Most of the reviews have been written by the mothers. I am writing this review from the perspective of the husband and support person. This covers both their doula services and birth education knowledge.
Pregnancy can be a challenging time but pregnancy and birth in a COVID-19 world was extremely challenging. Both Lauren and Elizabeth really helped us through when we felt lost at times. My wife and I are both type A personalities & like to plan. Plus I'm engineer, but you definitely can't engineer a solution for birth...you have to adapt and adjust quickly. During moments where I felt lost, they were they for my wife to help her her through the process. Lauren and Elizabeth's knowledge and experience help us adjust quickly when they were necessary.
My wife and I first met Lauren during the maternity tour at Providence St Joseph (pre-COVID-19). We signed up for the childbirth class through St. Joe's which was to be in person, then everything shut down. Lauren was the instructor and quickly adapted the format to online via Zoom. Through the 5 session course, we learned so much about childbirth and the complications that can arise and the decisions/implications during the process. She was extremely knowledgeable and helped to reassure us so we would feel confident in what to do and how to be when Junior decides to make his debut. Lauren was also very good to point out "dad's take a note on this" items and even preparing a cheat sheet in case daddy gets bird brains day of.
During the child birth course (5 weeks), hospital policies were changing constantly...almost daily. Trying to plan as a couple was making us crazy. Lauren kept us up to date and helped to assuage our panic about the situation. Eventually it was cut down to only 1 support person, who could not leave once there and could not change (i.e. hubby for doula). We asked Lauren if she could provide her doula services virtually. Both she and Elizabeth came up with a plan to help my wife during her labor and delivery.
In the weeks prior to birth, my wife was experiencing severe pelvic pain. Since so many businesses were closed due to COVID-19, we didn't think that massage or chiropractors were an option. They helped us by referring us to chiropractor that was not only still open but also specialized in pregnancy. During our pre-labor meetings (2 of them), they gave a review of ID'ing labor, alternative pain coping techniques, and the major one for me "daddy checklist with Do's & No-No's" for being a great support for my wife. We also went through our birth plan as well.
During labor they provided amazing support. Though they weren't physically there (because of hospital COVID-19 restrictions), they would call to check in on us or always be available to help us. Our birth did not go as planned (unmedicated) but Lauren and Elizabeth were instrumental in helping us weigh the pro's and con's given our developments. Early in the morning that we went to the hospital, my wife's contractions were short and painful. I ran out of coping support, nothing in a worried husband's voice trying hide the fear and worry about his wife's pain could have done so Lauren was just talking her through for almost an hour to help my wife. Her voice was calm, soothing, and confident.
After a few hours, she wasn't progressing so we were stuck with the decision to go home and wait it out or change the plan to go medicated. That was a major decision and change to our original plan: change to medicated. I could have not made that decision alone with my wife. Elizabeth brought in her own experience to really help my wife with the decision to change. She was there to let her grieve the change and reassure that grieving the change was normal and natural. That is the most singular point where we were so thankful to have their help and support. I don't know my wife and I would have been able to get through without their support in that moment.
After deciding to go medicated, my wife was able to rest and we were ready for our baby's debut a few hours later. Just before the nurses prepared the room, we talked with Lauren for a half hour who gave us a pep talk and reminders to me how to help my wife during pushing. Less than an hour later....our baby was here!!!
We are so thankful for Lauren and Elizabeth's support, experience, and care. The birthing process can never be planned but they were instrumental in guiding us and conditions changed. We highly recommend that Lauren and Elizabeth are a part of your birth support team. read more