Simone is the girl of my dreams in a matchmaker! Having the right matchmaker is a like finding your soulmate. You want someone who wants to get to know, to fight for you, and someone who cares for you. You don't want a matchmaker who does it just cause it's their job, no one is interested in a gold digger. I have experience with 3 different matchmakers from a different service. My matchmaker with Three Day Rule is Simone. I first started with Simone in a different matchmaking company. Simone is sweet, caring, she listens to you and Simone is good with influencing matches. Like with most people I was skeptical with matchmaking, wondering if this was a scam. But Simone got me a date last year after a month of searching. My ease was put to rest matchmaking wasn't a scam. Every date thereafter got better. I can tell through the dates Simone matched me with that Simone truly listens and has my best interests. Every conversation we had I felt how much she cared. Even though a date didn't work out I would feel bummed out. But knowing in the back of my head that Simone was there for me was always reassuring because I knew Simone would find me a better match. I always tell people I feel "Safe" with Simone. I can be open and honest about what I am looking for or what I didn't like about a date and Simone never made me feel like I was being rude or aggressive for expressing my desires and feelings. Simone gives you that motherly feeling that you can talk to her about anything and when a girl breaks up with you Simone is there for you. After 6 months of being together Simone left the prior matchmaking service, we were together at. My heart was broken, my safety net was gone. But before Simone left, she looked for matches for me. The next matchmaker I got found a match in 2 weeks which was suspicious. I'm pretty certain that the new matchmaker used Simone's research for the next date. It was a great match (thanks to Simone's work). But the date didn't want to continue the relationship. So, with the new matchmaker it took 7 weeks to find the next date. The new matchmaker didn't schedule the date till I started inquiring 6 weeks with no date. My judgment is the new matchmaker threw something together last minute because the next date didn't have a priority I wanted. I was specific with the new matchmaker that we tried a date without this priority before and it didn't work out. Needless to say, I requested a new matchmaker because I just had an experience with a matchmaker who made me feel disrespected because she did not listen to me. After this bummer I decided to see how my go person for safety, Simone, was doing with her career which I assumed she landed a role in Broadway. I googled Simone and to my surprise and benefit Simone is a matchmaker with Three Day Rule. I was so happy not only I can get to work with Simone again. I was happy that Simone went to a better company because Simone deserves it. It is always a good feeling to see a good person move up in the world. Simone was too good for the last company we were with. Simone outperforms other matchmakers with her efficient timeliness, her concern and compassion for her client. I felt like a science project with a different matchmaker. With the last company I had to deal with different people for the in processing. With Three Day Rule it's a one-person process. I told Three Day Rule I wanted to be paired with Simone and Simone handled everything. With the last company I got paired with a 3rd matchmaker after the let down by matchmaker #2. The 3rd has a busy lifestyle, so my matches are slower, but the 3rd listens and helps me out. Point being dealing with 3 different matchmakers Simone is on a different caliber. One of the things that was missing in my online dating life was good photos. Also having a woman's opinion in wardrobe was needed on my end. I was very happy that TDR got me a photographer and a stylist to help with clothing choice. Like how at first with match making you don't know if it is a scam. The same feeling, I had with looking for a photographer and a stylist. I don't know what to look for in a good photographer or stylist. I also don't have the time to research. As a guy I just felt lame looking for this stuff even thought I knew in the back of my head it was something that I needed. But TDR includes it which takes all those burdens away. In the end it worked out for the better Simone left me with the last company because we found each other again with a better matchmaking company. read more

