Losing my mother was one of the hardest things our family has ever gone through, but Nuuanu…read moreMemorial Park & Mortuary took care of us with so much aloha and compassion. From the very beginning, they treated us like ohana and made sure we felt supported every step of the way. They handled every detail with care and respect, allowing us to focus on honoring my mom's life. Her viewing was beautiful and heartfelt -- it truly reflected who she was and the love she gave to everyone around her. During such a difficult time, their kindness meant everything to us. We'll always be grateful for the comfort and support they showed our family. I highly recommend them to anyone on Oahu looking for genuine, caring service.

My dad passed away on December 6, 2024. The whole thing has been a blur and I've just been zoning…read morein and out. My parents purchased a glass niche here years ago and luckily were prepared, so I didn't have to deal with it. We met with Jack. He was our funereal director and walked us through the whole process. He was such a tremendous help. He explained everything to us and answered all our questions. My dad was cremated on the same day. We made an appointment with jack the next day to put my dad in the niche. Everything went smoothly. If you use Nuuanu Memorial, I would highly recommend Jack.

We moved my mother's body to Aloha Mortuary from Borthwick after receiving advice from someone at…read moreour church. It was the best decision for her and my family and I wish we had done it earlier. They had comparable packages for a more affordable price and way more compassion. I mainly worked with Pua. I did meetings with her and my sisters, made payments and spoke to her on the phone. Pua was also able to talk to my sisters during a very difficult time and was able to tactfully mediate between the three of us. Not only did she help us with the contract, and the planning, but she also showed up the day of the funeral, and also checked in after the funeral, and months after the funeral. She also arranged meetings for in person payments, as well as ways to pay online. I believe my sister had spoken with Heitiare for the transfer and the contract. Picking this Mortuary saved us more than 10 grand, compared to Borthwick Mortuary. I feel like Pua made the process way easier. She also made it more personal, which was the kind of support I needed during this sensitive time. If you're considering a Mortuary to move your loved one, I hope this helps.

One thing my niece went with them cause they were a local company,…read more And we are locals so we chose them but,when we were going to view my sister they first said 15 minutes,we asked if we could stay longer, they said 30 minutes free and 400.00 for the next 30 MINUTES 400.00 ! talk about ripping grieving people off ,thats horrible, I must say though the guy who fixed my sister up made her beautiful

I had my father's Celebration of Life here and it went off without a problem. Lots of parking, lots…read moreof chairs, attendants, air conditioned, attention to detail, AV set up and a director. CJ was my director that night. From the tables, displays and AV equipment, everything was taken care of. She is a very empathetic and sweet person. Also, the chapel rental and other services seemed reasonable.

When my stepfather passed away, I used Ballard for his cremation. He passed on Aug 22 and was…read morecremated around Sept. The end product was nice. The customer service should've been better. I had told Ballard, that I would be taking care of my stepfather's arrangements and any payments. I told them to not contact my mother because she was grieving so the least I could do is take this off her mind. Mom was also stepfather's caretaker and was there with him when he passed. So she wasn't exactly in a state to deal with funeral arrangements. They ended up calling my mother and asking for payment when it wasn't near the agreed upon dates. I felt that this was very insensitive. Another thing was that I had payed with cash and sent my boyfriend to drop it off. While he was there they counted the money wrong, had to recount, counted the money wrong again, and had 2 people double check the amount of cash. Now, I understand that everyone has those days, but after I specifically told them not to bother my mother... I couldn't help not to be irritated. But overall, the cremation was seamless and end product was satisfactory.

Located downtown close to Vineyard St on Nuuanu Ave, my parents purchased funeral plans and mom…read morepassed in 2011. Hosoi did a wonderful job making sure everything was as she wished and easy to work with, absolutely organized, efficient, and very sympathetic. Dad passed a couple months ago and we were lucky to work with Ricki, who was so wonderful because there was an additional step to Dad's plan as he was a retired Air Force Lt Col so his final wish was to be interred at Punchbowl with full military honors. Ricki kindly helped with all of the plans, setting the date with Punchbowl and working with USAF to ensure dad received his honors. Ricki's been doing this a while so he has it down-pat and makes good suggestions, answers all our questions patiently, and just made us feel like family. Like he treated us how he would treat his own during this overwhelming time. He answered all our emails promptly and even called when he needed to discuss a more sensitive matter. During the grieving time your mind doesn't work as it should- or at least mine doesn't - it was a comfort to work with Ricki and the rest of the kind ladies in the office who remained professional but caring with each interaction we had. Mahalo to Ricki and these ladies who obviously care and want to make sure our loved ones and us are at peace.

We recently attended a relative's service here on 10-10-24. Things haven't changed much since I…read moreheld my father's service here in 2006. For both services, the deceased had funeral plans with Hosoi making it a lot easier. This company had been in business for so long that it is reputable, organized and the program runs smoothly. Personally I'm glad it was in English without the senko(incense)offering. They set up a table for friends and family to sign in and give their koden(money envelopes) to the family. There are ample benched seating for the guests during the service both in and out.. Inside is nice, comfortable and air conditioned. Podium and microphone are present. You can show a video on the screen as part of your program. You can select your clergy person along with who does the eulogy or remembrances of your dearly departed. After the service it's customary to provide refreshments or a meal to your guests in their outside dining hall. The one we just attended got their deluxe bentos from Natsunoya and 3 kinds of mochi, manju from Kansai Yamato for dessert. Beverages are also provided. There are two toilets available for your guests.guests

The courtesy of the director lady there. She was cold and rude. Our service for my grandmother and…read moreuncle ran a couple minutes over and she kicked us out She threatened that their burial would be canceled if we didn't get out!! The carpet needs to be replaced in the chapel It has stains on the floor.

