and awkward experience if you're not comfortable with that kind of stuff or it can be, and I felt really embarrassed that she came over and approached me in the way that she did and how she spoke to me in the tone that she used I explained to her that I was confused that the box really easily opened and that I had no idea that you weren't allowed to look at the product and that I would buy it if I had to, even though it seemed ridiculous and like you could just literally close the face of the product it opens like a book I can post a picture I just don't know if it's appropriate. But anyway, it just sucks because they had such a good selection and I would consider really going to the store often. However, after that experience, I'm dealing with her now I don't really ever wanna see her face again lol it just was really uncomfortable and like I said, it made me cry, and I hope that the owners to see this and taken to account that some of their employees should be a little softer with their approach, considering that they are working in a very vulnerable Store, where people are not always the most confident and don't know really what they are looking for and it can be an overwhelming experience to be in that type of a environment, and it can feel uncomfortable and that I think the store employee should be a little more sensitive and kind She had long dark hair and more fake blue contacts over her dark brown eyes I just felt like a child leaving the store like I just gotten scolded by an adult and it just wasn't a sexy experience for a "sex shop" lol Honestly, don't even care if I have to drive extra 30 minutes to Hollywood I was so embarrassed. I don't think I'll ever go back and I got a coupon on my receipt so that sucks. read more

I needed a last min lingerie set for a dance performance since Amazon didn't deliver in time. There's not a ton to select from but I ended up with a really cute set. The other one had issues and the owner was super kind and helpful in getting it resolved, so Jasmine gave amazing service and relieved my stress. I was able to get 50% off pleasers which is a killer deal and she has a lot! Most are 6" so I'm able to wear mine out to events! I will definitely return, mention you are a performer, this business loves performers! read more

Secret Desires - 50% off Pleasers! - Adult Shops Near Me - Santa Monica, California

The guy behind the counter is very rude, ( April 16th 15:30 hrs). Even they have variety...

when taking breaks they will leave a note posted saying be back in 10-15 minutes and they taking longer breaks then what they say and just have you waiting wasting your time read more

In my mind this trip was awkward to say the least but it actually went smooth like it had been lubed up too! I needed to replace my cock strap since I broke it, paying too rough with it I guess. Inside the shop I was expecting to be embarrassed leading to a short shopping experience. It was anything but.... The lady working there comforted me as she showed me the available types of cock rings I had to choose from. Long story short, the clerk fixed me up with my new strap and when I finished looking around, I walked out with 4 items for me to play with. Not only a successful shipping trip but one that I really enjoyed, got what I wanted and didn't break the bank doing it. Thanks Secret Desires... You gave me what I came for! read more

I bought some gun oil lube paid $80 for the exact same bottle that sells for about $25 on Amazon. I got royally ripped off unwittingly. I will never go there again. read more

This place is never actually open. I have tried times at different times of the day and night to walk in and see what they have in person. There is not online store to shop in so that is not an option. Every time I have visited there is a sign on the door that they are at lunch and will return. I have been there when the lunch time is over and the sign is still on the door and no one is there. What is really going on in here??? Why post hours of operation if you are not going to adhere to them. read more

After trying other stores, I decided to give this store a shot. Reviews were a bit varied so I was nervous thinking this would be the same as all the other adult stores I've been to. I went in a few hours before closing, parking was a little difficult, but I figured it out. I was greeted by the lady working there, Jasmine. She helped make me feel welcomed and encouraged me to look around and was very knowledgeable of every product which helped me understand how and what use they provide. Overall 10/10 experience, I will be going here from now on!!! read more

Update: I went back to the store today and was met by the associate I spoke with over the phone. She was contrite, very polite, and has a remarkably kind disposition. To her credit, it looked like she had been working hard. With the exception of the SNAFU detailed in my previous review, I would highly recommend them to other fun-loving Yelpers. Usually love this little shop! Came by today during business hours and found the door locked and a note saying "be back in 15 minutes." I waited longer than 15 minutes and nobody showed up. I decided to call before I left just to see if they were open. To my surprise they answered the phone and when I asked if they were open they told me they are open, but that they are mopping, so I should come back in 30 minutes. As I type this review UPS is leaving a note for undeliverable packages. Too bad! That can't be good for business. read more

Love the easy going and comfortable atmosphere. Angela is super kind, always awesome people there to help if needed.