Avoid. If you're thinking about paying for the service, save the money and pay for a dating app membership. The matches I received consistently did not meet my must-haves and the matchmakers would sometimes misrepresent/withhold information that make the matches look better. I first started working with TDR in May last year (over a year ago). The process seemed great at the beginning - photoshoots, long conversations with the matchmaker to understand my personality and preferences. I got my first match that did meet my must haves but just did not work out. Then the matchmaker started telling me that she was having issues finding matches that meet my must-haves (part of their contract terms), but she did find *multiple* matches (2/3) that she thought were great even though they did not meet my must-haves. I agreed in principle thinking that I would get multiple matches, but what happened twice was that she would send me 1 profile in email and then when I asked about the 'multiple' people she mentioned, she would either say they're no longer available or they no longer responded to her. I started to feel like I'm being deceived, and asked to be switched to a different matchmaker. Then things got even worse. The matchmaker left me with the impression of just trying to 'close the book'. She would withhold critical information for a person (the information that she would share about another person) to make that person look like a better match for my must-haves. Overall, I see a pattern of withholding information that makes me suspicious of their practices and the quality of the matches they found is consistently lower than that of the dates I found myself. So just save your self the money. If you're to use the service, make sure that the must-haves are very concrete and specific as possible read more

I could not be more pleased with my experience with TDR, especially with my matchmaker, Nassim A. She was responsive, caring, interested in getting to know me and my preferences, and simply fantastic. Understanding this is probably not typical, I am now in a committed relationship with the very first match she connected me to. And even if not typical, I have no doubt that Nassim can find a match quickly for anyone. I have told my 20-something daughter that I highly recommend she sign on with TDR when she's ready to find her guy. :) I can't thank you enough, TDR and Nassim, for adding fun magic to my life! read more

After my review, the company reached out to me directly to apologize for the messages I received. I found this to be very warming and sincere. I hope the rest of my experience with this service is as pleasant as Jamie was on the phone today. read more

Five stars is not enough for Stacia at TDR. I don't even really know where to begin. She has helped me with the deeply important and personal task of finding my partner and she has done so with empathy, professionalism, respect, humor, kindness, and wisdom. She has helped me realize the kind of person I deserve to be in a relationship with. She has helped me figure out what it really is that I want out of a romantic partner. She has been patient and supportive, yet she is never afraid to ask hard questions. I have enjoyed and learned from every date Stacia has set up for me, even if it didn't lead to a lasting relationship. I was nervous at first about investing in a matchmaker, but I've now recommended Stacia to almost literally every person I know who is single. (Actually now that I think about it - it might actually literally be every person I know who is single. Yeah I think that's right.) After working with her for 6 months, I now honestly think of her as a friend. Thank you for everything, Stacia. You have helped me so much. =] read more

I had a pretty awesome experience with TDR and something is wrong here: for some reason there are 30+ reviews hidden below that dont seem to be counted in the rating. If they were, this would be a 4+ star business online. Anyways, I met my fiance through TDR so clearly I'm a believer and an advocate. Stay patient (you're not going to meet your best match on the first try), be open (the matchmaker is a professional at curating), and let the process do it's work. read more

I kept seeing Facebook ads for Three Day Rule and although hesitant, decided to submit my information to join the free database. Overall, I had an extremely positive experience and would recommend it to anyone! Skylar was the matchmaker who reached out me - and speaking to her about the process and my potential match made me immediately feel comfortable using the service. She asked genuine questions to get to know me, and connected the dots where she saw common interests and values between this potential match and myself. Her follow up after our dates was professional, kind and encouraging. As a matchmaker, Skylar went above and beyond (even for me, who wasn't paying) to ensure that the experience was positive for everyone involved. read more

