I had a bad experience because their office should have returned my calls when the unstable person who married my mother's sister told me the funeral was CANCELLED. It was a very bad scene. I placed many, many calls and couldn't reach anyone and none of the calls were returned. Came Monday when the "cancelled" funeral's scheduled time passed, I spoke to someone who told me my mother was already buried by arrangements that were made without my consent. The conduct of my mother's family was atrocious and the cemetery said to me "we don't get involved with family". In a case like this, other people who wanted to attend mom's funeral were upset and I had to call them. I am the only daughter and my feelings were overlooked. The unstable family member lied to the cemetery' office and I don't' know what was said. It's all a mystery. My mother's burial is a mystery. I hope this never happens to anyone else. Luckily, I saved a phone message where the crazy person told me to "come to the nursing home and pick up the body". Money talks.....this person paid for the funeral only because he could control everything. I could not get a ride to whatever this burial was about It was obviously not about my poor mom, but about his tyranny and inherent selfish nature.To this date, I have not been to my mother's grave. Now that mom is gone, I can cut her family loose which I have done. They are not nice people. But, the cemetery should have considered my feelings and returned my calls and told me what was going on. For this reason, they get 3 stars.
However, to date, they have heard the recorded voice mail and have been trying to extend themselves to help me feel better. He had told people that I didn't want to attend the funeral because they wouldn't send a limo for me. This is nonsense. What really happened is their mean daughter (the apple doesn't fall too far, so they say) wouldn't pick me up. Their son acted like my mom didn't exist and their grandsons didn't come nor offer to help with transportation. I believe the grandchildren were lied to.
When a close loved one dies - try to work out arrangements beforehand if you have financial issues like me. I suggest starting early and making monthly payments to wherever your loved one wants to rest. Also sign papers that you are in charge so that no one, no matter who they are, can change things. read more