Secret desires has a good range of product at a full range of prices so that there is something for everyone. It is a small store but it is well merchandused. The staff was very helpful and knowledgeable about the product. They managed to make the experience similar to going into a hardware store to find the right tool for the job. I will be back. They also sell batteries for a reasonable price. read more

10/10 love this place especially because of April. They were following social distancing and you weren't allowed to touch anything in the store to prevent the spread and she foreal helped a sis out. She was my hype woman & she genuinely made me feel so comfortable while shopping. Overall April, you're the best and if you guys come here LOOK FOR HER. You won't regret it. read more

Me: "Do you have a cake mold in the shape of boobs?" Sales rep: "Hmm let me check.... .... .. no we only have penises." Go figure, when a girl needs a set of hooters... she only finds a pecker. Guess I'll have to build a boob cake sans-mold. (See picture.) http://static.px.yelp.com/photo/FEP14-CcMPQjLqIUtUP2gQ/l Various selection of toys, dildos, stripperella shoes, low quality lingerie, polyester costumes and all in all, over priced. Great for last minute bachelorette party favors and gag gifts. Thats all. Oh, friendly sales reps and theres parking. read more

Every girl should have that friend, you know the one, the one with a goodie drawer that's practically bursting apart because it's so full of various goodies. Personally, I'm an interesting combination of an observant consumer and That Friend. I try not to go to places like Secret Desires, particularly after having a cocktail or two, because I tend to buy things I don't necessarily need. But when my good friend (who's cute and rebounding, btw) told me she'd NEVER owned a vibrator of any kind, and told me she'd like to purchase one, I demanded that we go find one. I would have LOVED to know that this place was here last year when I was shopping around for components of my Halloween costume. They've got a ton of stripper clothes and shoes, as well as body stockings and all the etc that you can think of. They've got a decent selection of toys too, I didn't get into the DVD section, mostly because of the internet fulling that need in my life. The girl who was working there was helpful and friendly, and obviously not creepy as she was a girl. She suggested a pretty fantastic toy, which we both purchased, and she was right on the money! I will definitely be back the next time I need to do some serious shopping, or for Halloween :) read more

They have lots of clothing and shoes. That's obviously their main focus. The toys are mostly the lower quality jelly type. Somewhat limited selection of lubes. I'd go somewhere else for toys and such. read more

I am not fudging when I say that last night was the first time I have ever stepped into an adult store. I needed a bachelorette gift for my best friend and I thought it might be amusing to get her a gag gift of furry handcuffs or some sort of edible undergarment. The store was pretty huge and not quite as raunchy as I expected, in fact, it looked much like a Frederick's of Hollywood, only stocked with an alarmingly large selection of dildos. I settled on some sexy underwear, a feather boa and a sample pack of lubes. The prices are a little steep, but the service was excellent, the guy that worked there was extremely helpful and gentle with first timers like me. He also threw in a pair of panties that you can hook your iPod onto. I wouldn't consider becoming a regular here but perhaps when Halloween rolls around I'll stop in for that sexy Bumblebee outfit and stripper shoes! read more

So happy this store reopened. I was looking for a specific item which they didn't have but ended up buying something completely different based on the managers recommendation. The selection has been scaled down due to the smaller store size but you'll get no complaints from me. The managers knowledge of the products was impressive and she even included some free sample lubes so I could try a few different kinds before buying. read more

The customer service in this store is the worst! You want your shopping experience to be comfortable and enjoyable when you shop a store like this. I purchased an item that should have come with a standard usb type charger.... and it didn't. I got it home and there was no charger in the box. I called the store because I live 2hrs+ away and asked them to please send the missing (critical) component! The first associate was clueless and offered a call back from her manager later that day. I received no call back. I called a few days later to follow up and was told by another girl (who refused to let me speak to the manager directly) that they had no intention of fixing the problem. For the record: By LAW when you purchase an item that states it includes all parts and a part is missing, the retailer has the responsibility (if not the decency -- or the self-preservation instinct any business owner *should* have) to replace or provide the missing part. Even if that means they have to contact the manufacturer for you!!! I paid full price for an item and did not receive what I paid for. That friends, is stealing. I will NEVER shop here again! I do not recommend any one does either unless you like being left high & dry. Boo. read more

This is a great shop! Huge selection of sexy things to wear. Helpful, honest and respectful staff to assist in choosing the right toys for your joys. I highly recommend it read more

Awesome. Service was awesome. Yelp's survey questions made getting to check-in a little difficult to get but they honored it any ways.