I heard about TDR through an NPR story where they featured the service for their "dating in the 21st century" series back in February 2018, a Valentine's Day special coverage. I knew they cost a lot, but I figured, if they were featured on NPR, they must be worth my while. I first met with Nora for coffee to be vetted for a free membership in their client database. What I noticed immediately about her was that she wasn't pushy or sales-y in any way. She was friendly, attentive, and thorough in her inquiry about what I was looking for in a long-term relationship. It felt like talking to a knowledgeable girlfriend. After I decided to work with them as a paying client, Christie was assigned to be my main matchmaker. She has an Ed.D from USC. She's also a licensed marriage and family therapist. In addition to being highly intelligent, she's also wise and insightful when it came to love and dating. We met up for lunch for 2 hours. During that time, not only did she ask about my relationship history, but also my relationship goals and family dynamics, to get a sense of how my parents modeled for me what it's like to be in a long term relationship. I'd say the best thing about working with TDR is you get to outsource the physically, mentally, and emotionally exhausting process of searching for your life partner. We seek professional help in other aspects of our lives, why not this one as well? I had similar experiences with other reviewers in that it took her awhile to match me with potential partners. Two things I realized in hindsight: 1) I was looking for my future my life partner. I'd rather her be thorough, careful and methodical about it than throwing random guys my way. I admit, I was anxious at first, but I decided to trust the process and especially to trust Christie and her expertise 2) I was unclear as to what I was looking for. I initially started with 20 some criteria in my list of the "perfect man." Since nobody could live up to that type of perfection, it took awhile for Christie to find me someone compatible. Once I narrowed it down to 5 non-negotiable traits, Christie introduced me to my current beau. He's literally an embodiment of all these traits. Another awesome thing about working with TDR is that they customize their service towards what's needed for you to meet your best match. As was explained to me, if you're into dentists, they'll go to a dental conference and scout the scene, trying to see if there's anyone who's "your type." They would then approach this person and ask them whether they're single and interested in meeting this wonderful client of theirs who seem to be a good match for them. What Christie did for me was amazing. She did some deep digging on social media by first looking through Instagram (IG) pages of restaurants in the vicinity. She then looked through people who regularly commented on food pics and started following my current beau's public IG page. Her reasoning was: since I'm a major foodie, I'd probably get along with another foodie, and proximity wise, we have to somewhat be near each other for this relationship to organically grow. Now that I'm exclusive with my current beau, Christie has stopped searching for potential matches on my behalf. Instead, she has taken on the role of a relationship coach/therapist. Working with TDR was the best investment I made because I met the love of my life through it. Love you Christie! A deep bow of gratitude to you and the awesome matchmakers in TDR LA! read more

I never got a call or email about them finding someone for me. This service is only worth it if you pay the $$$$$ (thousands!) to be a client to get set up. read more

I'm so grateful for all of the work done by the Three Day Rule team. Thanks to Talia and her matchmakers, I'm getting married later this month to the most amazing woman. Had it not been for TDR, then we probably would have never met. TDR is worlds better than other dating services. I went on dates with four women through TDR, and all of them were fantastic. The fourth one was obviously the charm. TDR curates the women for you, so you don't show up completely surprised. The women look like their pictures, they are in line with the types of women that you're interested in, and it didn't take dozens of frustrating texts and messages to get the date set up in the first place. Furthermore, TDR really helped me to become a dater. I was doing a number of things wrong that I didn't realize. Their honest feedback helped me enter dates with a more confident approach. Prior to TDR, I had gone on online dates with 75 different women. That's not an exaggeration. It was an incredibly frustrating process to send message after message that was ignored. It was even more frustrating to go on a date and have it be a complete bust. TDR doesn't guarantee you anything. But it does dramatically improve your odds of finding the right person. And it's worthwhile to pay that extra amount to save yourself the enormous time and energy drain that comes with modern online dating. read more

Three day rule is a pretty excellent service. I signed up for a 6 month contract at $7500 and received 9 matches, of which 6 were really compelling and one turned into my current relationship. Three day is awesome from the perspective that they dont flood you with matches. They have the opposite approach: they're all going to send a few very select matches. While it was frustrating initially to receive matches slowly (when you pay 7500 you want a million matches right away), it actually ended up being perfect. I was only spending time on great matches and not dating all of bumble like I was previously. This was great. Incredible service. Trust the process like the other review says! read more

I gave them a three star because they are professional in customer service. In terms of the dating service, it's a complete rip off. You pay upfront for about $2k per match and they have no accountability whatsoever. I was ghosted and stood up by my first match. I have never been ghosted and stood up by the same date in my entire life and yet this one I paid a high price for. The thing is nothing stops them from hiring someone to pretend they are interested in you and then ghost you. Go check out BBB reviews and complaints - many paying clients have claimed to be ghosted by their matches. Process is completely opaque, so it could be a total scam. read more

