As a healer I feel the need to share my personal experience, thoughts and genuine concerns with my "massage" last week with Ron.
Technically and mechanically he knew how to work on my knots. I have a chronic illness, fibromyalgia and last weekend I overdid it. I saw way too many clients last week on Saturday and carried a huge bag of cat litter around doing errands and twisted my left lower back. I was in extreme pain and very stiff. I Google searched therapists near me and sent a message to Ron on Sunday morning.
Ron was extremely responsive and squeezed me in for Sunday evening. He seemed awesome! I was so grateful he could fit me in because I had work Sunday afternoon and I was in so much pain.
Now for the not so nice stuff! In all my years when I visited authentic healers they were kind enough to say words that empowered me. A true psychic doesn't disempower you. When I arrived at Ron's medical office he started talking about himself and HIS JOURNEY. His journey with his twin flame, how he got into massage therapy himself and his classes in past life regression which he still hasn't fully completed. Here i am in deep pain listening to Ron yacking incessantly about himself and how and why he got into healing. I was listening politely and then FINALLY he instructed me to undress and he left the room till I hit the buzzer.
It was incredibly hard for me to zone out after listening to all his "stories" so I mentioned how I was devastated because I lost some heirloom rings from my deceased mother and some antiques and clothes at a public storage facility in Brighton, Massachusetts because a representative working there gave me an incorrect auction date. His cold blooded response was that I was late with my payment, it was just business and all my fault. He said I incurred bad karma by writing reviews to warn others when they have a long history of doing this to other customers.
Ron said all my chakras were blocked because he felt extreme heat except for my root chakra which is cold That's extremely false! When heat rises in the body it means you're going through a Kundalini rising and any area of cold in the body is an area that is blocked. Many authentic healers tell me my issue is mainly my root chakra not my heart. Could be Ron was projecting his blocks onto me?
Anyway then we start talking about Spirit guides and I've been told by psychic practitioners one of my Spirit Guides is Native American, which totally resonates with my inner intuition. Right away he pipes up that it might be from another planet aka extraterrestrial influence because I said people saw feathers around my guide. So basically he tried to let me feel like I personally don't have any gifts and don't know for a fact what I'm talking about. I mentioned ancient Egypt because he brought up past experiences with clients who said their daughter was a priestess. Meanwhile I took classes in DNA activation in Boulder, Colorado years ago and had visions of the Goddess Isis...and other genuine psychics saw wings around me during the activation.
I'm so stunned that Ron was trying to argue and contradict my profound experiences as if he is all knowing and all seeing and I couldn't possibly be psychic or correct.
I felt like the session I paid for was all about him.
In summary he said very negative things to my body and my Spirit while working on me.
He said all my chakras are BLOCKED AND honestly if that were true I'd be dead
2nd thing that goes wrong is instead of simply working on my muscles immediately he forced me to spend 40 minutes listening to his stories.
So my mind was already overactive and I couldn't relax especially when he's using way too much pressure on certain areas.
At the end of the session he complains i talk too much when he's the one that was talking about his life journey and his twin flame. After the session he turns on a light so I have to study a painting in his office and be quizzed about the meaning! I also waited outside in the cold 4 my uber instead of his waiting room incredible!
Ron definitely doesn't understand how words affect people. I felt very disempowered after all the negativity that was dumped on me.
I'm leaving three stars instead of two because I do have empathy and don't wish harm on others but to be honest with you a genuine psychic healer shares positive thoughts with you and gives you helpful advice not harmful and toxic admonitions.
Ron needs to focus less on himself and more on just letting his clients relax and be still in the moment.
Because of his overzealous conversation preceding my massage my brain was unable to shut down. read more