Small place and if there's any other customers there, good luck trying to navigate through the store without being in someone's way. One section was closed off when we went. There was another couple there looking at toys and we had to wait our turn basically because the aisles are so small. I mean I guess we could have stood right next to them but how uncomfortable would that have been? read more

Jason my maaaaaaaan. By far the best experience I have had shopping for toys. Jason went above and beyond and helped my partner and I find the perfect toys. He has an immense amount of knowledge and personality. We walked in with the idea of getting one toy but walked out with 4 and not because of his selling tactics or forcing us to buy products, but because of his ability to understand what we desire and want. Definitely recommend this shop not only for its large selection of quality items, but also because you will have an amazon time if you are helped by Jason, and anyone of the amazing employees that Jason trained. read more

The salesperson was very friendly and was attentive and most helpful with giving advice on products. They have a wide range of products in all shapes and sizes. I was able to find a garter belt and thigh highs in my size, which is on the curvier side. So curvy girl approved. Came out with a couple more items that weren't on the list to buy but couldn't help myself. read more

Went in here on a recent Saturday night. Interacted with a disgruntled employee who was impatient and very rude. Did not want to engage, answer questions or was actively dismissive. My friend thought he was homophobic (we are buying gay male orientated products) and he was responding in an actively antoginizing tone. I'd avoid next time and go somewhere more "sex positive" such as Circus of Books or Babes in Toyland. read more

A great shop with just enough to get you through your kinky endeavors without overwhelming you. Easily the best little shop on the westside. Buying online will never be quite be the same as going to the shop. Parking is a bit tough but that's not the shops fault. It is Santa Monica after all. If you are going around night time, be sure to hit up Jason-he knows his products and won't do you wrong. read more

Not as many movies as you would think, given how big it was (pun intended). Mostly clothing. Some toys, but not too many. Mostly on the order of dildos. read more

this is my new favorite shop, i drove from the san fernando valley to santa monica. the gentlemen was very helpful and very informative. i will be back very soon again read more

I thought this was a great place to get anything you might have left at home on your vacation :) The place was easy to find (there used to be a random shop on Main that has closed) and had anything you could dream of. Best part - all reasonably priced! Hubby and I walked out of there with 3 new things to try for $30. ps - The man working behind the counter was friendly, helpful and completely unobtrusive, which I appreciated. read more

It's a nice place in Santa Monica in which you find your adult toys, videos, clothes, etc. It's a pretty large store with a good selection of things and is even a great place to go for Halloween as they had some awesome costumes that give it that extra edge, but they are overpriced! The one creepy thing was a cashier once who was just asking me way too much about what I was going to use the lubes for and if I liked that flavor and stuff like that. I just felt it was my business and I didn't care to go in depth with him. Other than that experience, it has been pretty good. read more

So I guess they have another store. I was in the Torrance location awhile ago and was pleased and this was no different. Much smaller, but still had the essentials I needed for the evening. The dude working was helpful despite looking rough. He knew his stuff about the lubes and now I'm a sexpert too. Gotta have lube and condoms. Looked more like a boutique type store because of its size, but they cram a lot in it. Good times had by all. read more

Though they have cheap dildos, they have a few good BDSM toys and plenty of good decals and cards. It is more of a stripper supply place, lots of really cheap (quality) lingere and shoes, and enough of a selection of lube to keep me happy. I got this awesome "Fuck Republicans" decal for like 2 bucks. My mom has it on her Fridge and still asks where I got it. read more

Came by today at 12:45pm and found that the door was locked although it's business hours... I've been here for 20 minutes and the door is still locked... I've seen 2 different people walk up and try to open the door and then leave... I tried to call but no answer :/ I wanted to come to my local shoppe but I guess I'll unfortunately have to take my business elsewhere. :c read more

One of their dildos broke in my ass. all I can say is.... SKETCHY. Also while I was there a en employee socked a customer in the balls. What a great time. Well if you want to cut your ass open go to this crazy place. read more

The most incredible saleswoman and so extremely helpful. CASSANDRA, you deserve a medal and more... I'm a shy middle-aged professional who needs discretion as well as guidance in a world I'm not fully informed about. Cassandra gave me great suggestions that keep me coming back again and again. Thank you!!! read more

Gigi is literally the most helpful employee I've ever met! She really took the time to talk me through everything I was interested in and gave me tips on lubes and what she personally preferred, customer service A+++++. The whole shop has the best vibe and is super organized so you don't feel overwhelmed by their selection of toys and other objects. Oh also they have FIRE ass prices! Definitely my go to sex shop with like I said the best selection, prices, and customer service! read more

Love this shop. Glad to be a regular! Jason once again didn't disappoint. I wouldn't go anywhere else but here at this point!