This is more of a technical review as well as a review for a specific funeral director since most…read moreother aspects were already covered in other Yelp reviews. I was impressed by the modern technology at the Diamond Head chapel that makes it convenient to display your videos and slide shows. Two large screen monitors are built in the chapel and one was in the lounge area where all share the same images. As an AV person, I can appreciate not having to setup a portable projection screen & projector on table and bring a separate sound system for it that is required at many other funeral venues. The wall monitors are easily visible in the ambient lighting compared to a projector and screen. The audio from the video/slide show were conveniently fed into the house sound system. The podium microphone was a high quality Shure gooseneck condenser microphone so it sounded very clear and the thin gooseneck was unobtrusive. Wyatt, who was the onsite funeral director, was professional, quick, attentive, talented and caring in all aspects of his services. He's not one to stand around doing nothing and has a keen sense of attention to detail as evidenced by him picking up trash to make everything perfect. He surprised us by playing the trumpet during the burial ceremony. Many professional musicians who happened to be in attendance commented on his skillful playing. Turns out he's an accomplished trumpet player as well as an instructor. I would recommend Diamond Head Mortuary and Wyatt as your funeral director.

Our visit to the Byodo-In Temple was deeply personal and meaningful. The fam and I were on the…read moreisland to visit family members who have passed and are laid to rest at Valley of the Temples (as well as at the nearby Veterans cemetery). Beginning our time there at the temple felt like the most peaceful and grounding way to start. From the moment we walked in, everything slowed down. Even though there were several groups of visitors, everyone was quiet and respectful, which preserved a beautiful sense of calm. The temple is a stunning replica of the historic Byōdō-in in Japan, and it's absolutely breathtaking in person. The large Buddha statue inside is gigantic and awe-inspiring. We bought a small bag of food and scattered pellets into the different ponds where bright koi fish gathered in clusters, Turtles, Peacocks, wild cats rested in shaded corners, and the birds (so accustomed to visitors) ate directly out of our hands. We lit incense together and took a few quiet moments to reflect on the family members we were there to honor. Ringing the sacred bell before entering felt symbolic , like setting an intention for remembrance and gratitude. Parking is a nightmare and there is a small fee. But you will get back what you put in because it is a gentle, meaningful, and peaceful way to begin your visit should you find yourself in this side of the island.

I have been here many times due to having someone very dear to me buried in the Cathedral View…read moresection. Overall this is one of the most peaceful places that I have ever been and if you haven't taken a full temple tour please ask to take part in one, if time allows. I love the temple gift shop and the employees are so nice ... They have just about every little (and some big) memento that you could want and they even sell bird and fish food so you have the option of filling your hand with bird seed and then holding out your hand... the birds will eat from your hand... OR you can visit the coi pond, take a seat and feed the fish. Both are equally peaceful.

Tala & her staff were truly a God send. From the moment I called them to pick my dad's body at…read moreKaiser until his burial. They were FIRST CLASS ALL THE WAY. Also being Samoan, they understood the cultural aspects and protocols. She even helped in communicating and coordinating with Valley of the Temple for the burial. Thank you Tala and team for caring for my dad and giving him the send off he deserved. God bless you all. 10/10.

Grace Mortuary truly lives up to its name. From the very beginning to the final goodbye, they stood…read moreby our side with care, compassion, and support. They answered every question, listened when we needed to talk, and helped in more ways than we can count. As we laid our beloved mother to rest, Grace Mortuary handled everything with grace and dignity. Because of them, we were able to say goodbye beautifully, creating memories we'll treasure forever. A special thank you to the hearse drivers, Charlie and Uncle. From start to finish, your kindness and respect touched our hearts deeply. You treated our mother like your own and reminded us what true community feels like. There are no words that can fully express our gratitude -- but from the bottom of our hearts, thank you.

My father purchased a viewing/service plan with cremation. Everything went perfectly from the day…read moreof his passing to the service. The staff was exceptionally helpful and answered all of our questions. The service area was clean, set up and ready to go. Thank you so much for all that you do.

* I felt pressured into expensive packages. * I couldn't get…read moreanyone to discuss less expensive options. * Communication became email-only despite repeated requests. * The paperwork delays affected your ability to obtain the death certificate. * I ultimately transferred to another mortuary, paid nearly $1,000 to do so, and received faster, less expensive service there. Shelby's actions made me feel that closing the sale was a higher priority than helping my family bury my mother with dignity. Even after three weeks, the paperwork needed for us to obtain a death certificate had not been filed with the state, which meant we couldn't get the certificate needed to work with the banks. Repeatedly being unable to reach them delayed our ability to finalize arrangements, and my mother's funeral was pushed back. Because she had not been embalmed and significant time had passed, her condition had deteriorated by the time she was transferred. She was no longer recognizable to us.