Nada is a wonderful matchmaker. My experience with Nada at Three Day Rule has exceeded my expectations. She is warm, caring and really gets to know her clients. She *genuinely* listens, which is everything! Nada is looking to make an *authentic* connection for her clients and all matches she puts forward are quality individuals who meet a client's criteria and are looking for the same thing as you. The whole experience of engaging with Nada is positive and FUN... just keep your heart and mind open and show up to meet the friend your *friend* wants to set to up with! My overall experience with Three Day Rule has been very good and I feel it is worth the investment. I appreciate that I can focus my time and energy on showing up, having fun with the process, and making quality connections with cool people I might not otherwise meet. Thank You, Nada, for making dating now something to which I look forward. Already looking forward to see with whom you match me next! :) read more

Krissy is a godsend! I signed up for Three Day Rule and definitely, as I'm sure many do, had my fair share of doubts. After years of swiping on dating apps with no luck, I was ready to try something new. Could a matchmaking service actually work? I'm here to tell you...YES! I met with Krissy and we did a deep dive into everything I'm looking for in a match. (Let's be honest, my laundry list was LONG.) But to my surprise, the more specific I was, the better. I can confidently say that all of my matches perfectly fit exactly what I was looking for. Working with Krissy saved me SO much time -- I would have needed to swipe for MONTHS if not years to meet these men. While I am still dating each of them to see where things go, I couldn't be happier with the choices that were presented to me. Thank you Talia, Krissy and the TDR team. I'm so happy I took the leap into the world of matchmaking! read more

I had a great experience! Michal is an amazing matchmaker. She really listened to what I was looking for and provided well-vetted matches. I am still seeing one of the matches and feel very positive about it! Above all, Michal is so personable and friendly - it was a pleasure to work with her! read more

I started working with Nada from 3 day rule, since the pandemic has made it harder to meet people in real life and I am not a huge fan of the time and effort dating apps require. She is very thorough and listens well. She seems to have a good beat on what I am looking for. Working with a matchmaker that filters for my preferences is a big pro. The men I have met through her are all high quality, good matches who are relationship and marriage oriented (something that is important to me). She is accessible after the dates for help and advice. If you have ever considered working with a matchmaker now is the time! read more

I worked with Natalia M. Natalia is intuitive, personable and honest. She really spends time with you to understand what you need and want in a partner. She has a great understanding of dating dynamics and personalities. It was truly a pleasure to work with her. Feels like I gained insight of myself and my dating patterns in this experience. Thank you! read more

I normally don't write bad reviews but when I feel like a company doesn't stand behind what they sell, I make it my responsibility to let others know so that they don't fall trap into the scheme. The company boasts giving you at least 6 matches (what they mean is only 6 matches). And when speaking with the matchmakers, they will tell you that you are not obligated to take into account the matches if you don't deem them a good fit. Well, let's say 2/6 matches I didn't meet up with bc they were not my type' and yes, I provided images of real people I've dated for reference so they know what to look for amongst the list of questions I answered from TDR to ensure they find a good match. When discussing that with both matchmakers ( I worked with Yvette originally then got transferred to Skylar in NY after Yvette wasn't allowed back into the US during the pandemic), there is no discussion, this is counted as your match. 1/6 matches, tried to size me up within 5 minutes of meeting up which made me feel uncomfortable. With that being said, 3/6 matches were actually good guys who just simply didn't work out because we lacked chemistry or our lifestyles didn't match. With only 3/6 as being ok matches and the other half were matches that aren't my type (I gave my preferences with generous range). With each match being $1250 a piece (I believe the price has gone up now with the pandemic), I feel like they have to meet at least a majority of what you're looking for and be ,at least ,somewhat attracted to them. In terms of quality of matches to what you're looking for, I'd give it a rough 2.5 stars (based on the quality of matches overall). Professionalism I'd give them a solid 4. They were always responsive with my questions within a timely manner. Although their bi-weekly chimes were sometimes more monthly chimes, the matchmakers were always professional and kind. Would I use this service again. Probably not. In my humble opinion, I think this service is made more for people who have just got back into the dating scene and need a little acclimation to the modern climate. If you've been in the dating and meet up apps, you'll have more odds of getting a better match. And frankly, a few dates confirmed they entered TDR's pool through Tinder. So you are essentially searching the same pool as the apps. It may take a little more time to sort through the junk, but it's a LOT less expensive. A price that I think would have been fair for my matches "6" matches, $3k would have been fair since only 1/2 were ok matches. When I expressed my disappointment, management reached out with 2 free coaching session. Sorry, but I don't need coaching sessions. I'm looking for suitable matches which is why I signed up for a matchmaking service to begin with. If you don't have much expectations, have some money to burn, and want to meet some fun + energetic matchmakers, this might be the company for you. If you are results driven like I am, this may not be right for you. read more

