I'm giving this an extra star because I believe this review is solely based on the instructor, not the studio as a whole. However, I do hope the studio can educate it's instructors on how to approach students differently and at each individual's limit.
Cute place, was very excited to try it out, studio is a decent size space, no mirrors for checking alignment and is not a warmed or heated studio - just a heads up.
The class started out fine, smaller class with only 3 other people in it. For me, the experience took a turn for the worse when the instructor said we are now going to do headstands. "Has anyone never done one before?". I spoke up and said I have tried numerous times, I'm just not there yet. Another lady agreed and said me too. The instructor decided it would be good to show us how to get into a headstand. She did this with ease (of course) and didn't give any alternatives to those of us who are still building the strength to get our legs above our head.
I went to the wall and began my dolphin pose. At almost every studio I have been to, if you weren't quite there with getting into a headstand ( a very advanced pose), they recommend dolphin pose and kicking your feet up - to just practice that. The instructor came by and decided to help me get my legs up, but not having the strongest core (yet) I obviously couldn't hold myself there. She started telling me "You have fear. It's fear, you have fear". So this just made things worse, one she was making me look like an ass in front of a small class and two, she wasn't recognizing my personal limits that had nothing to do with "fear". Obviously I was working past my "fear" by allowing her to help me get upside down, but it was my lack of strength that couldn't get me to stay up. This would have been fine, but she kept repeating it!!
Instead of recognizing where I could do an alternative move to the build the strength needed, she was using her ego to tell me her opinion and decided to keep pushing. As i'm on the ground panting, while everyone is staring, she starts telling me I need to now try tri-pod headstand. Oh come on lady, get off your yoga high horse and let me work up to this stuff! So as i'm following her lead and placing my crown on the ground, I feel A LOT of pain. In my crown and neck and I think it's best to back off. Instead of kindly respecting my space and limits, she continues and goes "you have a lot of fear, huh?". I finally looked at her and said "no, i have pain!!". She goes oh no, fear.. i go no, PAIN!. This women was so wrapped up in her own ego and notions of what to do, that she wasn't hearing me that I needed to stop so that I don't injure myself. She then walks to the middle of the class and starts telling everyone "Headstands bring up a lot of emotions, we need to work through them. What is being brought up from your headstand?" How rude. I should have just walked out.
Yoga is not just about pushing past your limits, but respecting your current limits. You have to know when you may injure yourself and when you can go further. As an instructor, who has been practicing for years, they should understand this and not bring their personal ego/opinions to each class. read more