I worked w/ Yvette and she spent a lot of time getting to know me and what I was looking for, absolutely would recommend working with her, especially as it becomes more and more challenging meeting people during the pandemic. read more

My experience with TDR has been nothing short of excellent, especially since they matched me with my now husband! From beginning to end, my matchmakers Caitlin (NYC) and Rachel (SF), were so attentive and sweet. At the time, while still being matched in New York, I decided to move to San Francisco. And though I was concerned about building another great relationship with a different matchmaker, TDR made my transition so smooth and easy, and ultimately, they paired me with Rachel. She is truly one of the best in what she does: she is caring, empathetic, diligent and really tries to "get" you and understand what moves you. It is because of all these invaluable qualities that enabled her to find my husband.  I am truly indebted to you, Rachel! And am so thankful that you were my "cupid." read more

I've been working with Kat Markiewicz and she is exceptional - empathetic, kind and a great listener. She takes the time to understand what people are looking for, responds promptly and gives outstanding advice on how to have a great time on dates. She recently introduced me to an amazing girl and I couldn't be happier. read more

I'm having a lot of fun with TDR, and I feel safe with their process. Stacey has been awesome and supportive of me during my dating process, and I've been getting a ton of great matches. She has made dating so much easier and less time consuming for me and is very efficient. I no longer have to worry about my safety or wasting my time. All my dates through Stacey have been very well-vetted and are always excited to see me. read more

I had a great experience with TDR. My matchmaker Nancy has been wonderful to work with. It's almost been like working with an old friend. I've felt heard throughout the entire process. She also introduced me to a wonderful man who is now my boyfriend. Yay! read more

I had a very positive experience with the matchmaker, Kristen, who reached out to me with a match. She was consistent and prompt in responses, engaging with me, and encouraging regular interaction with the proposed match. I welcome further interactions with Kristen and other matchmakers from Three Day Rule. I also recommend this service to singles who are looking for an attentive group aiming to help people like me find our forever relationships. read more

Quin is truly a professional! From her extensive network to her genuine care for all those she works with, having Quin in your corner will give you an incredible advantage when it comes to your love life. She is kind, thoughtful, and positive, and always your biggest cheerleader! read more

I was recently divorced so decided to try three day rule to get back into dating. Not only did they set up with high caliber dates, they coached me through the process and really helped me get my swagger back ;) I've now been steady with my guy I met through TDR for 5 months. So far so goo Update - we are at 6 months! read more

Talia and her team are wonderful to work with and I felt supported the entire way through. The company does an amazing job at figuring out what the client wants and then hand picks the right match. I cannot think of a better use of outsourcing and time we'll spent than on hiring TDR to find me the right match. I met my boyfriend through the service and he's what I've been looking for. I'm very excited for my new relationship and I'm so thankful that TDR had my back the entire time. I also loved the coaching I got too with my matchmaker during the process. I recommend getting out of your comfort zone and let the pros do their job! Trust the process! read more

I had heard about Three Day Rule from one of my friends that was successfully matched up by Callie, so naturally I had to check it out myself. My experience with Callie has been like a breath of fresh air, and a fun, new approach to dating! After creating a profile, I had an in-depth, one-on-one meeting with Callie - and just from the one hour I spent with her, I could tell she was intuitive, experienced, passionate about her work, and just really good at her job. She genuinely cared about getting to know who I was and what a compatible match would look like for me. The meeting was fun and friendly (Callie is really easy to talk to), but more importantly, it was a great way for me to really think through what was important to me in a partner. Highly recommend and know I am in totally capable hands with Callie! read more

I went to Three Day Rule because was interested in dating, but didn't have time to sift through a million profiles. Michal was featured as a fabulous matchmaker in the Philly press. She did not disappoint. She took the time to understand who I am and what I was looking for, but beyond that, she sincerely cares. She does this work because she wants there to be more love in the world. I am honestly grateful to know her. Besides being an incredible person, Michal is extremely skilled with a wide network of possible matches. She does the sifting for you and finds people with real potential. She even had tons of creative ideas about how to manage dating under stay-at-home orders for coronavirus. She inspired me to be open to all kinds of new experiences. Michal matched me with amazing people, encouraged me to try new things, and the entire process was a ton of fun. Can't recommend her and Three Day Rule highly enough. read more

If you're considering signing up with Three Day Rule and paying them thousands of dollars then you should know that how TDR works is that they charge you $4500 and they guarantee 3 matches, it costs $1500 per match. You meet with a matchmaker and tell them who you are looking for and you also share photos of your type. They tell you all about their facial-matching software that they promise to use to find you people that you will be attracted to, and they promise to also match the other criteria that you share with them. It's all very impressive and you figure that you get what you pay for, if it's going to cost $1500 to meet one person well then the fancy software and personalized service will really help you to find someone. Everything seems amazing, they seem like they really care about you and are working hard for you but that all goes away when you receive your first match and it's not at all what you were expecting. They set you up with someone who isn't what you're looking for and then the kicker is that if you decline to meet this person well then you have just used up 1 of your 3 matches, you just paid $1500 for nothing. And then this happens again and again, all the while they're telling you how much they care about you and how valued you are as a client and how hard they are working. TDR puts you into an impossible situation where they ignore your matching criteria, they set you up with dates who are not at all what you are looking for and then they force you to make a lose-lose choice between going on a date that you know isn't going to lead anywhere or rejecting the date and hurting someone's feelings. So either you have to lead someone on or you have to hurt their feelings by saying no to meeting them. I wanted to be a gentleman and show respect for my matches (who were all good people) even though I felt bad for wasting their time, I knew there would not be a second date and I hate to give anyone false hope like TDR gave me, it just isn't right. When your membership is over, you've spent nearly five thousand dollars for nothing other than a lot of pain, you really wonder why they would do this to you. If you are considering signing up with Three Day Rule and paying them thousands of dollars then you should take the time to read through these Yelp reviews. If you do you'll see detailed accounts from actual former clients mixed in with glowing, 5-star reviews that are vague and generic and read like press releases and all of them flooding onto the site around the same time. Gives you an insight into how this company does business. read more

While I cannot speak to the outcome of my membership just yet, I can share that I enjoy working with Grace, my TDR matchmaker. She's been lovely through the whole process and goes the extra mile in her Match Overview emails. She understands what I'm looking for and has done a great job in finding potential matches thus far. If anything, the process has helped crystalize what's most important for me in finding a long-term partner and that clarity has helped me to be more discerning in my own dating journey. read more

I have nothing but positive things to say about Talia Goldstein and Elisa Del Castillo, who I've both worked with. They are both extremely professional, supportive, and helpful. Most importantly, they care about you and look out for you and are in your corner. Their advice, guidance, and matches have been invaluable to me and I very much appreciate their work. I highly recommend working with TDR! read more

I want to start off by saying of course one's impression of TDR will be somewhat shaped by whether or not you meet someone who turns into a successful long term relationship. So my disclaimer is I indeed got matched with an amazing woman and we're currently very happily dating. However I'll try to keep the review as objective as possible. I signed up for the 6-match package, which ended up running about $6000. The initial intake process was impressive. My first matchmaker was Nicolette, who was super peppy and encouraging. She sat down with me for 3 hours to go over what I was looking for in a mate, what my previous relationships were like, etc. They set me up with a professional photographer who took some flattering quality photos of me (which was helpful since I honestly don't have many good pictures of myself). They asked for photos of my ex's and girls I liked (this is important because I've heard they have their own proprietary photo matching system which helps find matches who fit "your type.") My first three matches were all good quality but for a variety of reasons we did not end up dating longterm. First girl ended up getting back together with her ex, second girl I didn't really have chemistry with, etc. Nicolette was very involved with the whole dating process; she would call me and tell me in detail about each match and would check in on how each date went. After my third match, I was informed Nicolette was leaving the company (no reason given) and I was assigned to a new matchmaker, Alyssa. I met with Alyssa in person briefly (about 30 minutes), but I assumed she had all the information that Nicolette gathered. Interestingly, even though Alyssa seemed less involved (she would just e-mail me the matches instead of calling, and she wasn't as responsive in terms of following up after dates), the match quality seemed better with her...except for one case. She gave me a "bonus match" (didn't count towards my 6 matches) which later she admitted she didn't vet very well. That date was a nightmare: girl was late, didn't apologize, met my "deal breaker" criteria (and I only have one), ordered 6 appetizers and 2 entrees (which she hardly touched and packed to go), only wanted to talk about herself, didn't thank me for the paying the bill, and before I could tell her I wasn't interested in a second date, she told me she "most definitely" was not interested and said she was getting sick so please don't hug her goodbye (which I wasn't planning on doing, but thanks for telling me after sharing all that food with me). I hope she is no longer on their match database. At that point I was feeling very discouraged and only had one match left. Luckily for me they saved the best for last. This girl was amazing: we clicked immediately on our first date. She was cute, smart, funny, articulate, and successful. Our second date was equally great. After our second date, covid shut everything down and I was really bummed, but we ended up continuing dating virtually. We talked everyday by text and had weekly Zoom dates which lasted late into the night. Eventually we started seeing each other in person again. We've been officially a couple for over a month now and things are going well. So long story short, TDR worked for me, but I know it doesn't always work for everyone. There seems to be large variations in each matchmaker's style, but in the end the quality of their matches is obviously most important, and Alyssa definitely had good taste (except for that one "bonus match;" make sure they vet your matches, even bonus ones!). So the 4 stars is really because of the single horrible date. This service is not cheap, but if you have the funds and you aren't having luck in other dating arenas, it's worth a shot. Alternatively, you can be placed on their non-paying client list, especially if you're female and/or have very good credentials. Hope this review was helpful. read more

Good companies have satisfied customers, and they do what it takes to make customers happy when things go wrong. Bad companies use shady tactics and just make excuses for the bad customer experiences. I started dating again earlier this year and used the free dating apps. It was taking too much of my time, so I sought out a professional matchmaker service. The Three Day Rule process started with an initial call with their sales rep, and I explained that I'm looking for the right person to settle down with. She had me describe my type (personality, physical features, career, religion, etc...), and she said they can definitely help find a great match. I signed up for the $5,900 contract that is 3 months with 1 match per month (roughly $2,000 per match). They require the full payment up front, and it is non-refundable. My matchmaker then had me send her pictures of girls that are my type just to be clear on what I was looking for. She also sent me on a photoshoot and a couple of free sessions with a life coach. My first match was horribly different from my type, but I was persuaded to give her a try and go on a date. I followed up with my matchmaker to clarify what I'm looking for, but the next two matches she sent were equally disappointing. I tried to reject the matches, but she pleasantly stated that she was fulfilling the terms of the contract whether or not I agreed to go on a date with the matches, and they could not be replaced. There was mutual dis-interest and no chemistry with all three matches. I expressed my dissatisfaction to my matchmaker, and she tried to make it up by giving me part of their VIP package for free and showing a few additional candidates from their database to ask if I wanted to match with any of them. The additional candidates were no better than the official matches that I received, so I did not go on any more dates. At the end of my contract, my matchmaker tried to change the frame of this experience from failing to provide any good matches to instead being proud of my personal growth in trying something new along my ongoing dating journey. The matches were just so terrible that the entire experience was indistinguishable from being scammed. Their responses to other negative reviews are expertly crafted to paint themselves in a positive light, but they don't actually do anything to make unsatisfied customers happier. A good company would refund these customers. To sum it up, this was a complete waste of time and money. Both the sales person and my matchmaker had deliberately sweet and positive personalities, and they were very nice about taking my money and stating that I technically received what I paid for. My constant feedback was always met with surprise that they weren't meeting my expectations, and there was no improvement in the quality of matches which were far below what I find using the free dating apps. If you are simply not going any dates using the free dating apps, then you might be satisfied with this service because they could get you dates. If you can find matches using the free dating apps, then you will get far better results on your own. I hope this review helps others make an informed decision. read more

This has got to be the biggest rip off I have ever done in my life. I am not sure how they find these men or qualify them to say they are one of your dates when clearly there is no intention of integrity. I really thought they would know me and understand what I was looking for being a busy woman, but clearly they just throw anybody at you and see if it sticks you pay for that and it's not cheap. WORST!!!!! read more

I was completely skeptical that I would ever enjoy dating, but my matchmaker Kat, really seemed to understand me. And it turns out she does! she set me up with someone spectacular who I never would have found on my own. The monetary investment in working with Three Day Rule is so worth it. If you have no interest in dating, but want to try to meet someone great, work with Three Day Rule. You will not regret it. read more

Working with Jaime to meet potential matches has been a great experience. TDR seems selective in their process, both in taking on clients and recommending matches. I have been particularly impressed with the transparency Jaime provides- asking REAL questions to make sure no one is wasting their time. I would highly recommend working with Jaime or any number of her colleagues at Three Day Rule. read more

Kat in Chicago contacted me about a client she had in mind for me, but first we talked about what I was looking for in a potential match. She was very efficient in her approach in that she only asked thoughtful and relevant questions. She was warm, friendly, engaged and a good listener. She told me about her client and followed up with a pic and bio. I was amazed at how much I had in common with "X" - he sounded too good to be true - but I agreed she could share my contact information. X texted me the very next day, we talked that evening and we continued texting until we could meet about a week later. In this time of social distancing, we decided to get coffee and walk to a park even though it was lightly raining. We chatted nonstop under umbrellas, and the next thing you know, two hours had past. He walked me to my car and asked me out on a second date. Due to the protests, riots and closed streets, we had to reschedule our second date a couple times, but that gave us more time to connect over the phone. Finally, we had our second date, it was even better than the first and we will go out again soon. It wasn't too good to be true after all. Kat described him incredibly well and with complete honesty. I'm so grateful Kat introduced me to X because I don't know how we would have met since we are not in the same neighborhood, profession or social circles. It really showed the value of matchmaking -- it's much more productive than endless swiping on dating apps where most guys I meet are either not good matches or are only looking for a casual date. I've been set up with clients through 3 other matchmaking companies and felt they were not as accurate or honest in their descriptions in the guys, and therefore the matches were not right. I'm very grateful for Kat and TDR. Thank you! read more

Initially signing up for TDR was an exciting and second guessing process at the same time. I wasn't exactly sure what I was going to be getting myself into, but Jaime made the entire experience as wonderful as it could possibly be. Throughout the whole process I not only was able to meet and learn from each match that Jaime was able to provide, but I was also able to learn about myself. Looking back on the entire process, the constant feedback from Jaime not only helped my dating life, but also helped me grow as a person. I cannot thank Jaime enough for everything that she was able to provide me, including a woman that I can create something special with and call my best friend. read more

I worked with Katherine Haselkorn for a bit, not only is she the sweetest person ever but she's SO easy to talk to and made me feel so comfortable. I mostly just wanted to get more information about TDR services and how the matchmaking works, she was great at explaining everything and I truly felt like I learned a lot about the different dating obstacles in 2019. Now that I know all the information I feel A LOT more comfortable and may begin meeting with her again in the future. Thanks so much, Katherine, you're the best! read more